Me and my boyfriend are in a monogamous relationship. Were both 20 and and he recently just lost is his virginity to me. The only problem that we are having is that sex only last for about 2 to 3 minutes because he finishes so fast every single time ! He feels bad because he feels like I can never truly get off and he does. We tired foreplay, and even masturbating before he comes over but none of that seems to work. It's just makes me very upset because we both love each very much but this really hurting our relationship because he feels so bad about himself after wards and I don't want him to feel like that. I just want sex for us to me pleasurable and last longer so we both can feel good. He was thinking about taking a pill like viagra but I don't know if that would actually help, plus because he is so young it makes me worried. Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated.
Stop being a whore. Given time sex will become better. But you dont seem to want to put that time into a person. Go slut around with someone else. To bad he lost his virginity to a slut though. He should have been more careful.
>>16651898
Oh shut the fuck up and ignore this troll OP.
The more sex you have, the longer he will last. The only solution is to just keep fucking.
>expecting sex to be good when he just lost his virginity
Oh my god how entitled are you?
>>16651888
Get a cock ring and tie him down. He's fucking up because he doesn't know how to pace himself.
>>16651905
It isn't a sense of entitlement, they're both virgins with no idea how sex works. A young female doesn't know how a mans body works. Cut her some slack, she doesn't know any better.
>>16651913
OP wasn't a virgin.
>>16651888
So why aren't you going for round two?
>>16651917
Oops, my bad. Still sounds like she obviously inexperienced as far as a mans body goes.
>>16651920
He is usually too tired to go round two...
>>16651931
Mount him.
>>16651931
Something smells fishy here.
>>16651938
(OP here)
It's always when i mount him i move my hips on him and that what makes him cum. I'm the one who is in control... do you think i should let him do me ?
>>16651938
Mounting him doesn't guarantee he's gonna get or stay hard.
>>16651947
Change positions, don't fuck him in ways that makes him cum so fast.
>>16651947
Of course you should do that as well. Experiment. When you change positions he gets a small breather as well.
>>16651950
The OP mentioned nothing about him being unable to maintain erections.
>>16651955
>Change positions, don't fuck him in ways that makes him cum so fast.
What positions do you suggest ?
>>16651979
That's up to y'all to find out. If you find he lasts longer in missionary, do that.
use ''long love'' condoms or make him wear two. he wont feel anything but atleast ull be fucked and if the cumming too fast is the only problem you might as well get an orgasm too.
>>16651992
Wearing two confirms is ridiculous.
>>16651947
Personally, as a man, when I'm the one in control it's much easier to not cum because if I start to feel an orgasm coming I can slow down or start doing something that pleasures me less. If the girl I'm with is on top and she's riding me I basically have no way to stop myself aside from changing positions. I'd definitely try missionary. Whenever he feels close to coming have him stop thrusting so much and focus on you for a bit.
>>16651888
omg, tell him to slow the fuck down.
he's blowing his ball sack because he has no discipline. next time he's inside you, tell him to open his eyes and look deep into yours, put your hand on his chest and learn to read his breathing.
then, tell him to fuck you.
whenever you feel his breathing being to excel into a pant, squeeze his chest and tell him to slow down, and catch his breath.
then, tell him to fuck you.
when you're done, take your hand off of his chest, and tell him to cum for you.
>>16651888
Try some numbing lube or tell him to practice edging.. both work for me.. but really I can have sex for hours and hold my load in.
>>16652001
why?
>>16651888
Get off before he does, with lots of fingering and oral.
>>16651931
Too tired after 2-3 minutes of you on top? He's lying.
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