Should I break up with my girlfriend? We can't hang out because my family is alcoholic white trash and we live in a broken down shit hole house that's depressing and her dad doesn't like me. If we have no way to hang out there's nothing you can do right?
>>16851785
How strong is the relationship on a scale of 1-10? Do you have concrete long-term plans together? Can you support yourselves?
>>16851839
Like a 5 kinda but not really and probably yeah if we both worked
>>16851863
So why aren't you taking her and getting some cheap place to rent? I would do it but only if there was enough trust in the relationship. Otherwise, at a 5/10, I probably wouldn't bother. Go find a new relationship?
>>16851888
We are its just I need to find a job when I share a vehicle with my parents who work and she wants to get a job too but she's in school I figure I can pay most of it if we get somewhere cheap
>>16851904
Yes, you may. Changing into a more independent state is always welcome. Maybe you'll need to sacrifice the car, get a bike or take public transport.
>>16851785
Yeah.
Unless you want to adult mode it and rent a place together and get jobs and shit.
Consider getting a scooter or busses or something until you can afford a car.