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2016-02-05 23:52:35 Post No. 16773063
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2016-02-05 23:52:35
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I've been hanging out with this coworker for a few months now and it's very clear we are attracted to each other. We have similar interests, hobbies, humor, etc and we see each other at every chance we get, often into the wee hours or when I know she has more important stuff to do. At parties she is right with me the whole time and clearly gets at least a little jealous when I talk to other girls. There was also a strange moment when a coworker thought we were dating and when he said he had told some other people so, she popped up going "I'm totally cool with that! 100%!" It's clear we are close and could be closer.
But...
She has the weirdest boyfriend situation I've come across lol. They both went to the same high school but only started dating when she left to move here from across the country. They've never lived together, and only see each other maybe once a year when she goes to visit him. That said, they talk every day on video chat and they've been doing this for 5+ years. She also talks about him all the time, although usually just to say she had told him something, not "omg I love my boyfriend to death all day". Apparently he was her crush all through school.
I love having her as my friend, but I do feel more strongly than that towards her, and I don't want to miss out on something that could be.
My question is this: How do I bring this up with her? I'm less concerned with embarrassing myself but more so with putting her in an awkward situation and feeling like we can't hang out because I'm creeping on her.
THANK YOU!
Also before someone tells me to just bang her, cheating/helping to cheat isn't my thing and she would not be into it either. Even if she did I know she would feel too much guilt for it to not be a problem down the road, so I don't want to start a relationship with her on that note.