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Why do more guys complain about TFW no gf than girls about no bf?
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Why do more guys complain about TFW no gf than girls about no bf?
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>>16705917
What?
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Because even an ugly autistic woman can get a boyfriend.
Girls are the gatekeepers, they biologically don't have to fight for theyr generics to be carried on. Men do
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>>16705917
They actually do. It's more socially acceptable to be a single male (bachelor), than to be a single female.

It's just that girls don't visit 4chins.

Male - Work, Study, Lift, Hangout with friends do crazy shit.

Female - Work, Bored, Cry, Rage, Gossip with friends.

Girls might have it easier having casual sex, but trust me they don't enjoy it like Guys do.

They don't feel lovable etc. without a man.
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>>16705947
If you consider that women think that 80% of men are below average you may see that its not the mans fault. Not everyone can have a zac evron or a channing, abd these guys are usually the type to use women for sex.
So that they become less desireable for a guy to have a loving relationship with and build a live for/with.
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>>16705917
They do.
It's much sadder to see an old lady without a husband than an old man without a wife.

It's actually worse for girls to be single, and here's why-
It's easier for girls to get a boyfriend, right? So what does that say about girls who don't have a boyfriend? They must be REALLY insufferable if NO GUY wants to date them, right?

It's embarrassing, which is why girls don't make a big deal when they are single. Maybe to their friends, but not publicly. It's like advertising how undesirable you are.
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>>16705965
And rather than changeing you get depressed or you don't lower your standarts?
If not they got what they deserve.
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>>16705963
I can already tell you're a fucking virgin.

You don't have to be fucking Zac Efron to lay a good looking girl in a relationship, how fucking retarded are you?

Work, lift, study, have a car, ask her out, if she says no thanks, delete her from your phone and try again next time.
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>>16705976
I agree. The same goes for "tfw no gf" men.
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>>16705947
>They actually do. It's more socially acceptable to be a single male (bachelor), than to be a single female.

Are there actually people dumb and socially detached enough to think this is true?
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There are landwhiles at my work, one with a fat boil on her nose who have husbands, boyfriends, and kids.

However, the older females get and are single, the sadder they look, sound, etc.

Hell my 38 y/o coworker is single and wishes she had a rich husband. She spends her time with her sister's kids.
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Since when do girls not visit 4chan..? Am I the only one
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>>16705917
Because you took your sampling from a Website that includes /pol/ and /r9k/. Go almost literallyanywhere else, on the Internet or in real life, and the opposite happens.
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>>16706247
As women get older they get more pressure from those around them to settle down and have a family, compared to men. Women also like to flaunt their relationships around in their social circles.

Just because you feel bad that you don't have a girlfriend doesn't mean that women aren't pressured by society to get hitched.
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>>16705917
Because girls have no problem getting a mate. They will never understand the true crushing loneliness a man can feel.
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This is a site that is male dominated. I wouldnt even be surprised if traditional women boards such as cgl were still 50/50. As such, you're going to mostly see male problems.

>>16705963
If you really think you need to be a model to get a woman you're delusional.

>>16706297
Don't be dumb. A minority=/=none
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I disagree.. Lonely men will practically find company with anything that has a pussy and 2 legs. Women can whore around too but are far less satisfied in my experience
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>female
>lonely
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>>16706504
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>>16706504
>>16706520
Shhh anon you'll destroy that carefully built fantasy that women have built up in their heads.
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>>16705947
>It's more socially acceptable to be a single male (bachelor), than to be a single female.
No it isn't. It may have been back in the 1950s but now if you're a guy with no gf, there's something wrong with you. If you're a girl with no bf, you're just being picky.
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>>16705965
>They must be REALLY insufferable if NO GUY wants to date them, right?
No, it means they're picky and won't settle for anyone in their league.
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because any girl can get a boyfriend with minimum effort, all she has to do is ask. however, guys have to work at it

in other words, theres no good reason for a girl to say 'tfw no bf'
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>>16706520
EXACTLY
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>>16705917
Your mother.
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>>16705917
>Why do more guys complain about TFW no gf than girls about no bf?

Because the majority of males are considered by females to be below average in looks. Yes, that means that average males are below average looks. Try to figure out that one.

Furthermore, girls always go for douchebags, because douchebags are the narcissistic ones that want to use people for their benefit, and thus have no problems with confidence. Lack of self confidence comes from having empathy with others, because only with empathy with others can you feel undeserving, inadequate, or not quite sure of yourself in attracting a girl. You think of her as a real thing with her own mind.

Douchebags don't. They either want her to hop on the dick, and have the confidence to demand it and get it, or they get her to fuck off.

In the middle ground there is the attractive guy who is slightly nicer, so these two groups get all the pussy/relationships.

I saw an 18 year old I knew get involved with a guy that took pictures of himself drunk driving, was lying about having sex witjh someone else. She gave him 2 years of life and pussy because he was using her for sex, in return she got shit on. Now, not saying that people can't just be together for sex, but she was misled. Why did she find this guy the most attractive? Because he was like any guy who does the following

>treat women like men. That is, don't get nervous, talk to them then walk off. Be confident, talk about manly shit like cars, and then disappear. They will want you.

A sociopath or narcissist will do this kind of stuff as part of their developed ability to deal with social situations. That makes them automatically more attractive than more down to earth males who don't think they're the top shit and have some humility, which most average looking males do.

You ever hear about chavs? They get 5 babies, no job, and tons of hot pussy because they're 'confident'. There's something wrong with females' brains.
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>>16706287
>Hell my 38 y/o coworker is single and wishes she had a rich husband.

Think about that. She's poor and thinks she deserves someone out of her league for no effort.
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>>16706864
chav girls arent that hot mate, rest of the post is bang on tho
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>>16705917
My experience is the majority of women are terrible. Unfortunately this is also true of most men. This means either sex should be able to be lonely if they're willing to hold out for someone who is not terrible.

On the other hand... a man who feels unbearably lonely can't just go pick up a girlfriend to remind him of how terrible most people are when you pick at random where a woman can. This means women are more likely to realize the hard part is finding one that isn't crazy.
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>>16706552
The exact same can be said for "tfw no gf" guys.
There are ugly, fat, pregnant women who would love a BF to support them. But obviously, most guys would rather be alone than with them. Then they go online and whine about "tfw no gf"
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>>16706546
>muh 1950's

Have women and mens bodies changed since the 50's? No, alright then.

Women have a lot more estrogen and crave a husband and family by nature. Men are buildt physically and mentally to hunt and survive on their own.

>picky

Yeah sure thing, 30 year old "picky" single woman with no bf. More like a failure.
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>>16706983
>Have women and mens bodies changed since the 50's? No, alright then.

Actually, yes they have.

Delayed senescence, and delayed development are both rapidly increasing. Look at all the 30's actors that look like they're still 12 these days.

Additionally, people are race mixing, and people don't have to work as hard, and people are getting loads of calories, if not actual nutrients.

We're turning into a race of fat baby-face bird people (cause birds are very lightweight frame).

Epigenetics is real. You can turn genes on and off while you're alive from a single cigarette.

Evolution is much faster than previously thought. With all the safety for humans provided by this new environment they've created for themselves, they're going to change.

You should look at teens from the 50's vs teens now. The teens from the 50's like like they're 25.

i mean fuck, this pic related is even only froom the 70's or something.
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>>16707044
>be 21
>short
>tfw i'm cleanly shaven I look like I'm 16

End me.
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>>16707058

Give it 20 years, you will be WISHING that you looked 10 years younger. I find that people's appearance will likely stay in step barring extreme trauma or stress.

If you look 16 at 21, you'll probably look 26 at 31.

Besides, if you're a 21 year old chick that looks 16, holy shit you've got the goods.
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>>16707058
Me too, anon.
>female
>5'0"
>21
>people think I'm 12

I mean, to be fair, I'm asian, but still, I don't want the kid's menu.
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>>16707076
I still want the kids menu.
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>>16707076
I want you on my menu.

Delicious. I'd rather fuck a 20 year old that looked 12 or a 30 year old that looked 12 than a real 12 year old. The hot body with the brains of an intellectual equal. Boing
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>>16707091
I don't fuck people that have a fetish for jailbait. Gross.
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tfw no bf
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>>16707095

Yes you do bitch because we don't tell you if you're not a 16 year old with daddy issues.

Anyways, why such a bitch?

Why are you allowed to have a rape fetish but I'm not allowed one?

fuck you
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>>16707111
I don't have a rape fetish.
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>>16707111
Don't call her a bitch, bitch.

Also nice trips
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>>16707115

If a 16 year old is legal and my state HEY NSA, YEP, IT IS, then why shouldn't I fuck one if I want to?

Every one wants too but I'm rich enough to actually do it so haters gonna hate

fucking people ask their wives to piss on them then give me shit
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>>16707123
I'm not telling you not to fuck 16 year olds. I'm telling you that I don't fuck guys that are into jailbait.

Please learn some reading comprehension.
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>>16707118

No, fuck her.

I don't have to fuck a 21 year old with no tits and no ass because I can fuck 18 year olds that have both in spades- she needs to get off her high horse
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>>16705930
Lol try being an ugly autistic woman.

>inb4 lower your standards
Why don't you?

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>>16705917
>guaranteed replies
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>>16706306
>implying men don't also get this pressure
What world do you live in m8?
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>>16705917
Because it's easier for an average woman to get a boyfriend than it is for an average man to get a girlfriend. As other people have already said, the majority of women believe that 80% of men are below-average and refuse to give them a second glance. They only go to these guys as a last resort (as in I'm 34 and not married, I need to find someone).

I think there's also a societal aspect to it too. Despite what some fedora tippers here have claimed, men past ~21 or so without girlfriends are seen by society as losers, loners, and unable to, whereas women past the same age without boyfriends are just picky or choosing to stay single. Being portrayed as a loser by society naturally causes people to surround themselves with other "losers" for support.

>for context, I'm 25 and have never had any romantic contact with a woman ever. I sometimes wonder what it would be like, but I've realized that it's probably not all that it's cracked up to be, judging from how often people get stressed out by relationships.
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>>16707156
I bet you aren't that ugly.
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>>16707156
i WISH things were that easy for me
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>>16706983
There will always be men willing to date a woman, provided she respects herself enough to keep up with basic hygiene.
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>>16707095
>I don't fuck people that have a fetish for jailbait. Gross.

I don't have a fetish for jailbait, as I would want to fuck you, which is perfectly legal.

Q.E.D.

I thought asians were supposed to be smart.

>>16707111
not me btw. I like more subtlety in my insults.
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>>16707213
>but I've realized that it's probably not all that it's cracked up to be, judging from how often people get stressed out by relationships.

Like everything else in life I'm sure it becomes relative. It's like how you hear about guy jerking off to porn when they have a horny wife waiting in bed. When I hear that I just scratch my head and think how insane that is to hear. But I guess people just get used to fucking their wives/gf and get bored of it, to the point where online porn is better.

Same with relationships, you'll sometimes hear people wishing they were single again (though I doubt they honestly mean it) but the same principals apply. You just get used to being in one so it's not anything meaningful anymore.

That's my take on it anyways, I doubt ill ever get a chance to experience any of it. But ill take comfort in knowing it's not always what I have built it up to be in my head.
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>>16707224
that victim complex
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do you guys have any idea how undesirable ugly women are?

>be me
>working at a retail clothing store
>a 20 year old girl and her mom walk in
>20 year old is overweight, half shaven dyed hair, giant nose and tiny eyes.
>mother hold up a shirt and goes "oh sweetie look, isn't this cute?"
>girl goes "SHUT UP, MOM. YOU ARE ANNOYING ME."
>girl obviously has autism, because the mom kind of shrugs it off like "ok, sorry"
>an associate walks up to her before I can intervene "hi! Can I help you find anything today?"
>girl fidgets and says loudly "no! go AWAY you plebeian"
>the mom is like "Olivia, why don't you let her help you! She knows where all the good stuff is"
>sales associate obviously uncomfortable, but the girl agrees so the sales associate starts bringing her some options.
>comes with like 10 things "okay, give me a thumbs up if you want to try it on, and a thumbs down if you dont like it"
>girl gives a lengthy explanation as to why each article of clothing is not what she's looking for, but is extremely vague at the same time. "No... The way this part is here... This part is bad. And the stitching here looks too thick..."
>sales associate just give us and hides in the back.

It was like extremely uncomfortable, that girl was super mean. Even as a desperate guy who lives for sex, it would not be worth living with someone so ugly inside and out.
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>>16707275

That story got me right in the feels. How people with mental problems are jettisoned and trashed by society.

Their disability cant be seen, so its hard to sympathize with them.

At the same time, the mother should be controlling them more. If they're legal dependents, she can enact punishments.
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>>16707275
There's someone out there that'd at least fuck her. Fine let me add an addendum, any functioning female who at least TRIES to take care of themselves can find a man.
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>>16707287
I know plenty of people who are autistic and have other mental disorders. This was my first experience with someone who was openly MEAN. It wasn't just an inability to understand social cues or a poor filter- she was rude both to her mother and to us.

Maybe it's harder for her to interact socially, but that doesn't mean that she is not accountable for the way she presents herself. Even if it takes some extra effort, she should still aim to be polite and learn how to interact with others.

Her mother allowed her to walk all over her, so maybe it's how she was raised.

But how is she going to function as an adult or find love or a job one day if she cannot interact with a basic level of courtesy? It's not helpful to just dismis it as "that's just the way she is". We all have to conform to societies standards to some extent, even if it's harder for some than it is for others.


Again, I deal with customers all the time who have social anxiety, autism, and other mental issues. She is the only one who has been openly hostile
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>>16707275
This gives a guy like me hope.

I'm not the hottest or tallest guy around but I take a lot of pride on my personality. I love who I am on the inside, I'm kind, funny, loyal, a good listener and I legitimately want to see those I care about happy. It's just hard to keep a positive outlook on my situation when most people turn me down just because how my height or how I look.

I just hope I stumble across that woman who gives me a chance to make us both happy before I die.
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>>16707213
>>16707243
That is the case for the most part. It's literally like getting a new job that requires a bit of on the job training right off the bat. It's shaky at first but you get used to it and it becomes a way of life.
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>>16706965
>ugly, fat, pregnant women
>Pregnant
See, if you're prego you're getting dick.
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>>16707243
I think there's a lot of >tfw no gf guys have built up a mindset that getting into a relationship will solve all of their unhappiness problems. That's partly society's fault too. We're constantly shown portrayals of happy couples in the media, and a lot of people see it on a day to day basis. It establishes a mindset that being in a relationship will make you happy, and that's only further reinforced by the social ostracizing of older men who either aren't in a relationship or have never been in one.
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>>16707338
she will give you a chance once she falls off the carousel and has nothing else
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>>16706864
>average males are below average in looks

that's not how averages work. what you mean is the average male is uglier on the surface than the average female.

and to be fair thats not true either since 90% of "average" girls paint their face on to look hotter than they really are

every girl will tell you it's a huge deal to take their makeup off in front of their boyfriend for the first time, because some of them literally look like a different person/ sickly without it
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>>16707355
>that's not how averages work. what you mean is the average male is uglier on the surface than the average female.

Why do you think I told you to figure that one out?

50% of males were rated by women as below average. You and I both know looks, among all other things human, are on a bell curve. 50% of males is going to fall into the average category, yet women claim these 50% are below average in looks.

That is exactly why I said think about it. it means that they perceive average looks to be below average looks.
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>>16707355

How the fuck do I compete with this?

The only way I can "modify" my body is hair cut and by eating well/working out and by dressing well.
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>>16707365

Oh Im sorry, I got it wrong. it was EIGHTY PERCENT.

80% of males are below average. on a bell curve, how does that work out? Only if women are delusional cunts.
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>>16707355
what he means is that there was a study where women rated a random sample of men. they rated 80% of them as below average, so what he meant was that objectively average males (and even objectively above average males) are relatively below average in looks, from the perspective of females
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>>16707355
It's actually amazing how much makeup can bump a girl up from a 5/10 to a 7-8/10.
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>>16707379
> 7-8

Let's not get ahead of ourselves anon
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>>16707379
It's not the make up, it's the hair.
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>>16707365

Do you understand how a normal distribution works? 50% of men are below average.

While the vast majority of men will be in the 3-7 range.
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PROTIP:
Many women equate their standard to "average"
"Below average" means "below my standard"

Also, where the fuck are these statistics from? Anyone who volunteered for such a study is probably a stick up bitch anyways. AND- who's to say what the "average male" really is? Did they take a photo of every man in the world and combine them to create the perfect "average man"?
Citing that "study" as a reliable sample from which to base your entire opinion of women around is seriously stupid
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>>16707387
>>16707383
Yea yea didn't quite mean that picture exactly it was just one I randomly found, But there's definitely some women it does wonders to.
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>>16707365
>>16707377
ahhhh my mistake
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>>16707370

You can wear makeup too.
You could get the P surg.
You could get implants.

You could also try some shittery if you're poor, want to improve yourt body functions, and don't mind wasting time relaxing to do it.

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/changing-our-dna-through-mind-control/

http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2012/04/11/epigenetic-vs-determinism.aspx

http://www.cracked.com/article_21932_7-creepy-things-your-mind-can-trick-your-body-into-doing.html

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/your-thoughts-can-release-abilities-beyond-normal-limits/

Now, I've lived a very stressful life. I met a friend again after 1 year of not seeing him. He's seen me for 6 years. He told me that

>you look different.

All that stress mustve gotten to my appearance.

http://www.livestrong.com/article/414477-does-strenuous-exercise-make-you-look-younger/

http://www.livestrong.com/slideshow/1011343-7-changes-make-now-live-longer-look-younger/

Spend 1 month. Eat right, exercise, do the usual good bullshit for yourself. Also believe that you will lose weight and gain muscle when you workout, as it'll improve the odds of that stuff happening.

Here's where the shittery comes in. Spend 1 month, once or twice a night using a 20 minute relaxation and meditation set, relax the body, and then imagine yourself becoming more attractive. Imagine your body changing physically do to so, your genes turning on or off, etc.

After 20 minutes like this, you're done for the night. You'll get the benefits of exercise, you will get the benefit of confidence from both the meditation and the exercise, and you'll slay more pussy even if it turns out the mental bullshit about reshaping your body is just pure bullshit, and your health will be improved due to nightly meditation.


Its a no lose situation. It might have a chance in hell of working like you want, but it will certainly help you in other ways.
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>>16707393
the study methodology was fine, you posing random questions in a john oliver manner isnt a refutation

>>16707398
so what are your thoughts on that then?
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>>16707393
OK Cupid google it

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/
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>>16707338
Why not find an ugly girl with a good personality?
If anything, she'd be able to understand your struggle, and will prioritize personality as well
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>>16707401
Going to be honest I'm in the best shape I've been all I can do now is get abs in. Went from a 39 waist to a 33.

Oh and wear contacts/laser eye
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>>16707338
Well I'm rooting for you even though I'm on the opposite team. Because your short and mid-height you are more trustworthy looking compared to me. Douchebags are my height so that is why. But look at me as the bad guy like you are now and strive to do more than me. Be one in a million, not one in ten. You are one in a million by being yourself and not attuning to groups. And you may even steal the chick from me. So that'll be good for you. So I'm going to make it like this, "FUCKING QUEER YOU'LL NEVER MAKE IT FAGGOT!" so that you'll learn to ignore it and move forward. I'm the obvious, now what about the hidden. Also dude I played a lot of video games and watch movies and exercised. Best start trying to one up the tall guy and showing him he deserves to be an outcast alright.
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>>16707402
it's very depressing to say the least, because I see a lot of good looking dudes with sub par girls and silently think to myself "he could do better" and meanwhile she probably thinks she's settling for this guy.

that being said girls can set their standards bar as high as they want, the fact of the matter is theres more women than men on this planet, so at some point they're gunna have to lower it and accept that they're not as hot as their instagram filter makes them believe

or they can die alone with their 30 cats, I couldn't care less about stuck up bitches
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>>16707414
And you'll find a way to one up me pretty easily. A lot of people found their way.
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>>16707405
Dating sites are for people who don't know how to meet with or socialize with people irl.
Why would an guy of average or above average looks even need to go on that site? 80% of the males who go on OK Cupid are "below average" in looks.
They key part of that is "OF MALES THAT GO ON OK CUPID".
That is not a random sample, and it does not reflect society in general
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>>16707407
If I found one who was interested in me I wouldn't hesitate to ask her out if we shared a bit in common. Do "ugly" girls even use dating sites? I just assumed they don't use them for the same reason I don't.
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>>16707417
>>>16707402
>it's very depressing to say the least, because I see a lot of good looking dudes with sub par girls and silently think to myself "he could do better" and meanwhile she probably thinks she's settling for this guy.

Bingo.

Grass is greener syndrome. Women are raised as princesses, and told not only can they have it all, but they should have it all.
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>>16707427
They don't out of fear of rejection.

Some do, but those are the deluded bitches who think they're hot and aim for the hot guys with shit personalities.
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>>16707414
Thanks man, pretty encouraging words.
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>>16707424
It is also reflective of the women who go on it as well so it is skewed both ways.

How do you even make an accurate assumption relating looks. You need to factor in race, age, location. ETC ETC ETC.

Either way I didn't cite the study I've just seen it before.

Not to sure what to say though..
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>>16707444
Exactly.
All I'm saying is generalizing that "women think 80% of guys are below average" is false, and basing one's attitude towards women/dating on such a bad statistic is foolish.
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>>16707417
Exactly and they always go after the older guy. Not the tall one, but the older one. Always the older one, he's like 22-27 years old and she would be 18-19. While me on the other hand I'm 21 and trying to get a girlfriend that is 23. Girls can be tricky believe me. But we are mostly men here and we lived our lives differently. Girls grew up with barbies and Guys with G.I. Joes. So we look like the assholes when we make jokes about them being fat and ugly because they are in the barbie world. On the other hand we get offended when looked as potential pedophiles and potential murderers in the G.I. Joe world. So both worlds when mixed together is reality.
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>>16707460
No disagreements here, again I didn't cite and I am well aware it is skewed. When you have both groups skewing and wanting what they can't have you won't get an accurate representation.

Looks to me aren't that important, I just could never date a whale...
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>>16707479
Socializing is what I call the art of learning when not to give a fuck. Like right not your using a social skill by showing you don't give a fuck about me, not literally and no need for being over analytical, but it's fine. Also in the barbie's world girls always strive for older guys because they grew up having crushes on them.
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>>16707503
That is why we all have trouble because what is popular is what is wanted. Me, ain't popular so not wanted. But I know ways around this for sure in some ways and I mean in a good way. The reason why 27 year oldwins is that he is high on the hierarchy with his peers and the popular girl feels she'll get higher in the hierarchy with that guy. What they don't know really is that me being a nerd and attractive I'm actually getting higher than them because I'm following my dreams of a filmmaker and still pursing it regardless of the troubles. But then again you are more worried about getting a popular girl than anything. Reason is that you are stuck in G.I. Joe's ranking. So you need to learn some skills and start getting a hobby and start getting a job or go to college and get a degree. By the way don't get stuck on the high school belief to get the girl who was there all along. Because there may be girls who disbelieve you at the moment but actually do care about deep down inside as a friend or secretly had a crush on you and wanted to make sure it was hidden. Because girls they're scared of the hierarchy. They friendzone you for a reason one girl may friendzone you because she is afraid you'll get killed while the other is the hierarchy and the one after that is ditching you because you spoke too much of what she was doing in fear of the other girls hurting her and her friends, so you were an acquaintance. Right now I appear very douchey so they'll just pass me off. But look at me as the bad guy. And basically what I told you was not sexist but telling you in the simplist terms: "Drama." and avoid it. Besides one night stand guy stealing all of the girls is the villian. Me I'm stuck to one girl and that's it and I be her friend and acquaintance while making sure she is alright then date when she feels comfortable now. Kinda like you would with your friend right? Again d
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>>16707506
But I may get one girl in mind each time I have a crush and get a new crush but I always try to respectful and not treat them as pets but rather another human being, besides I'm attracted to them making decisions so they could ditch me in a heartbeat and I'll be fine. Also right now I appear stupid, because I had to get info out as quick as possible.
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>>16707518
And I make sure I don't do anything creepy too. I try to make sure I forget about them even though it may be hard. Right now I'm benefiting because we are on 4chan and I'm talking nonsense.
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>>16707520
So no problem. Also I never had a girlfriend yet and I'm only spouting out what I heard and know and figured out of the world. It won't help you out from the get go and you have to not worry that your hormones kicking in won't prevent you from losing your virginity soon.
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>>16707531
I also appear the crazy one. But these only work for me. You have benefits in you that you know very well. I'm only sharing what I learned. So you'll find it. And I'm kinda lazy too, so well good luck to you getting your girlfriend and I'll be on the outlines as your enemy that you learn to one up.
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>>16707539
And these aren't fake too, these are my real issues and I found ways around them. I probably still won't have a girlfriend, but I'm learning how to communicate.
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>>16707157
We don't
If anything, every guy in their 40s and 50s that I've met heavily advised me to stay single and enjoy my hobby's instead of dealing with shit
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>>16707584
They say that AFTER their fun has ended, they had their sex and honey moon phase and after that ended they feel no one else should experience it because it's shit in their eyes. Or they're just trying to make you feel less pathetic.
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>>16705917

Women internalize, men externalize.

Also, I only know one female virgin in her twenties. She was a Jonas Brothers fan when she was younger, only wants to date a guy who is "hot" even though she is obese,
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>>16707602
People that get burned usually try to steer others away from the path.
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>>16707608

Just because they got burnt doesn't mean everyone else will. Pick a better partner material.
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>>16707389
see>>16707377
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>>16707424
>That is not a random sample, and it does not reflect society in general
Source please?
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>>16705917
They do, it's called Tumblr.
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