I'm a virgin and before going all the way with my long-term boyfriend I want to give him a BJ. I'm worried that I won't be able to do a good job since I've never done anything sexual. Do any guys have tips or tricks that will make it feel better for him?
Dont just suck. Try many things. Lick, twirl your tongue, blow gently. Get creative, learn what he likes and do it more.
Do stuff with your hands. Cup his balls, grab his shaft, play with his legs. It shouldnt be mouth only.
Look him in the eyes when you can.
Dont be afraid of his come, it wont hurt you.
"omg where did u learn all this stuff??"
"i.. uh... 4chan?"
"... i don't know if i should be relieved or scared""
A good blowjob is actually half handjob.
>>16880758
Kek, he browses too but not /adv/. We're both shitty virgins but I guess that means I won't have to worry about not being as good as a girl he had before me.
make sure he doesn't have hpv. and do you have the hpv vaccine? hpv can cause cancer.
>>16880804
HPV vaccines are required in my state, and he's a virgin too so there's no way he could have an STD. Unless he just has the worst luck ever
Alright - CONDOM my good buddy if you prefer not to have cum in your mouth later - but if not, you do you. make the experience better - get a flavoured one or some flavoured lube if you're not using one.
Basically, think of it like a really nice icepop. You want to be careful, and for the love of god, never use teeth. my last 2 partners flinched because i thoguht it was a good idea (learn from your mistakes). Go at a steady pace, up and down, squeeze your lips a bit or extra pressure. If you want to rotate your tongue around - go for it. And if you need to, come up for air to ask if he wants to change how you're going.
stay safe and have fun!
>>16880893
>condom during blowjob
That's pretty evil.
KEEP THE TIP IN YOUR MOUTH
make sure its hermatically sealed. Lick around the head as you do. Lick a lot. While its in your mouth. The most sensitive part of the penis is the bottom part of the head. Find a way to get your tongue over there and lick away. This should be done just as much as sucking.
Now you have two hands. 1 hand much always stay on genitals. The other hand has 2 options. You can go sensual route and rub and squeeze his body as a form of communicating how much you are enjoying doing it. Or you can go for maximum pleasure and put 2 hands on his genitals.
You are going to want to massage his balls a lot while doing this. As you really get into it you can stroke his cock. Two hand stoke and bj to finish the job. Mix and match hands. 1 hand on balls and other stroking is pretty great to reach PONR
you're a virgin so let me give you a protip. please do not jack his peen with a steel grip. that shit hurts
>>16880939
dont listen to this faggot
Death grip is best grip.
He will probably struggle to stay hard when he's putting it in. That happens to most virgins.
>>16881345
Really? That wasn't my experience. Is it because most guys are nervous their first time?
most important thing to remember is to keep your teeth off the dick
>>16881358
Yeah. It was kind of a struggle to get it in and I kept getting soft. It was an awkward position and all. Second time was completely different though.
>>16880723
Just try not to bite or strangle his dick.
>>16880809
>HPV vaccines are required in my state
Which state is that? Just curious.
>>16881358
No, its do to porn and death gripping. A vagina feels completely different than masturbation and if you use porn its near impossible to actually feel the vagina if you do. Its not nerves, its just learning a new trick. If you dont use porn or masturbate than you are fine. It actually happened in reverse for me. I had a hard time staying hard after I picked back up masturbation and porn.
>>16880791
>We're both virgins
Problem solved. You are both inexperienced.
Slurp lots
Spit lots
gag on it
Put your head into
use no hands
no teeth
use your lips and tounge
suck whilst and after nutting
never stop when the guy is nutting
>>16880944
I know I'm really ignorant..but what does death grip mean?
>>16881516
When you grip your dick so hard it causes erectile dysfunction in the future
>>16880723
The advice here is good so I'll just reiterate what I think is the most important point. DO NOT USE TEETH. Teeth scraping your dick is not a pleasant feeling.
Also be sure to temper your expectations. He is either going to cum super fast or not be able to cum at all. If he can't cum at all that means he probably needs to stop death gripping his cock when he jerks it.
post pics when you're done
Wet, lots of friction and variety.
>>16881516
When you squeeze as if you are fucking a super tight vagina. It feels the best. The problem that people usually get though is that a vagina actually feels like a hotdog in a hallway unless the girl is amazing at sex with amazing kegel muscles so sex is very unfulfilling.
