I slept with my exes best friend. We have remained friends though our breakup but I am a bit worried about how to break this to her. Should I keep it a secret forever, or is this not as much of a problem as I am imagining it to be? I don't want to ruin our friendship.
We have both slept with other people, and that wasn't an issue.
>>16793809
You guys are broken up...treat her like any normal female friend. If that means you'd tell another female friend this, then tell her too.
>>16793809
Tell her. You guys are friends now.
And if she has any respect for herself she'll drop you both as 'friends'
>>16793809
Why would she possibly need to know that? Do you also notify her every time you take a shit?
>>16794852
>>16794971
Guys are right. Is there a reason why it should feel weird not to tell her about it as if it were some big news? Seems like you feel remorse for some reason.
>>16794971
No but we talk about a lot of stuff, including relationships, so I don't feel like I can skirt it forever.
>>16794981
I don't want this to be painful (for her, it's obviously great for me), but I should be able to talk about it if we really are friends.
