Hello all I married in January 2015. Im a very introverted homely

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Anonymous 2016-02-28 15:57:06 Post No. 16857648 [Report]

Hello all

I married in January 2015. Im a very introverted homely kinda guy... and since I never had any female friends... a marriage was arranged for me.

The girl seemed alright and I had no preferences... just hoped that she would be similar to me. Intelligent, disciplined and cared more about studies/career etc.

However, the girl has become a different person in these 7-8 months. I got details/stories (I was not being detective) from some female friends etc. that she had 3-4 boyfriends. She was clubbing/pool partying since 11th class.

Im not being a chauvinist pig... and I know that feminists will beat me up (because according to them feminism is that women are always right).

But I didnt have that kind of personality. I dont gel with her. When I see 11-12 year olds these days riding on scooties and kissing in public... it just sends shivers down my spine. I am a very regular kind of homely guy.
I cannot even imagine drinking alcohol and partying at 3 am then going to his friends PG and having sex. Maybe im not mature enough or advanced enough to understand that.

Help. I cannot discuss it with her as shes very hyper. And her elder sister is always angry.

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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:01:52 Post No.16857659
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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:01:52 Post No.16857659 [Report]

And your question is?

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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:04:36 Post No.16857669
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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:04:36 Post No.16857669 [Report]

you're a disgusting subhuman and she's not and this angers you.

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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:18:39 Post No.16857705
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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:18:39 Post No.16857705 [Report]

>>16857648
All things considered, it is generally a pretty good idea to get to know each other before you marry.

Right now, all you can do is try to talk with her. She is probably as unhappy with you as you are with her, but if you both really want to make a go of this, you'll have to each make some compromises and adjustments. Neither of you can live the same sort of life you did before marrying. So you're going to have to move a little in her direction, even if it feels uncomfortable, and she will have to make some concessions to your feelings.

This is exactly the sort of thing marriage counselling is for, if you can both be willing to try it.

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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:22:49 Post No.16857713
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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:22:49 Post No.16857713 [Report]

>>16857648
>dating party sluts

run for the hills op only a matter of time before she cheats on you and blames it on the alcohol.

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Mesadio. 2016-02-28 16:26:19 Post No.16857720
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Mesadio. 2016-02-28 16:26:19 Post No.16857720 [Report]

>>16857648
You should go to Saudi Arabia and get a divorce. Accuse her of infidelity, come back to your home. That should take care of your girl problems.

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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:59:22 Post No.16857803
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Anonymous 2016-02-28 16:59:22 Post No.16857803 [Report]

>>16857648
Where the hell are you from?

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Anonymous 2016-02-28 17:15:36 Post No.16857853
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Anonymous 2016-02-28 17:15:36 Post No.16857853 [Report]

Why don't you use your experience with dating her to grow yourself as a person. Hell, you already have in the way that you know what kind of girl you don't want...it's good start!