>>16795714

i avoid going straight for the 'hit on' approach. girls are all getting hit on. all night. at the bar especially. so why would they choose you over anyone else?

mostly connection and chemistry. but by going straight to 'hitting on' you just tell her that shes JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER GIRL. not worth actually getting to know.

so approach a few girls. and chat with them. casually. 'hey hows it going, what you ladies up to tonight?' gauge their reactions. respond accordingly. wait til you find something to asctually connect with a girl over. which one might have a little chemistry. give them each a little attention until one wants it more.

You don't.
Picking up girls at a bar is a waste of time.

>>16795741
I'll try this with my friend when he'll be here ! Right now my other friend is mixing and I don't feel confortable socialising alone. Ley's have some beers !

>>16795766

> i dont feel comfortable socialising alone

dr. suess says alone is something you will be often. might as well get over it.

>>16795714
look like your having a good time and dont be ugly

this should be enough to attract at least one girl into coming over and talking to you

You should consider taking up carpentry. Pretty decent pay for not that hard of work.

>>16795827
Unfortunately it never worked out for me ! Or at least I never got sex out of it ! Haha.
Right now I'm jumping on the decks maybe it will attract some girls
I'll keep you updated

Op here ! Finally I'm going home (pretty drunk) without speaking to a single girl execpt my book who's (according to what she just told me) lesbian !! What a beautiful night !!! Anyway goodnight /adv/ I'll try to move on with a pizza that seems like a better idea !