REGRET
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I got wasted yesterday and sent dick pics to a past hookup even though I have a gf. I know by most definitions this is cheating, but I don't know what to do. Do I tell my gf? Or delete everything, block the girl and forget it happened?
Desperation bump because of muh feels
Tell the girl that you sent pics to that you were wasted and that you feel that what you did was wrong and regret it. Apologize. If you block her she could spit some venom and try to stir shit with you or your gf.
I don't think it's necessary to tell your gf unless oh think she might find out.
I think you should tell her.
Delete everything, block her, and forget it ever happened.
>Inb4 massive moral hurrdurr cheating posts
Any advice after this post is immediately invalid.
>>16651616
who cares what 'by most definitions' something is? It's between you, and your girlfriend (if she ever finds out). In the mean time, figure out why you did it, and decide if telling her will add to your relationship.
>>16651643
Yeah I'm a bit worried she'll spit venom, but she lives far and her only means of communication is snapchat. I think I'm clear.
>>16651645
I'm gonna not be a moralfag and do this. Thanks anon!
Oh and advice for everyone: bust a nut when thinking of other girls. You'll realize it's not worth it in the long run and you'll lose all interest.
>>16651762
This is terrible advice.
Source: experience with sexual conditioning and imprinting on the "wrong" person
>>16651881
how does that work?
>>16651645
Too bad it would take .5 seconds for her to log into another account, search your name, and show everyone in your life what you showed her
>>16653133
Everything I have on facebook is private, she literally can't find anyone I know. With no mutual friends, her finding me is a Longshot to begin with. She lives about 50km away from me.
>>16651684
Yay, you're a horrible person.
>>16653426
>muh feelz
Maybe, if I didn't give a fuck, but I do.
>>16653440
It doesn't matter whether you give a fuck or not. If your girlfriend did porn while you were dating, felt bad about it but didn't tell you, would she be a good person?
The only person who's "muh feelz" is you by not growing the fuck up and telling her. I have no stake in your relationship.
>>16653453
>sending a picture that is unidentifiable as me
>physicaly prostituting yourself on camera
Not great comparisons there. So I should destroy my relationship, just so my conscience is clear?
>>16651616
if you cant control yourself while drinking, dont drink.
in the meantime limit yourself to just two drinks when you feel the urge, see how it goes. if you cant control yourself even then, scale it back to one. cant do that? dont drink.
>>16653473
There's porn out there with the faces blurred out or not in the shot. You should tell her because it's the right thing to do? Even in this reply you're only thinking of yourself, how narcissistic can you get? Would you want to be with someone who was an anonymous camwhore online without you knowing? The point is that you crossed a sexual boundary, and she deserves to know that she's in a relationship with a person who crosses sexual boundaries. You say you're not a "moralfag", well she deserves to know that she's not in a relationship with a moralfag. Maybe she'll care, maybe she won't, but she deserves to make that decision for herself.
>>16653492
I'm not sure what fuelled your emotionally induced rant, but the situation isn't as horrible as you're making it to be. Physicaly sticking my penis in another girl vs sending a picture are not the same. Also, the "narcissistic" claim makes no sense, otherwise I wouldn't be displaying deep regret. People do much worse, and this situation will be buried forever. I've contacted the girl and displayed my humiliation, and she totally understood. This doesn't have to get any worse by telling my girlfriend who is literally the most emotional PMSer on the planet.
>>16651881
Pretty sure its great advice. I always wank about forbidden chances and I never act on forbidden gals.
>>16653593
I'm not emotional, it's just ridiculous that you don't see how self-absorbed you are. Cheating is cheating. You would want to know if your girlfriend was an anonymous camwhore, right? You're being narcissistic because you're completely disregarding your girlfriend and her will. Regret doesn't matter. Your expressions of regret are only ego strokes. And look how long lasted your regret was, you're already minimizing it, "it isn't so bad".
You say "yeah, I care" but if you cared you would come clean and let your girlfriend, an adult, make a decision about whether she wants to be in a relationship with someone who sexts other girls while drunk. This is her life. Let her make the decision about how bad it was. You're not letting her do that not because you're looking out for her and her feelings, but because you don't want to deal with the backlash from it. You're being dishonest to your girlfriend. I hope she's at least sexting and snapchatting pics of her wet vag to other guys behind your back so that this relationship is at least even.
>>16653593
OP forget it. Some people are absolute dependents and if they experience some kind of infidelity they convince themselves that they have been wronged greater than anybody has been. This guy is obviously a beta fuck who can't handle the idea of his girlfriend getting sick of his faggotry.
What you did was harmless but only as long as it stays a secret. Discuss with the girl you sent it to what she thinks about it, explain that it was a mistake and ask if she could just delete it and forget about it.
>>16653687
>i'm a beta fuck
>wouldn't care if his gf was camwhoring behind his back
Either both of those are true, or neither is. If they're false, congratulations, you're a run-of-the-mill asshole.
>>16653698
Enjoy being a little pussy
>waahh OP sent a dick pic that's IMMORAL
>>16653708
>Waaaah my girlfriend is camwhoring, that's IMMORAL
You're either a huge pussy then, or a cuck.
>>16653729
This cuck-obsessed faggot crying about how evil OP is going to bother calling me a cuck when it's painfully clear that his objection to cheating comes from his own cuckoldry? Haha m8 come on now
>>16653738
I'm not a cuck, I have standards for myself and for my SO. If you're comfortable with your GF sending vag pics to other guys and sexting them while drunk, you're a cuck.
>>16653746
>implying I wouldn't dump that bitch
>implying I still wouldn't do it myself and just keep it a secret better than she would
kek
>>16653750
The advice you're giving is to keep the cheating secret. So by your standards she'd keep it secret from you to preserve the relationship. That's the right thing to do? You guys are pathetically narcissistic. It's only wrong when someone does it to you.
>>16651616
chances are she does the same to the jerk before you that pumped and dumped her
>>16653687
Yeah I agree, this cuck got his panties in a twist over something that will never happen again, and could have been much worse. Once communication is severed with this girl, it is completely impossible to hear about it again. I'm not gonna throw an important piece of my life away for sending an image to a girl who lives far as fuck away... thanks anon!
>>16653769
She was a virgin before we met. Can confirm, lots of blood the first time.
>>16653859
You're just throwing your girlfriend's right to be with an honest man away.
The delusionality of calling me a cuck for not condoning cheating: lol. Have fun cucking your girlfriend bro, since that's something you condone I sincerely hope your girlfriend starts sending pics of her sloppy pussy for other guys to jerk off to, so you can see how it feels. If you're anything like eachother it'll surely happen.
>>16653882
>reading comprehension
Literally the title is "regret". I don't think what I've done is the worst thing on earth, but I also never condoned this type of behavior. You're placing this on the same level as sticking my dick in a girls hole. And yes, this situation is only bad if I get caught, or if I'm cucked enough to tell my gf. Now life will go back to normal because this isn't a quarter as bad as you're inflating it with MUH FEELZ
>>16653900
Cheating is cheating. By not telling her, you're condoning the fact that you cheated on her and didn't tell her about it. The fact that you only see the situation as bad if she finds out, says that you're a self-absorbed person. And are you retarded? You're the one cucking your girlfriend. Telling someone the truth about the fact that you cheated on them is not called being a cuck.
If it's not that bad, tell her. You're not telling her because you know it's bad. Again, hope your gf is sending her sloppy pussy pics to other guys behind your back, you deserve it.
>>16653900
And you don't regret it: this entire thread has been you justifying your actions, saying it's not that bad. The only bad thing about this to you is that you could possibly be found out. You don't care about your girlfriend's rights at all. "Life will go back to normal" - indeed, asshole. So much for regret. Don't pretend like you care about anyone but yourself in this.
>>16653930
>>16653939
I honestly feel bad for you. You've included so much emotion in your writing, that until you declared it talking to the other anon, I could have sworn you were a woman. You must be hurt from a past event where a girl sent pics to another dude or something, and this triggers you. Feel better anon, I'm here to talk if you need me.
>>16651616
how big is your dick?
>>16655581
7 inches. I'm 6'2" so it looks relatively average compared to my body.
