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2016-02-08 21:18:24 Post No. 16783705
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2016-02-08 21:18:24
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I don't think I've ever been this upset with my wife before. Here's the rundown.
>Wife and I discussing pot with parents.
>She tells me five years ago she smoked a ton with one of her friends at a convention.
>Slapped across the face by this, had no clue. Visibly upset.
>Her father lost his job to pot, his family shortly after.
>Figured I'd never get to smoke pot again due to her being traumatized by what it caused.
>Passed up countless opportunities thinking she'd be furious.
>Turns out the whole time she didn't care if I did or not.
I don't know how to feel, but I know that I'm certainly not on cloud nine. I don't know if her not telling me about it for five years is what upsets me, the fact that she's acting like it's no big deal, or all the missed opportunities; probably both.
Like she didn't think her smoking pot would be a big deal to me even though every fucking time I ever went out drinking I would let her know three days in advance and feel bad that I wanted to have a good time with my friends. Part of me feels like it's my fault as well because I "assumed" that a drunken abusive father would sour her on the idea of going out drinking/ smoking ever again.
I just... I fucking don't know, am I worked up over nothing? Let the past be past and all that, but isn't it common decency to let your significant other know about these things in a timely manner? I mean if she didn't think this was a big deal what else might not be?
