Who? What? Where?

>>16776809
Bf, I thought he was playing that he didn't want to talk to me hardly ever cuz he jokes about cheating all the tinel, but his decided if I wanna even type a few sentences to him a day I'm being obsessive and threatens to dump me.

Well after the initial euphoria of the relationship is over, peoples' flaws are going to start cropping up and yes, familiarity does breed contempt.

Now, as for your boyfriend, if he is the type to joke about cheating and then proceed to flip that shit on you for being "obssessive", then have you considered the idea that this gaslighting may perhaps be a precursor of things to come?

I recommend that you cut contact with him, move on without even telling him you moved on, and finding someone who is OK with constant contact. In all my relationships, the level of contact has never tapered off during the entirety of the relationship.

He use to complain that he wanted me to be obsessed, idk why his keeping me around, if he one day will want daily contact when I get his stupid fucking jokes enough or not. Its been a year of this shit

His changed into a grumpy old man

>>16776866
Be wary of fuckwits who tells you they want x out of you and then shit on you because they decided midway they wanted y out of you instead.

If you are always doing something wrong somehow with this person, then it is best to quit it before you really do end up being railroaded into a situation where you are doing something wrong. To be honest with you, it sounds like he's not a very mature person in general and not ready for a relationship at all.

>>16776907
Railroaded into doing something wrong? Can you explain it?


I don't want to quit