Kissing
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Why is kissing so much more intimate than sex?
My fwb never wants to kiss but she has no problem sucking my dick.
Do most girls feel that way, that kissing is more intimate?
>>16684744
>tfw haven't kissed anyone since I was 15
>can't remember what it feels like
it feels good, right?
Maybe she's worried that it seems too romantic. As a girl, I can tell you that I want to kiss more than anything. It seems so tender and innocent.
She's just watched Pretty Woman too much or something. Kissing is not more intimate than sex. It's just kissing.
As a female I kiss one night stands and fwbs
But some people are definitely afraid of getting attached and may view kissing as a more romantic gesture over sexual
Because sex has lost all its value.
Kissing is something deeply ingrained in us. Even animals put their faces close to each other and lick each other's mouths/faces as a sign of affection.
>>16684767
>it feels good, right?
It makes me smile more than sex
Sex I just want to fuck but kissing is pleasant
>>16684837
You can say the same about sex
>>16684792
how many guys are fucked and how old are you?
meh, if i have sex, i kiss. anything else is acting dumb. i mean, how would you even into foreplay when you can't make out? that seems like a bad porn to me.
other than that, yes, kissinng makes things more intimate. sometimes when i fuck with my bf, he comes in for a kiss from a hard fuck to be able to cum. just beacause in the end, what we enjoy most about sex with each other is the intimacy and closeness.
Kissing turns women on more then anything. Women need to go 20 times slower then dudes. It's a good way to go to foreplay.
I was googling the other day "how to kiss" just incase it happens anytime. I ended up kissing my closed fist infront of a computer screen and realized how fucked I am
Do you learn how to kiss with experience or do people know it naturally? 22 year old kissless virgin here
>>16685015
Yes it comes with experience. I thank my 13 year old girlfriend every time a girl tells me I kiss good. It's like riding a bike once you learn, when you are put in the moment you will know what to do.
>>16685015
you will know what to do when you kiss somebody. and besides, there's nothing you can really do very wrong.
>>16685077
>there isn't much you can do that is wrong
Not exactly true.. I watched lesbian porn before I made out with a girl for the first time. I copied what I saw in the porno, and it was gross Tbh. Don't kiss like in lesbian porn. It's too hardcore
>>16685166
don't kiss like in porn in general. those people only smash their bodies together for money. how intimate and loving can it get, huh?
try to tune in on the person you kiss and enjoy the sensation and intimacy. that's all you need to know. no "technique". i never have applied any technique and everybody i have ever kissed told me i kiss amazing.
>>16685173
Kissing is just awkward to me. I think I lack sensitivity or have nerve damage in my lips or something. Cause they are not very sensitive. They are about as sensitive if not less than the back of my hand. So the few times I have kissed girls it just seems awkard cause I can't feel what to do very well. So I make the kissing as brief as possible
>>16685221
eh, the back of my hand is very sensitive...?
however, then resort to let HER kiss YOU. you focus on reciprocating and focusing on the sensation.
>>16685226
Not the palm, but the back of my hand isn't that sensitive. But I'll try that next time I kiss someone in the next year or 2.
>>16684941
>i mean, how would you even into foreplay when you can't make out
This is how it goes 90% of the time with my fwb
>Wanna hook up?
>Okay
>Turn lamp on overhead lights off
>Get naked whip my dick out, she's in panties and bra
>She straddles my leg and sucks my dick.
>Tell her to take her bra off, she does
>When I'm almost going to cum I tell her to get on her back
>Pull panties off and chow down
>Put condom on and penetrate
>Fuck missionary, maybe kiss very briefly definitely not making out
>She gets on top
>If I Don't get off she'll go doggy
>I'll go till I cum or tell her to suck my dick, sometimes cum in her mouth
>Lie in bed a few min, get dressed, talk about work or something, leave shortly after
It goes like this 90% of the time. I don't think sex ever started with making out
>>16685015
Use tongue, it might surprise her but using tongue is fun especially when she tongue punches your tongue back
>>16685296
that sounds not that awesome desu... but to each their own
>>16685312
We banged for 2 years like that
I gf'd her on Friday, we had drunk sex then morning sex similar way to I described
Last night was the first time we had sex which started with me kissing her and I definitely think she enjoyed it a lot more
>>16685166
Top zozzle
>>16685369
It was not fun Tbh
>>16684744
It's more romantic. There's nothing romantic about sucking dick.
>>16684744
What's even the point of kissing? What do both parties get out of it?
kissing isn't more intimate than sex, you can just get carried away in kissing and start creating the build up. like if you kiss while you're dick is in her that's going to be more intimate than kissing without a dick in her.
theres a line with kissing tho, like you sorta have to feel your partner out if this is a hookup or one night stand thing. if she doesn't want to kiss it's probably cause she doesn't want to let herself get into you or maybe just wants your dick only.
>>16685571
they get pleasure you retard its like buttsex you can't cum from it but you get pleasure
>>16685589
>you can't cum from butt sex
You obviously don't know what you are talking about
>>16685607
you also can't cum from regular sex
sorry
you can't cum
it's a myth
>>16684744
For me, kissing is more intimate and I save it only for my boyfriend. In the past I never kissed a fwb and wont do it.
>>16685629
Ok now I'm curious because it seems like a lot of femanons here have had FwB.
Just how exactly common is it for girls to have a solid FwB?
>>16685637
Cant tell because its different for each girl. Some say they cant stand being in a sexual relationshio without feelings or they need comimment to have sex. Others prefer it cause its practical and they just need to satisfy their need for pleasure. It depends...
In 4 years I had like 2 fwb, one was for like 3 years and the other for 6 months until I met my boyfriend.
>>16685637
The fwb thing is a microcosm of the "90% of women go after the top 30% of the men". Often times the male fwb partner has multiple other female fwb partners as well. Shit sucks but women have this part of life on easy mode.
>>16685589
Fucking a girl in the ass makes me cum buckets
>>16685637
I'm a guy and it was a girl who asked me to be fwb and after a couple years I gf'd her
>>16684744
I'm a girl. I have a high sex drive, and often initiate sex. I love blowjobs and general things that involve my mouth. BUT, you just made me realize that I hate making out. Everyone is different. But a lot of other girls I know hate making out as well.
>>16684767
Dude are you literally me?
Now i'm 21 and am afraid that i don't knwo how to kiss properly (or kiss at all).
I'm so fucked up i'm thinking to hire a prostitute to let me refresh my memory about kissing and also to give me tips about sex.
Any anon has some tips to on what to do if i'ts since i was 15 that i had a girlfriend?
>>16685637
i had a FWB for about a year before i realized i just can't do it, but i know a few other girls who have had them
>>16684792
>>16684941
>>16685015
>>16685303
>>16685629
>>16686094
>>16685692
So much fucking degeneracy it is disgusting.
>>16686094
How many dicks have you sucked?
I have mixed feelings. I would say kissing is more personal for me because it means I'm interested in more than just fucking. In a one night stand situation, I'd rather avoid oral sex all around.
>>16686379
Dumb virgin
>>16686379
get over yourself
>>16684792
I got the same stand as you here.
Generally i'm not afraid of getting attached, but sucking a guys dick is alot easier when u've not kissed
>>16686379
Massive tub of lard right there, fatty
>>16686565
>sucking a guys dick is alot easier when u've not kissed
Wtf how? Why would kissing make it difficult?
>>16686386
>I would say kissing is more personal for me because it means I'm interested in more than just fucking.
This is an interesting point actually.
>>16686352
>kissing a prostitute
>>16685637
Because at least half of the girls on this board are not actually females. /b/ wised up to this shit and enacted the TOGTFO policy to ensure that they aren't being lied to.
Oldanon here. I miss kissing. Kissing is loving and intimate and sensual. Too many people these days into porn-style sex and "hookups" and such.
