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I have been dating this girl for a couple of months and she's been really into me. Last week that changed and she's turned a bit cold in regards to the lovey dovey, phone sex and sexting messages. She still txts me first now and then and even sent me a message today saying she has a surprise for me, but I'm wondering if that's out of guilt because I've bought her a few presents. She's literally gone from saying I miss and want you every other day to nothing. I get if I send her anything cheeky, she plays it off like we're now all of a sudden buddies. Then yesterday out of the blue she invites me to her cousins birthday as her date next month. Its really messing my head up and I'm so confused! Another big part of this story is I had an allergic reaction to a experimental depression pill about 10 years a go and its kept me out of work up until now. How I met her was through a government scheme where she helps people get back to work. If her work found out about us, she'd be sacked in an instant, plus I have to see her again in a meeting at the end of the month. So I'm now thinking is she scared I might ruin her career out of spite if she says she's not interested in me anymore?

Tonight we spoke on the phone and I'm playing it pretty cool, but I didn't want to come across needy, so I disguised what I wanted to say and a got a few answers. Sometimes tonight she seemed really into me and then others times not at all. I've just become a personal trainer and she said tonight that she's going to go back to the gym, so I offered my services and she turned me down in a heart beat and said; "no my brothers going to help me". She said I've got some friends who need training if you need clients. Again, I don't know what to think about that.