I'm going to have my first lesbian experience, this girl is younger, prettier and more experienced than me
How do I give her enough pleasure so that she doesn't look down on me or pity me? I kind of want to make her cum senseless, not because I like her as a person and want to pleasure her but just as a power dynamic thing
go on a porn site and search for
abby winters lesbian
it's not as over acted as big porno company videos.
>>16853445
Thanks
>>16853412
If she's really more experienced, AND she knows this is your first lesbian experience, then she should be more focused on pleasuring you rather than the other way around.
>>16853486
I don't feel much sexual pleasure any more because I fucked my body up, so the focus will be her pleasure.
>>16853488
>because I fucked my body up
Hmmm...curious....care to elaborate?
>>16853506
I masturbated too roughly as a teenager, and my orgasms faded to being barely pleasurable, masturbation is just something I do to relax before bed
Taking long breaks from masturbation, various drugs and exploration of my body have not helped, so I'm stuck like this I'm afraid.
>>16853513
Sorry to hear this OP.
Maybe your more experienced partner will view this as a challenge. If she does, go with it.
You never know what may happen. She can do things that you can't do to yourself.
>>16853524
So many experienced people have been so sure of themselves that they would be the ones to give me pleasure and they're always shocked when they can't.
I'm not too optimistic.
>>16853412
Follow her lead. Whether or not her techniques work on you, they are likely to be the things that work on her, so vopy them.
>>16853639
What if nothing works?
>>16853412
as a dude, I'd say:
for a start give her a massage, nibble her ear and lips, kiss her neck, belly and legs, suck her nipples, gently manipulate her camel toe from the outside, eat her pussy and put a couple of fingers inside
most of them seem to cum within five minutes from that treatment, with a little experience.
>>16853513
you might be surprised. if she's really a pro she could potenially make you cum without touching your beaver.
communicate with her and tell her you want to explore. this might give you a fresh perspective on your sexuality. this is also one of the reasons why I would reccomend that everyone should visit an experienced hooker at least once every couple of years.
Touch her everywhere, and make sure she knows how sexy she is.
Try to enjoy yourself at least a little too, no matter how much you fucked up your sex drive - if only one person is receiving pleasure, neither one is actually able to enjoy themselves.
>>16854461
Dude I've slept with pros before, they're so confident that they know how to give me pleasure but they always fail in my case. It's actually kind of satisfying to prove them wrong
I don't have erogenous zones so touching/kissing/licking my body never works, even my nipples are numb.
>>16854469
My sex drive is just fine, my sexual sensitivity is fucked.
I don't enjoy being touched sexually anymore, it's just gone.
>>16854478
Then get ready to waste your time lol
>>16854478
I think you're the woman they invented strap-ons for.
