>>16813247
You NEED to stop this. I spent a few months masturbating daily to one girl. Now I have a unbreakable crush on her and it's ruining my marriage.
Don't condition yourself like this.
You need to stop. Now.

>>16813258
Alot easier said then done buddy, I sadly put her on a pedestal and misunderstood her intentions and motives when talking to her and just got lost in doing it.

>>16813263
Easier said than done, yes, which should be setting all kinds of alarm bells off for you.
Maybe try and find some kind of fetish stuff that you don't associate with her, and start filling in with that instead. You need to do something though, or you're going to mess yourself up well and truly.

Source: personal experience.

>>16813403
My issue is no matter what I just keep thinking about her in that situation it could be ANYTHING and I would still somehow put her into that fantasy

When you jack off, do you edge?

When you jack off, try to bring yourself close to ejaculation, then stop and relax for a second. Then continue, reach a 8/10, then stop. Repeat five times before you blow your load, try to train yourself to last as long as possible without stopping.

You shouldn't cum until at least fifteen minutes of masturbating. Otherwise you're training your dick to blow it's load super fast.

Also avoid fapping to porn. When I fap, I think of my gf. Anything else feels like it fucks with my brain. if I jack off to another girl too many times, I start to become less attracted to my gf and find myself thinking about the other girl.

>>16813258
Lol I used to masturbate to my gfs sister and one time I said her name as I came during sex with my gf. Luckily their name rhyme.

>>16813783
What a fucking degenerate

>>16813258
I hope your wife leaves you you goddamn retard

>>16813247
are you me? lol i do exactly the same thing. i do it less now then i used to but i would always search for porn with a girl that looked like my ex and i would wank to it. i knew i should but i couldn't get off any other way.

>>16813751
I don't have a solid girl to jerk off to, the ones at school at not that hot honestly and I dont have enough interaction to make a mental folder to use for material. Does edging just help the orgasm be stronger? Side note im a virgin so no matter what its gonna be super fast for now.

>>16814051
bro I feel your pain, its so hard not to think of that girl and just blow my load to her over and over, the forbidden fruit is the sweetest

>>16814160
yeah, i think it kind of fucked me up. if i was good with girls i would of just fucked a load of random girls to take my mind of her haha

>>16814215
If it was that easy for me also i wouldnt be on this board bitching and feeling like complete shit right now knowing she is happy with someone else and doesnt care about me anymore