I've realized that the reason I want to have sex with a

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2016-02-29 16:07:43 Post No. 16861205
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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:07:43 Post No. 16861205 [Report]

I've realized that the reason I want to have sex with a bunch of girls is because I just want validation. Validation that I'm attractive enough, funny/cool enough, "big" enough.

It's putting a strain on my relationship because any time I get horny, I start seriously considering leaving my girlfriend in pursuit of the feelings and other girls, but as soon as I've had sex/masturbated, I realize how dumb it would be and that I don't need their validation anyway. But then when I'm around guys who are getting girls or who the girls are fawning over/flirting with, I can't help but be jealous.

I don't know if this means I should be single and just do it, or if I need therapy to kill my need for validation from sex.

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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:16:19 Post No.16861227
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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:16:19 Post No.16861227 [Report]

>>16861205
Post pictures online?

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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:19:21 Post No.16861238
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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:19:21 Post No.16861238 [Report]

>>16861227
what?

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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:21:32 Post No.16861244
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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:21:32 Post No.16861244 [Report]

I don't really have advice besides not doing anything off the cuff. I'm mainly responding because I know what you mean. I don't have low self-esteem or anything but on dates and that I feel like sex means it's 'for real', seems odd for a guy I suppose.

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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:26:07 Post No.16861253
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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:26:07 Post No.16861253 [Report]

It means you're a whore. You need to build up your self respect that's internal and independent of others opinions or you will always be a slave to your image and fuck up your life and relationships.

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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:28:07 Post No.16861257
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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:28:07 Post No.16861257 [Report]

>>16861205

Do you actually love your girlfriend? Do you WANT it to work out, in the long run? You barely said a word about her in your post

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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:39:32 Post No.16861278
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Anonymous 2016-02-29 16:39:32 Post No.16861278 [Report]

>>16861257
I don't know. Sometimes I feel like I do, like we're really connected and good for each other, then other times she just bores me, and I'm just drained of energy being around her (but I can't tell if that has more todo with me and maybe depression, or avoiding responsibility).