>Have gf of four years
>She's become cold and distant
>She isn't cheating, she's just borderline asexual
>Some abuse thing or another in her past
>I've grown out of caring for my own sake
>Woman at work
>Single mother - cut ties with the father but will co-operate with father for sake of child
>Was tidy as fuck five ago (according to pics)
>She's a bit chubbier now and lacking self esteem
>I love a bit of cushion... Or at least I did before I was locked into a relationship
This is a no brainer.
Right?
>>16890223
Confront your girlfriend first, tell her you're drifting. guage her response then make the choice for yourself.
Depends what you want from a relationship, I wouldn't ditch a girlfriend for a single mother, she is desperate for a baby daddy.
>>16890256
You talk sense.
I wouldn't ditch her for the single mother. It's just that the single mother is there for the dicking and my gf isn't.
Even if I ditched the gf for the litany of reasons I have buzzing around my brain, I would never enter any meaningful relationship with used goods.
Call me a pig but I'm a realist with self respect.
>>16890284
Not a pig anon, people who try to force their morality onto others by shaming them on /adv/ are the real pigs.
If you can keep it a secret.
Also, consider the single mother, there's a possibility if you dick her and run she might try to burn you.
There is a chance your not mentally prepared to cheat and live with a clear conscience.
I hope you clear your history of this thread if you're serious because you don't want to leave any evidence.
But your first priority would be to do this
>Plan something nice with your girlfriend, romance her pick her a flower or some shit I don't care
>Admit to your girlfriend you're sexually frustrated
>kiss her neck, whatever just be very loving toward her
>give her a back massage or whatever she likes and eat her pussy
IF she doesn't emulate what you're putting out tell her you don't like where the relationship is at and then consider dicking the mother.
Use pic related, it's a good pussy eating recipe
gl anon
>>16890223
>Single mother
not even once
