Is it still gay if you'd only do it with a single person and you only did it because he was going through a rough patch in his life and you were always the top?
Yes.
It's even more gay if you try and convince yourself it's not gay because you did it with a single person and you only did it because he was going through a rough patch in his life and you were always on top.
yes.
are you gay? probably. maybe not. but chances are you are going to go through a series of 'well this one didnt count cuz XX and this one didnt count cuz YY'
trust me i feel your pain. there's a large rush of 'im not gay but i have sex with men' because being gay is considered worse than ever. but sex with men isnt. people just dont want to be a faggot.
probably not, you just happened to do a gay thing
>>16887607
>you only did it because he was going through a rough patch in his life
KEK you gullible little slut
I guess stupid men are really no different from stupid women, exposed to the same tactics of manipulation
>>16887607
how did you get erect mate?
>>16887736
i don't think so, op is probably a closet faggot looking for validation to his faggotrism..
One way or another you shouldn't beat yourself up, or worry about it.
Your friend pretty blatantly used you which is incredibly shitty.
I hope you at least feel good that you helped him do what every gay man wants to do: coerce a straight man into gay sex.
>>16887607
Yes
>>16887705
This. Greeks and Romans used to do gay things with each other sometimes for contrived reasons but ultimately married women and considered themselves heterosexual. Gayness is a spectrum and you happen to have enough of it to pityfuck your gay friend (I assume more than once.) It's only when you don't care about women at all that you become gay.
Op you are bisexual. Even if you are only attracted to this one huy, the attraction is there. That's ok, bisexuality is a sliding scale. You just happen to be mostly straight.
>>16887752
This. I'd be limp as liquorice as soon as I saw his asshole.
>>16887812
I mean it's a hairy ugly mess sure but a lot of gay men take care of it and it ends up looking like a girl's.
>>16887824
>it ends up looking like a girls
does it though? girls asses are maybe slightly less hairy than mens asses. they just take the time to shave it regularly. as do gay men.
unless they are using female hormones its actually rare for it to match the shape of a womans ass. its actually REALLY easy to tell them apart even in close ups with both shaved because womens and mens butts are more distinct then whether or not they are hairy.
hate to say it mate, but if you got erect at his dude butt you're probably bi.
embrace it? no reason to come out. just stop thinking about what is associated with male sex and just do what you want.
this reminds me of a class i had in highschool
>war/conflict teacher discussing some awesome greek soldier
>goes into the fact that he was notably homosexual
>student goes 'HE WAS GAY?' all shocked
>teacher looks over and says 'it was different back then'
>'oh okay.' nods understandingly as if that explains everything and its now okay
there really is a mindset of what homosexuality means in this day and age. its the reason you get so many homos acting like they are superior cuz they are 'masc' or go 'staight4straight' only.
>>16887844
>its actually REALLY easy to tell them apart
This is factually incorrect. Asses don't have a lot of sexual dimorphism, hips do. This is the ass of a man who has taken no hormones for example.
>>16887879
sauce it
>>16887879
the fact that you screenshotted and cropped an image is suspicious
>>16887924
This post made my day :D
