I have a gf
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I have a gf
I just want to experience that once in my life before I die. Is that so much to ask.
>>16773860
hire a hooker
>>16773860
My boyfriend broke up with me and I'm about to go to a pub alone and cry into a non alcoholic beverage
It could be worse
>>16773860
I feel you senpai. I just try to distract myself from my life by working out and playing vidya when I'm not tired. Its great when I'm actively doing either I one, but afterwords the sadness returns.
Not gonna make it
>>16773875
Actually, I'm not going to the pub. I'm just going to sit in my car and weep here
>>16773888
Why'd he break up with you?
>>16773888
Don't be sad, anon
I'm sure you'd have a great time at the gay bar
>>16773902
He said we weren't compatible and felt awkward around me. I'd often say things, and he wouldn't know how to respond to me.
>>16773903
Hue hue hue
;_; these comics give me the feels
>>16773916
It's okay anon, I share your pain... maybe not as intensly, but I understand. I'm choking up a bit while writing this.
My girlfriend committed suicide three months ago when I finally got a great job, today I lost that same job and it brought back all of the feelings that I held inside.
I have a gf too. Lurking for more cute comics.
>>16773922
I'm so sorry, Anon... :'( how are you holding up?
>>16773923
Not lurking if you post.
>>16773923
Google Sarahs scribbles
>>16773916
>>16773922
I feel for you anons.
Remember that having a bf/gf doesn't guarantee they will make your life happier.
If you don't enjoy your single life you are doomed in a relationship, double the responsibilities and worries, you need to be happy, healthy and stable mentally so you can enjoy it.
Anyways, it's like having a best buddy near you but with more responsibilities and money spending, it can be good but it isn't that great either.
>>16773928
I'm sad :C but I'm okay :'C rly
>>16773949
Do you have something that you wish you could have told her or done for her?
My ex was from Hungary and I was secretly learning Hungarian to impress him .... I was hoping to be semi fluent and surprise him ... but I never got to do that
>>16773844
Oh brother, here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PzxCTYBmA74
>>16773946
I'm sorry you have autism, senpai
>>16773957
My ex was also Hungarian and she broke up with me for the same reasons. Very difficult language to try to learn.
>>16773957
I did something like that for my ex. She was very musical. Taught myself the piano and was going to play Clair de Lune for her birthday
PLOT TWIST! I dumped her before then.
>>16774190
Why did you dump her?
>>16774192
Depression man. Long story but basically I could hide my power level better than most people on this board. Instead of working things out I just let it pile up over a year until one day I realized I hadn't gone to school in four weeks, hadn't eaten in two days, and had slept only 3 hours a day for months. Convinced myself she was the problem because I'm fucking ANON, I never have problems. Dumped her, nothing got better and have been regretting it ever since.
I went and talked so someone and it sorta worked for me. Haven't gotten her back but it happens.
I feel for you in a similar way. I got dumped a few months ago by the only guy I've ever genuinely wanted to be with, we were really close for three years, didn't "date" for more than a year but the breakup happened in the most ridiculous way. One day he just put on Facebook that he was "in a relationship" with another girl, after we hadn't spoke for maybe two days. It doesn't hurt to think about any more, but I lost a lot of faith in dating so to speak and would rather not go through that shit again any time soon. rip me
>have gf
>feel she consumes too much time, feel suffocated, want her gone
>generally content with life but feel held back, less productive and more risk-averse
>have no gf
>want the good sex, the sleeping together, try to fill the void with hookups
>more "on-edge" in life, more productive and risk-taking but also lonely
why
>>16774327
Living a full life isn't a question of having a girlfriend.
If you feel empty, the problem is with yourself.
>>16774350
mom pls go
>>16774170
He's not wrong. Having a significant other will not fix things if you hate yourself. Instead you'll just bring that self loathing into the relationship and push your partner away, painfully.
You should be capable of handling life on your own before you get into something serious.
>>16773957
>>16774180
You know a language is fucked when most of it's natives speak it incorrectly. Kind of annoying, really.
>>16774327
>>16774327
>>16774327
holy shit this
you are litterally me
>>16773860
DYELFAGGOTS get to die alone.
>>16774543
I don't have autism so I don't hate myself
>>16773928
KEKKKKE
>>16774940
who cares about you, anon.
>>16774957
My gf
My gf just said >not super into anime desu
how fucked am I
>>16775077
>how fucked am I
100% not fucked, that's a keeper
anime = mental problems
>>16775086
5 star post right there. Listen to this person.
>>16775086
Yaaay
Thanks, Anonymous :)
So /adv/ is now /r9k/
cool
Dane Cook said it best, inb4 he sucks. That feeling when no gf is like an awesome party going on in your vicinity but you aren't invited to it. All you want to do is be a part of things and have all the fun everyone else is having.
But when you're in the party it starts to suck after awhile and you're looking for your coat to gtfo of there.
>>16775144
>dane cook
Am I in high school again? Get the fuck out you tasteless faggot
>>16775144
I'm sorry you're so jaded you have to use Dane Cook as your argument
>>16773860
am I weird for not wanting to experience this
I'm sure it would be nice having a significant other but being alone feels pretty great for me
>>16775164
It's essentially like spending every day of your life with your best friend
If that doesn't sound like something you'd be comfortable with then it's not for you
>>16775177
With a best friend you can have sex with, really.
>>16775148
Oh I'm sorry do you prefer the niggers that make fun of white people for their entire routine. Fuck off kuck.
>>16775214
Stand-up a shit
One-man shows a best
>>16773844
Ay same!
After zero years of being an autist and multiple girlfriends I finally have another one. We've been dating for several years.
>>16773844
I've had a few gfs too anon.
Don't worry, you'll break up and be in pieces one day, so seize these happy feelings while you can.
>>16775380
That's a potential outcome, but I feel sorry if you believe it's the only possibility
What I like best about my relationships now that I'm older is knowing they will end. When I was in my teens and dating I used to naively think about making families and long lives and all that forever shit. Now I know better, and it's not like I don't love them or dont enjoy our time while I'm with them. But it's a very prevalent thought in my head that one day she will leave or die or otherwise be taken from me, and in expecting that, I have lost all the anxieties I used to have over losing women - they are already gone for me as soon as I first meet them. Its liberating. I have never dumped anyone by the way, always been left.
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>>16773860
>be with girl
>you really like her, would do anything for her
>find out she's been cheating on you
>feel a soul crushing defeat that at your most open and loving, they would rather have someone else
>on the outside, you're an alpha. you cut contact, break up, the whole works
>on the inside, you feel a terrible sickness knowing they have found comfort in someone else's arms and you sit alone in your car as the world walks past happily
yeah you really dont want to, trust me.
>>16775519
So having had nice moments that have ended is worse than staying lonely for your entire life is better?
Yeah, no. Let's switch our memories, then.
>>16773946
This to me is like saying "if you can't be happy poor you won't be happy rich".
The people who are alone and upset need love the most. The problem is that most people are not interested in a relationship with somebody who is not basically perfect. Insecurity, sadness etc = bad.
>>16775563
This is perfect, thanks for pointing that out. I wholeheartedly agree.
>>16775563
It's not about being perfect, it's about being able to support each other's flaws so that together you're able to be as close to perfect as humanly possible
Ideal relationships are give and take
I love being single but sometimes I get so lonely I wish I was dead.
I just want someone to talk to and cuddle with.
>>16775667
I'll just assume you're male. I am too. I'd hug you. Nohomo.
I hope we both find out how to get girls, eventually.
>>16775675
I am Male too.
I am just too much of a pussy and have self esteem issues. If a girl ever shows interest in me even one I am attracted to I immediately push her away.
But fuck I was drunk cuddling with a friend who is a girl after a night out, she spooned me and it felt soo good having her arms wrapped around my chest.
If she offered me sex there and then I'd have rather cuddled.
>>16775684
>being this low test
>wasn't even big spoon
>>16775696
Another girl was spooning her and she first girl wanted to be the meet in our sandwich.
>>16775698
L O W T E S T
>>16775706
And I thought I was anxious. Lol. What the fuck is up with that guy. Low test confirmed.
>>16775718
BTFO haha fuckin #gotem LMAO
>>16775540
>all those nice moments were a lie
>>16775788
You're delusional, kid
>>16773928
Fuck off with the Redditball csncer
>be me
>finally get a gf
>first relationship at 24 years old
>too intense
>dump her in the first 24 hours
>>16775874
define "too intense"
>>16775874
I'm sorry to hear that
Maybe you're just not mentally prepared for the commitment
>>16775880
emotionally
>>16775885
What, did she say she loved you or something?
>>16775892
no, we were crushed out on each other for about four years and then it finally happened. was bad
>>16775896
Oh
You should try asking out near-strangers for something simple and non-threatening like coffee
>>16775540
Dude, I'm good now, had a couple relationships, gotten used to it all but I'll tell you this.
You don't know what pain is until the first time a girl breaks your heart. Be grateful you haven't had that first heartbreak pain.
Till I'd had my first girl friend I'd never thought about suicide. I'd never stayed in bed for an entire day, missing college classes I'd payed to be at. Never bombed a whole semester. Never sincerely and earnestly prayed to a god I don't even think is real. Never had dreams of her taking me back that were so real that I didn't realize they were dreams for the first few minutes after.
I've been in a few now and gets easier over time, but don't be in too much of a hurry to experience "having a girlfriend" it can kill you if you aren't careful.
>>16773844
I am very happy for you OP. The thought of having a BF brings tears to my eyes now because I know no guy can truly have affection for me. Please love her.
>>16776116
I'll treat her the best I can
She's really something special :)
>>16776116
Girls know that feel?? :/
>>16776116
What makes you say that?
>>16776302
Difference is all they have to do is not be fat and they'll get a guy to love them. Men don't have that option.
>>16776302
I know that feel too well anon.
>>16776325
Experience
I'm with you guys. Two bottles of Russian vodka and 9mm.
Let's hope it all ends well.
>>16775907
Not that anon, but what if you're in college and for some reason every girl you ask out has it in their head that they don't have time to be in a relationship? Has the word "date" become taboo? I've wasted a lot of time not using that word, but since I've started I've got less yeses than ever.
>>16776328
Shut up, it's hard for skinny pretty girls too
>>16776460
Do you reside anywhere near the Jew that is Jersey?
>>16776477
>>16776477
Just remember
> For every beautiful woman, there's a man tired of fucking her
>>16776111
kek i've never had a gf and I went through most of what you said.
i'll be fine
just dumped my girlfriend and severely regretting it, just looking at her online chat window on facebook trying to stop myself from talking to her because I know I really want to go back to her now but when we're together there is always a nagging feeling like we shouldn't be together (probably all in my head)
fuck I'm saying if I hold out the night and see how I feel in the morning but I am so close right now. Should I do it anons?
>>16776864
Totally understand. Do you see me laugh? "Do I look good, sweetheart"?
>>16776460
Not really. If you're just open, meeting guys is easy. The hardest part is differentiating between who is interested and who just wants sex.
>>16773844
I wouldn't mind having just friends, female or otherwise.
>tfw 19
>never had gf
>never kissed
don't even care desu senpai
I just saw this thread on the front page and thought I'd interject with you don't need a gf, rly. Well, maybe some of you do.
>>16776920
Someday loneliness will kick in and you will care :(
>>16775519
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened. that's some Dr.Seuss shit right there. call me a faggot, but it's a good way to look at life.
>>16776920
Please stop talking like that.
I don't have a gf. I have a bf, but we're also looking for a gf to make our relationship a poly triad. Good luck finding someone degenerate enough for that but not also a drug user.
>>16777249
Not all drug users are bad. Depends on the drug... and the user.
>>16777327
Drug usage of any kind makes me uncomfortable. It is what it is.
>men before they ever have a gf
I just wish I had a gf for once, someone to love me ;_ ;
>men after they get a loving gf
i'm kinda bored, i want to soil my oats, i'm not interested in her now that she likes me
kek
>>16777441
Pretty accurate
>>16773875
>non alcoholic beverage
Marry me.
>>16773844
She's cheating you right now with a nigger.
You are a cuck.
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