I really should know this by now but no. Another girl seems to be into me but I don't know if I like girls?
>>16817040
If you are friends with them. And you get aroused by them physically or emotionally. You can call it love.
>>16817040
You'll feel it deep down in your pants
And maybe in your heart.
>>16817046
She's pretty amazing. Cooks like a pro and is nice and sweet. And I feel emotionally aroused by her for sure. Is this sexual attraction?
I dated a girl for a while in high school but it was definitely not love or anything. Also was a big mistake...
Usually I like guys. I hope this can work.
>>16817052
It's hard to feel much of anything these days. My heart's scarred and battle-torn :(
You're a fucking faggot
>>16817751
It's obviously a chick.
>>16817069
>It's hard to feel much of anything these days. My heart's scarred and battle-torn
I'm sorry to hear that. But if you don't mind my asking, how did that happen? It may be relevant to this question.
>>16817774
There's a lot I won't talk about. But I've lost the people closest to me, over and over again. Not just romantic love, if I've ever known it. But all kinds of love.
For a while it just seemed like the slow fate of love. Now it's turned kinda cruel and personal and I don't think I'm capable of love anymore. When I start having real feelings I put up defenses.
>>16817905
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1kx9o1idWrE
>>16817905
Soon you'll be a vessel of rage ripe for my armies
Let the hate flow through you
>>16818483
You'll never tempt me, Pegasus. I've been hurt in the past but remain pure in spite of my scars. Really I'm like the physical embodiment of loving compassion and true martyrdom.
I'll suffer for the world, though incapable of truly understanding or knowing it.
>How do you know if you're attracted to wrong women?
Pic related?
>>16817040
does your heart drop when you run into them?
does your willie/sin-cave get hard/wet when you think about them?
>>16818509
The way to Hell is paved with good intentions
>>16818527
Hell, I even believe Hitler thought he was doing the right thing.
>>16818532
He was
>>16818536
0/10.
>>16818509
Sounds like you have a love of love, but loving love is not loving. Here's to you, beautiful tragic hero, may you find your love.
>>16818540
You're right, Germans are barbaric scum and dirtied the name of the Reich
>>16817760
Actually it's a tranny freak.
>>16818527
I've lived through hell. It doesn't scare me.
Not anymore.
>>16818523
I don't know. Sometimes I don't want sex at all. Drive is low most of the time.
>>16818552
Thanks :)
Everything is going to be just fine. My therapist thinks so.
>>16818584
>believing someone you pay to tell you nice things
>>16818509
Most likely you actually just hate yourself so much that you think you're below every other person on earth and feel that the only thing worthwhile to do with your life is to make the deserving people feel good.
I hate this picture of her.
>>16818584
“The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven"
I think you'll be fine too anon. You're almost there :)
>>16818597
Talk therapy is very beneficial. Dunno why you gotta be a fag about it desu.
>>16818598
Most likely? Yeah no. I'm fucking amazing and don't give a shit what anyone thinks. I don't even know if I like people enough to want to be close to one.
Other people only seem to complicate my life. Idk why I sometimes want them.
>>16818611
Get the fuck out.
>>16818619
Thanks :)
You're pretty wonderful. We'll all make it, anon!
>>16818655
You're paying someone to listen to your first world problems
I didn't say it wasn't beneficial but don't pretend like its something more than that
>>16818664
What more would I want, beyond personal benefit? What are you even arguing here. Stop being a contrarian bitch for its own sake Pegasus.
You're better than that.
>>16817040
Forget about 'a' girl. If sucking tits,and licking pussy and nice asses and fucking a girl turns you on you are into women. If''a' woman and only 'a' woman turns you on it is oneitus and you are obsessed not attracted.
>>16818677
I'm not arguing anything I just disagree with method
But you're wrong, I'm not better than that
>>16818687
with the method*
>>16818677
>You're better than that.
no he's not, I've been watching this piece of lunchmeat for months, thanks to his habit of making himself difficult to ignore. and all he does is shit on people. granted some of them might deserve to be shit on, but we all do stupid shit. /adv/ is here to help people stop being stupid, not for shitting on them. that's what bee is for.
>>16818687
see?
>>16818680
am inclined to agree with this. if OP has tried women before and still can't tell if she's attracted to them, she's probably not.
>>16818700
I'm helping myself ;)
>>16818687
So which method do you disagree with? Talk therapy as a whole, or the "everything will be fine" piece?
And stop being so emo. No one cares that you're deficient in feelings of self-worth.
>>16818700
Pegasus is here to entertain himself. And if we're being honest pretty much everything posted here is self-serving distraction. I think he's one of the best posters because he's consistently creative in spite of his obvious RL failings. Don't tell him I said that though; it would only further encourage his unfortunate addiction.
>>16818722
Talk therapy as a whole, I don't see how talking to someone about issues can solve them (when they're mental issues not practical)
H-Hey now take it easy...
>>16818736
I think you're just talking. You don't know what you have an issue with here and you can't form a concrete argument against it.
Sorry if I went too far...
I didn't mean to hurt you or anything.
>>16818736
Talk therapy really does help. I've done CBT and DBT, and it's really helped me with self-esteem and is ultimately what got me to stop self-harming (which I've struggled with for a while now.).
I know it sounds like bullshit, but it's not. I was surprised too.
>>16818759
So now you're into hurting others! Great therapist! When can I see him/her? Maybe they can teach me how to hurt you back without getting caught. It was great seeing Anouk run past me again.
>>16818756
I guess I don't know what talk therapy is then
>tfw you're the only person that understands me on this fucking board
Explaining myself is too cumbersome; especially when nobody actually cares
This is why Taylor keeps having guys drive off: http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/28/the-death-of-rollo-tomassi/
Thanks for making my life miserable all these months. Don't forget to thank your friends either.
>>16818767
If there's one thing talk therapy isn't going to do, it's hurt you.
It's at least worth a try, anon.
>>16818779
Take your own advice.
>>16818759
I'm really glad it helped you. Self-harm is something I've struggled with too. People don't ever seem to take it seriously.
It doesn't sound like bullshit.
>>16818768
You're somewhat intelligent and insightful with an appetite for self-destruction. It's a sad combination and I hope you get your shit together for real, but until then I hope you continue entertaining us. The posters here love having someone to hate, you pathetic loser you.
>>16818776
?
If this somehow involves me you can email and we can talk. Lemme know if you need info.
>>16818798
Oh you went back to that
I'm not self-destructive, I simply don't care
There's a difference
>>16818804
I feel like not caring about your own well-being is a self-destructive tendency.
>>16818804
If you don't understand why being a jerk on 4chan for the attention is self-destructive then you're worse off than I'd realized.
>>16818820
You're entitled to your feelings but they're wrong
>>16818823
>for the attention
You were doing so well , almost fooled me that you possessed critical thinking
Do looks matter if a girl is ugly on the inside?
>>16818855
They're all ugly on the inside
>>16818834
Explain it to me again. I think you maybe did convince me before, but I forgot everything you said.
>>16818870
>Pegasus is here to entertain himself.
>>16818862
Just the ones I've dealt with. Could a therapist help with that?
>>16818874
Well you are, but it's so obvious that you hate yourself it's painful. You can maintain your dgaf attitude all you want, but you can't fool me.
This sort of entertainment, that you like to create? It's a part of the self-perpetuating cycle of negativity that you're so affected by.
>>16818890
I'm not affected by other people
Its time to stop projecting sweetheart
>>16818909
don't call me sweetheart.
>>16818914
Then stop trying to frame me as an emotional reactionary
>>16818931
apathy is an inherently destructive force.
>>16818956
apathy doesn't exist
please refrain from using meme science aka psychology terms
>>16818967
>>16818979
Kylo is old and busted
post your email again
>>16818992
why would i want to talk to you? i don't have time for your baggage and i'll probably have a gf soon if i turn out to like girls. can't have a social life AND spend my life chatting with hopeless mean people.
>>16819010
so I can see your benis and ass
>>16819014
ugh you're gross.
>>16819014
and what about your girlfriend? assuming you weren't lying about it. what would she think of you getting nudes from internet people?
>>16819052
She broke up with me, her problems
It wasn't gross when I made you cum tho right
Lets pretend that never happened : ^ )
Cat got your tongue sweetheart?
>>16819071
you'll never meet someone as interesting, creative, and awesome as me. i'll continue to get better and live a full life through therapy and sincere self-determination.
you'll stay as you are.
>>16819103
Playing hard to get this time ay?
>>16819110
you never had me.
>>16819110
Personally I love peggyboi.
Don't let her confuse you m8 no one understands anyone here. She only understands and knows your mask.
I love your beautiful charade. I'd meet you in person just to see how much of it was real.
Ride the battleship to victory!
>>16819103
funny how you said
someone instead of "a girl like me" or "woman like me"
you fucking people lol rrRealy
forcing yourself through life while i float effortlessly by so opposite
fucker
>>16819126
A good percentage is real
Like 99% at least
>>16819129
are you fucking drunk or something? god you're kind of disgusting.
>>16819141
I had a little to drink yeah but stop calling me disgusting when you were attracted to me =P
and for what
you're going to say it again even though it doesn't hurt me
is it just trolling? stop being gay and doing useless things
>>16819133
Dear god. o.o
Would wife/10
Seriously though, you do you boo.
>>16819148
talk to me when you're sober. you're really making as ass of yourself here.
and don't think you meant anything to me because you didn't.
>>16819163
i can't even make sense of what you're saying.
>>16819173
>wife
I'm a man baby
>>16819174
>making an ass out of myself
who cares lol its all a big fucking joke
>meant nothing
which is why you said you missed me the other day right
at least be consistent
>>16819174
SWWEEEET HEARTT
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HEART
>>16819186
Did I stutter?
>>16819201
you should email me then at [email protected]
>>16819186
>>16819197
you're probably pretty depressed over losing your gf. i feel sorry for you but am gonna go i think.
i'm trying to figure out if i like girls Pegasus, and think i really like this girl. she's nice, and real. which is important. you're an interesting person too but i get the feeling that you're a lot more destructive than you know.
you said some sweet things to me that no one else had before. but it doesn't mean i liked you or anything.
>>16819237
I knew she was on her way out anyway
You should watch this
https://youtu.be/VJ0doO3VFjc
Its literally me
>>16819256
are you okay? i'm starting to feel a little worried about you.
>>16819260
Save it
Don't feed me bullshit after you just said you don't care about me
>>16819269
you're the one that stopped talking to me out of nowhere. i figured you didn't care about me.
how was i supposed to deal with that? did you want me to cry over it? i've been hurt too many times to get worked up over you. you really have no idea.
well. I went to the community gym tonight. a very attractive girl hopped on the treadmill next to me, and I immediately had to go into 'don't do it, eyes forward. she's here to work out not get oggled. eyes forward damn it" mode
so if things like that happen, you're probably atttracted to women.
I'll admit I can't say I kept eyes entirely forward. CMON THERE WERE YOGA PANTS, who can fight that shit. sorry, kinda not sorry. if things like that happen you know for sure you're attracted to women.
its when you struggle to balance your "omg hot girl" reaction with at least trying to not be a complete horn dog. when you don't try to hit on the girl with the head phones in obviously just trying to get a work out in out of respect and then deal with regretting not at least trying it.
>>16819281
Just talk to me on email; this shit doesn't need to be public
>>16819269
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5xaxP_kErTU
You will always have someone, it might be faerie, or me, or some anon you haven't met yet.
The future is terrifying and beautiful.
Good night Night Vale, Goodnight.
>>16819292
That's a lie
Even if it wasn't I don't deserve any of it
>>16819289
BWAHAHAHAHA THE FAGGOT HAS TO TROLL FOR PUSSY ON 4CHAN LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
>>16819357
Did I say any of us deserved it?
Though some of us do, my mother is a saint.
>>16819365
Jokes on you, that person doesn't have a vagina
Where did he go?
