When is it time to GTFO of your current relationship?
I'm asking because a lot of shit has happened, and I just don't feel as happy as I used to.
Pic semi-related. It's our cat.
do you feel like the relationship makes you feel like shit and don't see a way to fix any of it?
do you feel like neither of you give a shit anymore?
do you feel like the relationship has not led to you getting closer to life goals and is stagnating?
>>16819856
She's cheated on me a few times before. I feel like crap because I'm overbearing and I do not trust her.
>>16819866
>She's cheated on me a few times before.
She's going to do it again. You're right to not trust her.
>>16819866
Leave now. Trust me. I wasted ten years with someone who cheated on me in the first 4 years. Resentment and doubt is all youll gain. Even if she truly changes youll never be able to trust her again. Dont waste your time ffs. If i could go back in time this is the one thing i would change about my life.
>>16819866
Leave.
The longer you stay with her while being unable to forgive her, the more you'll resent her until you/your relationship just falls apart.
I did it. I'm now so miserable I can't get out of bed. What now?
>>16821195
You learn to walk again after falling down. It will take some time, but you will be alright after a while. For now, though, you will feel like shit. Just don't be an idiot and jump into another relationship as a substitute. Love yourself for a while before you attempt again
>>16821195
How did you do it?
>our cat
Not anymore.
>>16819829
You sound like my gf and she is doing the same shit to me. Shit sucks cause I fucking love her stupid ass but I kind of deserve it. I was a dick for too many years and did a lot of fucked up shit. Now I wish I could save it.
>>16819866
>She cucked me
Why you still with her?
the only reason she doesn't live it's probably because you are giving her a free bed and free food.
>>16821195
hit the gym
If you keep asking yourself that question many times over a period of time, you know it's time to go.
>>16821339
>too many years
being a dick for any year is too many years
>>16819829
>when is it time to GTFO of your current relationship
when you are no longer happy and you no longer feel like salvaging it.
>>16821420
I wasn't a dick for literal years. I just did a few dick things.
>>16821564
uh huh.
>>16821572
Nobody's perfect
>>16822241
>slutty teen facebook girl who takes a lot of dick and gets her nudes sent around school after cheating on multiple guys and reduces all of this bevahior as simple human imperfection: The Post #344
Next.
I'm trying to reach a girl who doesn't want to be reached. She's having a very negative effect on my already shitty life. She doesn't care. What do I do?
>>16822246
Well I mean come on shit she is too far gone. I would pull the plug on that for sure. She is relationship material.
I have the same problem. I just don't give a shit anymore. We don't have fun like we used to and I want to cheat on her all the time. I think I'm wasting her time. she thinks about having a future with me, you know, having kids, getting married and all that shit. we didn't even have that much in common anyway, I'm just a desperate beta male who is recently trying to fix all the shit i've missed in my high school years
however I can't just throw her away, I had one of the greatest of my life with her. she made me lose my v-card. we don't have things in common, I seriously don't know how to have fun with a female.
the only time our relationship isn't a bore, is when we have sex, that's it: the only fun thing we do together is sex
I don't know how couples survive
please help an inexperienced anon out
>>16822254
Just let go. You'll feel like shit for some time, but your future self will be forever thankful. I'm the same situation right now anon
