19 year old friendless virgin here, seriously considering dropping up to $1000 on a decent prostitute
Losing your virginity won't solve the underlying issue that's causing your inability to have sexual encounters
>>16881950
Spend the money on a personal trainer and get buff.
>>16881950
Bruh bruh that's a lot money
Can't you just find some lonely ugly chick or something?
>>16881959
This. All a hooker is going to do is give you sex. She's not going to make you more attractive, she's not going to make you more confident, she's not going to take away your insecurities, and she's not going to make you more likeable. A prostitute will not solve your problems.
>>16881964
>>16881959
years of being socially isolated has made it impossible for me to initiate conversation with girls, let alone attractive ones.
>>16881974
Breeeuh... I know you can pull a fat chick or something. I've got atleast that much confidence in you, my man.
>>16881950
that seems a bit too much. wouldn't it be better to spend it on cheaper prostitutes? i mean, you are just going to fuck. it shouldn't be that expensive
>>16881984
as long as she wasn't obese, i would have to put a mask on her face whilst we're fucking though
pussy is a primal need, all men need pussy like its food or water...it's sad that it's had to come to this
>>16882001
Hey and it won't cost you 1000 dollar!
>>16882015
i want to fuck an aryan goddess though, not some repulsive slug
>>16882018
In that case drop them bands on her!
$300 is plenty. Use TER for reviews.
>>16881950
Don't listen to the people telling you not to do it. I imagine you've thought it through and don't really care to solve any of the problems that may have compelled you to do this in the first place, and that's fine. There's nothing wrong with not caring and there's certainly nothing wrong with purchasing a prostitute, especially if she's high class.
>yfw you have too much anxiety to get hard with a whore and leave with $300 less and more shame
>>16881950
Don't waste your money. You're not enough of an epicure to appreciate a $1000 hooker. Go bargain basement.
>>16881950
>decent prostitute
Oxymoron if I've ever heard one
>>16881950
fun fact
there are 105 males born to every 100 females
x 50,000,000 births a years that an excess of 2500,000 extra males a year. Ovr 10 years your dateing range that 25M extra males, an thats not counting the china pref for males which makes this worse. then the fact that 7/10 women are fugly, so you are going for a very small number of hot women versus a massive excess of males. So it not just you traing money etc etc....your just fucked not matter what you do.
You'll be dissapointed, and very much so.. It's a disgusting experience and will most likely drive you further away from people.
>>16882280
^this really, thread
THIS CALLS FOR PICTURE OF OP, lets see if he can walk up to random slut and ask for sex, we all know sluts say yes to "confident" people so lets see if he's got the looks for it
>>16882779
>fun fact
>there are 105 males born to every 100 females
Fun fact
The above is true, but because women live longer, the statistics actually balance out pretty quickly.
Don't do it just
serious just wait
I got me a prostitute when I was 16 because I was so fucking impatient.
Less than a couple months after I had it with a regular chick.
yet I'm marked for life for having lost my virginity to a whore
>>16882873
>yet I'm marked for life for having lost my virginity to a whore
This. When I was a virgin I often contemplated losing it to a hooker, but I'm glad I didn't.
Imagine you did it and you're 21, you've got a girlfriend and she asks about your first time. You have to lie if you lose it to a prostitute. Don't do it, it's really not worth it.
>>16882895
How is that worse than saying "im a 21 year old vrigin"??
>>16882868
I was about to call you on that, since infant mortality in the west is pretty low and most of the major health risks for men don't appear until adulthood (I mean, you're obviously right in the main, but it's not like a significant gender imbalance in 60+ yo seniors is going to have much relevance to this thread.) Having pulled up some stats, though, you're actually right -- women are a slight majority in most of the world, including Europe and America, even looking only at under-15-yr-olds. I wonder why and how.
>>16882910
I see your point, I just don't think losing your virginity to a prostitute is a good way to do it.
I can imagine you'd come to terms with it after a while, but at least for me, if I'd gone through with it I think it would have fucked me up. My first time was bad anyway, if money was involved then it would have been even worse.
>>16881950
Man. I was 21 before I lost my virginity. At 19 I wasn't necessarily friendless, but I was definitely lonely, and sure as fuck had no female friends. I'm glad I didn't go to a prostitute two years before. That definitely would have been more of a bombshell to drop on my first girlfriend than "I've actually never had sex" and it would have been kind of shitty to lie about it.
You're just not that old yet, dude. I don't really care about the prostitute thing, do what you want, but try to remember that. Having had sex at 21, I feel ... pretty much fine about it. And I'm coming to realize that there's plenty of people, attractive, well-adjusted people of both sexes, who were in the same boat as me.
>>16882949
There are a number of competing hypotheses, but I don't think there have been any serious studies. It tends to devolve quickly into jokes about men doing all the stupid shit.
>>16882960
Oh I see, I agree completely about the money part, I wouldn't waste money on sex that I probably won't enjoy either. But whenever I have my proper first time I will lie about it if I'm asked. I'll say it's my second. If the girl suddenly gets mad or something because she hoped it was my first time well fuck it. Society taught me that I can not be a virgin.
>>16881950
nigga 1000 is too much. You can find a top notch escort on backpage for like $300 an hour.
An "average" tier escort who's probably still hot as fuck anyways is usually like $200 an hour.
Anything less is usually low tier but some gems exist.
I paid $200 for a petite filipina who looked young but was actually like 35+. Tight, flexible and smelled great. Let me do anything except anal and sex without condom. That was how I lost my virginity and since then I haven't had much of problem with women since the weight of virginity was lifted.
>>16882974
Yeah, I mean, obviously men are at a higher risk for workplace deaths, violent crime, and illnesses like heart disease and so on (as well as alcoholism in part of the world) but ... it's not like those are common killers of young people. I'm a little boggled.
i imagine that, as a respulsive slug of a female, i would've been a virgin in my 20's easily and i would not have hesitated to drop some on a gigolo just to get used to the motions of being intimate, but i'm not the hypergamous type, can't and don't want to fuck chad gods.
i think a prostitute would help in certain situations if the virgin label really brings you down or you're scared of intimacy and a prostitute can introduce you to it without you having to worry if there's a long term thing on the line. she's a professional, she could even teach you how to be comfortable in your own skin, maybe teach you how to please a women and how to receive pleasure.
i don't know OP, just go for it.
I did OP and wished i did it a lot sooner. 1000 is way too much though.
1k!
That's much. Why don't you spend that in alcohol, drugs in a disco where are people like you want to be and get used to that?
>>16882621
kek
