See a relevant professional: psychiatrist, clinical psychologist, etc

>>16781012
I don't want to waste their time if it's not anything.

Two of my exes have it.

Usually, borderlines cycle through phases of idealization/devaluation. They fall in "love" quickly and out of it quicker.

They seek a lot of attention/affection. They usually have a "favorite person" that they seek the most attention/affection from. They get pretty insecure and often have problems with relationship permanence--if someone hasn't talked to you in a little while, clearly they must hate you.

Basically, if you're needy and it's fucking up your life you probably have it.

>>16781010
See a professional, none of the posts so far can provide any help in a manner that is truthful and entirely correct.

Symptoms may present more subtly, and you may not display all symptoms, and still have the issue. You may also have something else that overlaps. No one here on /adv/ has the ability to truly tell you what is wrong.

Please go see someone who can help you if you need it, it really is a world of difference from a shithole like /adv/, for problems like a personality disorder.

>>16781028
Okay. I don't think that sounds like me.

>>16781092
I'm scared they'll just decide I'm nuts and trap me in some looneyhouse.

>>16781010
>>16781016
That's how you fucking know. If you think you might have it, it isn't a waste of time for them to check. That's their actual job.

>>16781743
The last time I tried to get a diagnosis for something else, they just told me it's "teenage turmoil" and that it'll go away on its own. I'm 22 and it hasn't.