You most likely can't. It's not anyone's fault. If that's the way she is, then that's how she is. Maybe in 5 years she may settle down but still ultimately that is up to her.

You need to treat all women the same, like your previous gfs. Otherwise you get situations like this. Now, you are texting her way too much. You are basically saying "im needy and insecure please validate me with a response". You are acting like a woman, dont put up with womens shit. They do it to see if you are a real man. If you immediatly give in you show that she can push you around, and if she can push you around how does she know you will stand up for her and defend ger when the time comes.

Wow, teach me master. All my attempts at relationships were from my side.