How do you go about having a gf when you're poor as fuck? I live with my parents and the house is beat to shit and there's ripped up carpet that doesn't cover the whole floor, my parents painted some of the rooms a rediculous pink color, the windows are all 200 years old and broke to shit, there's water damage everywhere every room is a shitty disaster. What do I do?
>>16670790
Get a job and move the fuck out. I'm the process of that as well.
>>16670790
If you find a girl that is in love with you she won't care.
>>16670825
But it matters to me
>>16670835
I guess try to fix it.
>>16670848
Shit advice
trying to date/have a sex life is a nightmare timewaste when you're not financially sound
sucks I know but such is life.
>>16670853
It's my parents not me
>>16670855
if you live with your parents you're a poorfag
get a job
>>16670861
correct
>>16670861
So what I'm not just going to be alone
>>16670875
Priorities. Get money first. Get an apartment first. Then worry about friends and bitches.
In the meantime not worrying so much about friends will probably make you a bit less anxious and maybe a bit more appealing to people.
>>16670886
I'm not trying to buy a local apartment im saving to move far away and I'm not going to just be alone that's literally retarded should I just have been alone through high school? Shut up and fuck off
>>16670894
>goes to /adv/
>tells people who give advice I don't want to hear to fuck off
Have fun with that grand plan, buddy.
Can I just ask: exactly how much have you saved up so far?
>>16670894
Yeeeeeah you're either retarded or a troll and deserved to get fucked. Peace.
>>16670894
why do people come to /adv/ if they just don't want to listen to it?
ok have fun being poor, good luck with the getting laid thing.
>>16670790
not everyone can be rich anon, maybe she's not a millionaire either if she is maybe she wasn't always
I'm going to say get a job and move out, but I know it's not that simple; just do what you can on that front
if she cares, she cares; no point trying to hide it
being poor isn't anything to be ashamed of
I was poor, eating tinned beans for weeks and sleeping in parks
I wasn't ashamed because I was working my way up
>>16670971
Yeah I told her I wanna hang out at her house but I was being pushy and I feel like a dick. I was thinking of hanging out at a neutral location but we can't do that forever plus it's cold as fuck outside so that pretty much limits it to movies and food
>>16671002
to some extent that's normal, don't beat yourself up about it
I've got to ask, is the house a mess or do messed up things happen in it?
the only thing I can really say is
A. make sure her people know you're a good guy, it's unpleasant but there is a general assumption that people down on their luck are tarnished
if you're well mannered and are actually an honest person it'l only be a brief period of wariness
B. don't push her into being at your place, I doubt you' do that but it's worth saying
C. if it's not safe there, let her know that; it might be unpleasant but just say "there are some crazy people who live nearby, please don't come her by yourself"
D. don't beat yourself up, bad things; good people man
>>16671030
Yeah the house is kind of a wreck because there's no upkeep but not really anything messed up happening and I try to keep it clean. We live in a poor as fuck area so the presumption is that everyone is poor but this is just bad
>>16671085
lots of people with bad houses keep them clean
it's not so bad man, you have a house; some people have to live with extended junkie families
good luck with the girl, beat the hood anon
