Problem: I have a girl who I had sex with after 2 dates, she thought honestly I was the best in bed, but since then I felt like she was more distant... Like she thinks I'm a fuck-buddy waiting in the stable for her now.
She's hung up on an ex who doesn't even like her somehow. Is this something that goes away eventually? Should I Persue? I confronted her, am I doing it right?
You're doing it wrong. She's still hung up on her ex, you're just a fuck buddy to get emotion out on. Nothing more, move on before you get hurt even more.
>>16650125
>She's hung up on an ex
And you actually think you can get a relationship out of this?
This is the stupid status she posted after I told her she should leave her exes in the past and move onto someone who actually likes her.
>>16650134
>>16650136
How should I confront this?
Here's your mistake; talking about the relationship. Never do that again, with any female human.
>>16650142
You either decide to stay as a fuckbuddy, or you tell her you're not comfortable being a rebound and the two of you clearly want different things. And then you find another girl to date
This is a status that another girl I slept with posted, which makes me have a little hope for something ... Makes me think persistence might be the best quality. (Status not about me though)
>>16650129
stop bombing her with your clingy texts
give her space, you're probably just a fuckbuddy like >>16650134 said, so don't make a big deal of it, but if you're not ok on being a backup dick to her, cut contact and find a girl free of drama.
>>16650152
This is bullshit you faggot, girls need an ego boost when they get dumped, and that's what that guy is for her, stop making big deal of every single bullshit that poetic attention whores write on internet
>>16650152
God damn it, Jason, you forgot to block out her name on the top bar...
>>16650142
Be understanding? Don't get too emotional over it. She's incredibly hurt over her last relationship and is in a painful state of mind. You could be the nicest man on the earth, but it wouldn't matter to her. She seems like a nice gal, really, but whether a week, or a year, she is not ready for a relationship again. It's a great confidence boost for her, but nothing more. Sorry, man.
I guess I'll just stop replying/talking and be a backup dick if I haven't found someone already. I'll just let her go unless she wants to come to me herself.
