So I got myself a gf and today and we talk about everything in a really relaxed style. So today we've been talking about me finishing on her face /in her mouth after she'll be giving me a bj and she told me that she really wouldn't want to take it that way. What should I do because I think it's really hot like that. She's never done it before so idk :/
>>16669645
Comprimise tell her it turns you on and if she is a good girlfriend she will at least try it if not then dump her because she is a selfish bitch and this is only the start of it.
>>16669645
If she don't want it don't do it an get over it, no one is ever completely happen with their relationship
Respect that she doesn't want you to come on her face and find other things that turn you on.
>>16669675
She once told me that she would like to try it out one time but I wouldn't want to make her hate it the 1st time
+any advice on what to do when it comes to her giving me her first bj? (she already gave me a handjob before but we stopped before I came)
Maybe try it in the shower so she can spit it out and wash her face right away.
>>16669645
The first rule of sex: Never do anything unless both parties are enthusiastically into it.
The second rule of sex: Insisting your partner does something he/she doesn't want, just to please you, is a direct expression of disrespect for him/her.
The umpteenth rule of sex: coming on your girlfriend's face (unless she's really into it herself) is directly and unambiguously an expression of antagonism toward her
>>16670161
Do it while she is asleep. Or spontaneously during sex
>>16670161
>is directly and unambiguously an expression of antagonism toward her
what? It's just a dominance thing. You're retarded
>>16670180
>dominance
>is directly and unambiguously an expression of antagonism toward her
good you figured it out
>>16669675
How does that make sense, by that logic the boyfriend is a selfish cunt himself.
Dont give advice senpai.
>>16670170
Lol
My boyfriend told me one day out of nowhere "i came all over your hair while
You were sleeping last night"
I had been feeling my hair all day wondering why it felt weird
>>16669645
Just tell her to try it once and if she doesn't like it then she doesn't have to do it again. Then months from now when you want to do it again just beg and beg and beg lol.
Cumming on someone's face is a literal sign of antagonism and degradation. Especially if they're not into it.
>>16670195
are you fucking stupid? so your saying in a relationship you don't try and make your S/O happy by sucking it up one time? I feel bad for anyone in a relationship with you if they want to try something new.
>>16670222
>so your saying in a relationship you don't try and make your S/O happy by sucking it up one time?
I want to kill my girlfriend and then fuck her cold, dead body. I keep trying to get her to try it, just once, but she won't let me. I knew she was being a selfish bitch.
>>16669645
>your girl doesn't practically beg for you to mouth-rape her and shoot your semen down her throat choking her with it to the point it becomes a near-death experience
you're with the wrong girl anon, and she is with the wrong boy.
>>16670161
^^pretty much this, OP.
also ggg
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=GGG
>>16670161
>The first rule of sex: Never do anything unless both parties are enthusiastically into it.
>The second rule of sex: Insisting your partner does something he/she doesn't want, just to please you, is a direct expression of disrespect for him/her.
I like these rules.
I have been on the receiving end of slightly being forced into things, its unpleasant. I have been on the giving end of slightly forcing a party into doing something.
The only thing I would change is enthusiastic. I think neutrality is ok. People can get into it, but if it's starting at the level of disgust it will only get worse.
>>16670271
That's pushing it.
>>16669680
fuck off cuck
OP here.
What about her mouth?
You've watched too much porn anon. Jizzing all over her face is pretty degrading unless she's into that kind of thing, but not that many girls irl are. If she honestly says she wouldn't want to do it like that, you shouldn't try and push it.
>>16671090
Well that's more 'normal', but semen shooting into your throat still doesn't taste or feel great. Maybe she's afraid she'll puke or something?
>>16671090
make a compromise with her. if you're willing to shoot a load into your mouth and swallow it, she can do the same.
Find another Gf. It's what they're for after all.
OP here again. I think she'd try to take it in her mouth to see what it's like for the first time but what to do if she won't like it? Like where am I supposed to cum otherwise?
>>16669645
Whhhaaat? I love cum in my face, she doesn't like being sub?
>>16671225
Apparently not. I often tease her by calling her a sub tho
>>16669645
Get her drunk first OP
>>16671251
Why? If she doesn't want it, respect her wishes. Snorting cocaine off of someone's chest and having wild sex isn't for everyone.
>>16671153
In her pussy anon.
>>16670330
Neutral zone is the 'it could be rape later' zone. Don't do that to normal girls and especially not hatefilled feminists.
>>16671153
if she won't let you cum on her face ask if she'd be okay with you cumming on her titties. just explain to her that it's a huge turn on, reassure her that you're not trying to degrade her but find the thought of her enjoying your semen a huge turn on
>>16671351
She'd probably like that, I'll try to talk with her about that
>>16670202
You should cum in his hair tonight fag
My general operating principle is that when I'm getting a blowjob I let the girl know when I'm close to coming. She can decide herself where it's gonna go.
I don't like jizzing on someone's face. That's just some dumb porn shit, and it's gonna sting and suck a lot if she gets it in her eye.
Women without much of a gag reflex can just deep throat and swallow without having to taste it. But I don't really care if she wants it in her mouth and then spits spits it out, I don't get the whole "I want a girl to swallow" shit.
>>16670180
" The water is liquid "
> Wtf man, the water is just liquid. You're retarded.
>>16671637
Don't be obtuse. Dominance and antagonism aren't the same thing, especially sexually. Somebody can be very protective and benevolent and yet dominant -- in fact, many people find that kind of behavior/roleplaying to be a turn-on.
>>16671646
That's me with my GF and she loves it. I'm the cuddly, romantic type shit kind of guy who gives her for head kisses but will also bend her over and fuck her till she can't walk right. Most girls are into that.
>>16669645
its easier to ask forgiveness than permission
should have just done it and apologized if she was pissed
OP here again.
She's like really shy in general and doesn't wanna rush anything since we both are pretty new to stuff like this. I think I'll just go by what we'll feel comfortable with when it comes to her giving me head and yeah.. Really don't wanna make her mad
Jesus OP are you like 14?
Why do you come here
>>16671738
No but this is like my first gf since I'm a major introvert and shy af and I'm only her second bf since she's almost the same about things like that. All of this is just really new to me, that's why
