I'm a femanon in her 20s. I've never had any male attention in my entire life mainly because I'm unattractive and very shy, however want to try to make some changes and get a bf soon.
I don't understand what men want in a woman, or how to attract them. I used to watch dating advice videos and read blogs by love gurus about how to get guys and according to them, it all boils down to:
>be confident
>be playful
>keep him wanting more of you
>make him want to chase you
But lurking 4chan [spoiler]and reddit[/spoiler], all I see is:
>be attractive
>be nice and feminine
So what do men really want in a woman? What if even though they say they want X, they're really only attracted to Y? (Like how women say they want a "nice guy" but will often go for the bad boy). Pretty but bitchy and "hard to get" girls seem to get the most attention from tons of beta orbiters. I personally never see shy, pretty girls get nearly as much attention as the bitchy princesses.
So what do I do? Do I use female PUA techniques (be playful, confident and mysterious, make him want me, etc) or just be myself (shy, awkward but very sweet and polite)?
An attractive, feminine woman grabs a man's attention. The other stuff keeps him interested
A man asking a girl how to pick-up or be attractive makes absolutely no sense. A girl has never had to pick-up or date other girls, and so doesn't truly know how to do it. She may THINK she does, but we both know that is not the case. This is true for the opposite. You're presumably a girl, asking guys how to be pick-up or date men. We honestly don't know. We don't date other guys.
Ask girls for this sort of stuff, they have experience dealing with men during and after the attraction phase of relationships.
All bf/gf relationship starts with friends where you get to know each other until you both were confident enough to be sure he/she is the one.
If a relationship starts by physical attraction, the relationship won't last long.
So start off by joining some sort of community and expend your circle.
>unattractive
You have one job as a woman. Look good. I'm not just talking about putting make up on. Do everything in your power to give yourself a good "morning face" and if overweight, get jogging.
And don't get caught up on calling sexism, you're still better off than men who have to bust their ass non-stop by working out and keeping fit just for a woman to even give them a fleeting smile.
Of course, you can cop out and go with the other pseudo-attractive shit like financial status or "life of the party" lifestyle, but you won't get far in terms of relationships using those, it'll only get you through the door.
>>16639204
Well, if a girl is obviously unattractive, I'm only inclined to give her a chance if she responds very well (i.e. asks a lot of questions, show herself interested, ...). I really don't think you should play hard to get. That works for attractive people, but if a girl I already find unattractive doesn't respond well, I'll just drop it because it's not worth the effort.
On the other hand, I'll get really interested if the girl has a good personality and genuinely share my hobbies. I'm willing to overlook a lot of things for a girl I can actually spend good time with.
Learn how to do makeup, there's tutorials on yt.
Don't be shy, keep in mind that every guy out there would like to sleep with you, but not everyone would like to stay, so if you have an interesting personality, well... Just hang out at places where you might meet new people (parties, club/fitness activities, ect...)
>>16639247
Welp I wasn't really asking any specific gender, but when I get advice from women it's always just "wear makeup and nice clothes", so basically what >>16639206 said.
It's just that when I read those love gurus' blogs I was motivated to maybe try to be flirty and playful to create attraction, but then the comments on reddit & 4chan convinced me that it was fine to just be myself so now when I go back to those blogs I'm confused.
>>16639300
Well there's not much I can do about my face, sadly, and that's my main problem. I could be a 6/10 with makeup and nice clothes and a slightly fitter body, so that's what I'm gonna work on. It's not like I plan to hit on 8/10 men anyway.
This isn't rocket science. You admit you're a 4/10 - 6/10. Find a guy who's down on his luck, shy, 5/10 himself, and come onto him. That's it. Theres millions of guys out there right now going "ugh.. I wish women could just come onto men once in a while and I wouldn't have to put on this Alpha Male act to get into relationships". So fucking go out then and do it. Why not? Fuck what society says, you want a bf, they want a gf, whatever.
As lame as it sounds, your goal then is to grow as people together and support eachother in becoming the kind of successful people you WISHED you were dating.
Seriously, go to some nerdy event, find a guy who is just introverted/shy and isn't a weeabo/autist, and woo him. Girls have just zero excuse to make a topic like you, UNLESS you have some facial deformity or mental retardation.
>see guy you like and is available. can be friends, coworkers a bar or whatever
>be friendly, ask him out when reasonable
>see how things work out.
or you can play the disgusting "give ambiguous signs and wait for him" game.
>>16639346
There's tonnes of stuff you can do to fix this. You just need to put in a lot of research, trial and error and critical thinking. That, or find someone successful to red-pill you about beauty tips. For example, here's one that works for both genders: take a cold shower every day. It not only wakes you up and energizes you for potentially your entire day, but it also closes your pores and keeps the dirt off of your skin. Doing this long enough eventually gives you smoother, nicer skin. It's hard to figure out these lifehacks, but they're extremely important.
>>16639352
I know that it's easier for women to approach men but I really just wonder how to go about it and how to improve myself to be successful other than just "be attractive".
>>16639204
Don't be fat.
And don't be sexist. The VAST majority of women are extremely sexist in their dating habits. Eg, expect the man to ask her out first, expect the man to approach her, expect the man to take all of the initiative.
But there are tons of men out there that don't like traditional gender roles, so if you're one of the few women that even comes close to treating men like equals you'll be swarmed with more dick than you can handle.
If you have a hard time meeting men IRL, go with online dating. But again, don't be sexist about it and expect the men to do everything. Go send them messages and ask them out to lunch or something.
Dating as a woman is easy as fuck. If you're fat, go to >>>/fit/ and stop being fat. If you're not fat, then you'll find plenty of men who find you physically attractive, and from there it's just about putting in minimal effort on your end.
>be confident
>be playful
>keep him wanting more of you
>make him want to chase you
>be nice and feminine
>be playful, confident, and mysterious
You can pretty much ignore any of that. Some guys want feminine women, some are fine with tomboys. Playing games is going to backfire more often than not. Waiting for him to chase you is why most women fail.
Just:
>Don't be fat
>Don't be sexist / Do put as much effort in as you expect men to
>Have at least semi-realistic standards
Every single woman who follows the above is guaranteed a boyfriend within a month or two.
>>16639346
Don't neglect your hair too. You can get a nice boost with that. The #1 mistake I see girls do is cut their hair (very) short, often under the pretense that they split of whatever. Guys don't care and don't notice that, they do notice the length though, a lot.
>>16639372
Yes and I'm telling you: Have you actually gone out and came onto a guy? Asked a guy out? Hit on a quiet 6/10, exchange numbers or facebook, message him the next day about going out somewhere. Okay, didn't bite? Try at least 3 more times. NOBODY is receptive? Alright, THEN you got a problem. Until you try this, though, you're just wasting time here and beating around the bush, asking about the what's and how's.
Same advice I give to guys: look at your life and do the best you can in each facet of it. It's not about manipulating the other person's feelings. It's about being deserving of their admiration and affection. For all the different tastes that people have, you should be most concerned about the respect which well-adjusted people have for those who are genuinely awesome. It's a shit ton of work to live near your peak but the rewards are there. It's a fair system.
Do as good as you know how to do with everything you can. Focus on yourself, not playing games with the guys.
>>16639204
you dont want just "men", otherwise you could simply go out and choose with the tip of your fingers, go up to him, talk, get his number, date him. you want alpha men. attractive, muscular, tall, big dick, good career prospects. for that there is a bigger challenge since a very big portion of females are also chasing him. be better at what he wants in a woman than all the competition and you will get him. as a general rule, be attractive, feminine, fit, show interest.
>>16639382
Yeah I forgot to mention the hair. I look very different when I straighten my hair, usually it's a bird's nest...
>>16639394
I've never hit on a guy before but I've been brutally rejected plenty of times by crushes who found out I was into them, which is why I stopped thinking about boys for a decade.
I've also already figured out that quiet, shy, average-ish guys are my best bet.
But I still dream about being a catch. I don't want to be someone a lonely guy settles for, I want to be a good gf. That's why I'm looking for advice more focused on character.
>>16639413
>implying non-alpha men are even men
They're boys at most. She was right when she said she wants men
as long as you're under 130 pounds you should be fine
>>16639419
>>16639413
Yeah, well, guess what. "Alpha Males", the ripped, athletic, Chad Thundercocks are never going to deign to notice OP and she doesn't deserve them to, either. It's a long, arduous and most of all: lonely journey to becoming well-built. You get used to working through the pain on your own without anyone's support. You think after all that, a guy's going to settle for a 6 out of 10?
>>16639438
I've seen it happen. I know a literal landwhale who dated rugby players, among other 'Chads'.
First off don't be overweight and try not to dress frumpy. It really limits your options when looking for people. You do that and you are viable choice to many men.
Next get out there, do things, and meet people. having an existing friend group helps immensely. You will be approached by men if you followed the first piece of advice. Take them up on offers to go out, have fun, and use protection. Turn them down polity if you don't have an interest. If they don't listen to that don't be afraid to get nasty when you tell them off.
Failing that, online dating. Take good pictures, fill out your profile, and sort through a bunch of shitty messages. Same rules apply, but meet anyone in person in public first. Filters out the nutcases and netflix and chill types.
>>16639401
>It's a fair system.
Nah, it's a captialistic system.
And then if you think capitalism is fair, very well, then you're correct.
But, you se, in life, what matters most for your chance of success is were you are born, what you look like and who your parents are.
Im not say work doesn't pay of, but there are very few who make it to the top. Not everybody can make it to the top, or being at the top wouldn't be worth anything.
>>16639417
Having someone grow to like you after you make the first move isn't them settling for you. You can't expect people to be head over heels for you on first sight. IMO real love from a man will only come with time, and I think women are able to see certain qualities in men and quickly like them for those but a good guy will only ever truly like you for you. I don't consider dating a girl unless I'm able to get to know her and find that I enjoy being with her on a very fundemental level, looks usually have very little to do with this. The only thing I really look for physically is if she looks healthy (as in any level of athletic) and like she takes care of herself.
In the end you just have to go out and meet guys, and as a woman you have the ability to do so easily so go out and introduce yourself to guys you think you could be interested in.
>>16639417
>I don't want to be someone a lonely guy settles for, I want to be a good gf.
Why not? You're in a lowly position. They're in a lowly position. Get together, support eachother in your growth, and I guarantee you that's a fine recipe for a wholesome relationship.
>But I still dream about being a catch.
Well then I've got news for ya. Like I've said here >>16639438, guys need to work their ass off to be a catch and it's the same exact thing for women as well. Stay fit, eat healthy, spend a metric fuckton of time and effort on make-up. Get a career, all that other bullshit society expects of you. But guess what, just like I described with the guys, once you do that, you'll find yourself with a new dillemma, wherein you start thinking you're better and expect to be with 9/10's.
Either way, pick your poison. Life sucks, deal with it.
>>16639461
The reason you're wrong is that you just implicitly defined the absolute top as being the only position of success. I said that it's being as good *as you know how to be.* That's a relative top.
From what you've said OP, the biggest thing you need is confidence. That's not going to come from male attention, though I will admit male attention probably will help
>>16639474
Yes, but "as good as you know how to be", might still not be enough to get what you want.
Post a photo already you goonster. Your advice is going to be limited to the usual platitudes if you don't show specifically what the trouble is, and a lot of that can be resolved with makeup or a new hairstyle.
>>16639481
True. That's also not one of my conditions for success however. I give advice, not guarantees or magic spells.
>>16639413
>>you dont want just "men"
>>you want alpha men. attractive, muscular, tall, big dick, good career prospects
Assumptions. Let's be realistic for a sec: I'm a 4/10, 6/10 if I doll myself up. I don't see how an alpha could possibly want to be with me when I'm shit-tier. I was treated like garbage by them throughout my teens, I know they'll never like me.
>>16639463
>>16639468
I don't know if I worded it well, I meant that if I ever manage to get a bf, I'd want him to think "I'm glad I met this great girl!" instead of "she was the only one available". I really want to impress someone.
>>16639485
One guy's 5/10 is another guy's 10/10. Having a good personality can raise you up so many points. Like I said in the first post, looks attract a man, but personality keeps him.
>>16639489
As a guy I'd like to interject and say that looks also keep me. If those fall by the wayside within the limits of her control, I'm leaving her and her amazing personality in the dust.
>>16639493
Well obviously a guy's not going to be happy if looks aren't maintained. But if a girl is attractive but has a shit personality, you're not going to stick around, am I wrong?
>>16639204
just out of curiosity, where are you from op? can you post pics?
don't need to be specific
>>16639484
Yeah, what im saying is that, this reasoning of relative sucess also means there are people out there who have very small chanses of ever "making it".
But it's up to you, whatever you define as you goal, i guess.
>>16639482
There's no need for pictures, I already know what I can do to improve my looks. That's not the advice I'm looking for.
>>16639489
What are some ways I can improve my personality? As >>16639476 pointed out, one of my issues is confidence. I want to work on that (I think working on my looks will automatically boost my confidence).
What are some traits that men generally look for in women?
>>16639497
Europe (sorry if it's vague, some people from my area browse 4chan...)
>>16639461
You don't need to make it to the top to have a good life. Sure you won't be able to jet away to another continent every weekend and bang porn stars every day, but you can have a roof over your head, good food, some fun, and a partner who likes you.
>>16639489
This.
I prefer the cute brunettes. Others prefer the blonde bombshells. Some girls want Mr. Clean. Others want the lumberjack on the paper towels.
>>16639485
I don't think you should really worry about that too much. You'll probably be able to tell if he doesn't really like you, and there's nothing wrong with finding out he doesn't like you that much and ending it. Those guys aren't all guys, and they won't all be good guys either, but if you want to find it you have to start looking.
You should just relax and enjoy the search, you'll meet new people and mature yourself as you do. You'll find him if you look.
>>16639512
no problem it's vague, just to get some context.
I'm from Brazil and here any girl gets asked out if she gets out enough, it's just a matter of meeting people and showing interest.
>>16639286
Sorry dude but IMO, like most absolute statements regarding human interactions, that's bullshit.
Take my case : got interested and approached in my current gf/fiancée because she was hot. She fancied me for the same reason. Started seeing each other, fell in love, became best friends, etc etc. Been together for > 10 years, living together for 4 years, will try to have kids this year. Everything started because of mutual physical attraction. Not saying this is common, I don't claim to know how it is for other people, just mean to say it can happen.
>>16639204
I don't have magical answers but going by common sense :
- physical attractiveness and extroversion are mostly usefull to get attention. For the initial contact/interest.
---> on the physical side, some basic grooming and hygiene are essential. Proper use of makeup and clothes helps as well. A so so girl can look pretty attractive if she does this correctly.
---> in terms of personnality, it's hard and usually awkward to try to act like an extrovert if you're shy. Not being rude, having a sense of humor and learning to tease/play around (not necessarily in a sexual way) goes along way however. A stimulating person is usually considered attractive. Person to person interaction is a social skill and like any skill it gets better with practice. Some people are naturally good at it, some are awful, but for most of us are just average. The more you interact with people the better you'll get (read body language, learn jokes, get better at empathy, etc) so try to see people from time to time, chat with people at work/school, that sort of thing.
- for the long term personality and interests will likelly be more important since good looks won't last forever. Common goals, etc. Take it one thing at a time. It's probably pointless to worry about long term relatioships if you're not in a relationship at all.
Good luck
>>16639512
>What are some ways I can improve my personality?
That was me that made the post about confidence as well. It's really different for everyone, but I would say that becoming the sort of person you aspire to be in other aspects of your life helps. You're right about looks: improving my looks definitely improved my confidence too, not going to lie.
>>16639512
What's your personality like?
Posting pic might not be a bad idea
>>16639513
>You don't need to make it to the top to have a good life.
Actually, i don't have to do anything at all to have a good, i just need to feel good.
I mean, with that kind of reasoning, drugs are good idea. The problem is that they are not permanent, but nothing is really permanent, besides death i guess.
But if i can, like, make myself be happy with less, then that's as good as "making it to the top".
So the best thing i can do is to somehow, get into a situation where it's easy to decieve myself that i have everything i need.
>>16639485
Women have historically and evolutionarily been pillars to men. Men in GENERAL want Women to help them, motivate them, love them, brighten their day. This is as good an advice you can get on this front. Going further than this is delving into each guy's personal mindset, and it becomes a crapshoot. This is where that other anon's words come in about just making the best of what you can be. Just be yourself. You might know that this is harder than it sounds, but it's SO important. If you can't be yourself, you have certain crippling self-esteem issues, so then it becomes top priority to identify what you perceive to be missing and working towards filling that hole up.
>>16639534
>>16639512
Forgot to answer the other question about what men look for. I know it's cliche advice, but 'be yourself' is really a big thing. Be genuine and don't pretend to be someone you're not, because no one wants to date a fake. Guys often don't like girls who try to act like one of the boys either, they want a girlfriend, not another bro. At the same time, a good relationship is often described as a best friend you can have sex with, and I think that's true; so guys want a girl who will support them and who they can have fun with, but you also need to retain some element of femininity.
At least, that's what I think guys want. I'm not a guy, and given the nature of /adv/, I'm sure someone will correct me if they disagree.
>>16639553
That's pretty spot on, albeit you're a little off about girls acting like a guy. If a guy doesn't respond to a girl broing out, it's because they are doing it wrong and making it look like they friend zoned him. Otherwise, I can't see how it'd be a turn off.
>>16639524
Yep... I'm a shut-in and have never had any male friends, so that's also one reason why I've never had a bf. I'm at an age where it's hard to expand one's social circle and make friends, sadly...
>>16639535
I fit the "quiet nerd" stereotype perfectly. Shy, socially awkward, insecure, etc. I'm also very submissive and avoid confrontations. I'm kind of a doormat desu.
Btw thank you guys so much for the replies, I appreciate your advice a lot.
>>16639512
>What are some traits that men generally look for in women?
The ability to hold a conversation with more than 1 word answers
Interests besides of the consumption of media
A working sex drive
>>16639204
>So what do men really want in a woman?
Someone who isn't controlling, is capable of thinking logically and takes some pride in her health/appearance
>What if even though they say they want X, they're really only attracted to Y? (Like how women say they want a "nice guy" but will often go for the bad boy)
When women say they like "nice guys" they mean ones with manners and basic social skills, "bad boys" are the ones with life experience that take them to places
>Pretty but bitchy and "hard to get" girls seem to get the most attention from tons of beta orbiters.
You don't want a beta orbiter
>I personally never see shy, pretty girls get nearly as much attention as the bitchy princesses.
I wouldn't trust your opinion on what men look for if you can;t get a boyfriend or male attention.
Do you take pride in your appearance?
Do you take pride in your health?
Do you have any hobbies?
Do you have a career?
Do you have any life goals?
If you answered "no" to any of these, sort your shit out, if you chose "yes" then you are lying.
Get exposure to people and a guy will ask you out.
>>16639595
>I'm at an age where it's hard to expand one's social circle and make friends, sadly...
You're a woman. You can go on Tinder, OKCupid, etc. and get a boyfriend easy as fuck as long as you have realistic standards. If you don't have a boyfriend I'm assuming you haven't done that, so why haven't you gone online? You can't meet men IRL, you refuse to meet them online... what do you want?
>>16639782
Online dating is not popular in my country
>>16639810
well then move out of whatever shithole country you're in and come to Freedomland.
>>16639204
Everyone in the world, man or woman, is attracted to easy, friendly confidence. This is because people often have so many problems and insecurity in their own lives, subconsciously they feel good with someone who they can sort of lean on, someone who gives them energy instead of sucking energy from them.
So, you should try to avoid being a sadsack. Being difficult and shy or getting easily offended and hurt and sadly sitting in a corner, waiting for someone to talk to you out of pity and feeling so sorry for yourself it emanates off you and other people can sense it is a horrible idea. Only in anime will other people come voluntarily to talk to a sad loner, IRL people will assume they want to be alone.
You should try to get the most mileage of the looks you've got, try to get relatively fit, have nice-ish clothes and hair, make-up etc. But it's the attitude that's the key. The women who all the men seem to adore and want in my circle of acquaintances are not the hottest ones, but the ones who are always smiling, who radiate this cheery, bubbly energy, who are always happy to see you - but who aren't annoying, loud, ditzy or fake. This is a fine balance. I would focus on becoming interesting (good conversation, knowledge in topics, not aggressive or overly sarcastic) and friendly, all this mindgames of making the man chase you work better for the truly hot sex bomb chicks.
Then, attract a man. What I do is try to get eye contact with them, smile while looking them right at the eyes, and hold the eye connection just a little longer than would normally feel comfortable (or polite). Count slowly 5 seconds before letting yourself look away, and smile at them. Then after maybe 10 seconds look at them again, and flash a smile if / when you find them looking at you, and look away. After that keep looking and smiling at /with them. This is a clear signal most guys will understand, and they will come and talk to you if they're interested.
>>16639918
after he comes and talks to you, act like you're happy he's there, show your interest. Smile at him, look him in the eyes, touch his hand or arm "accidentally" or briefly and nonchalantly, and also tell him to his face how much you enjoy being in his company; "I'm so glad we met", "you're really cool", "you're funny" etc.
There's been psychological tests on what makes people fall in love, or feel like it, and eye contact, especially prolonged one, has been shown to create a feeling of attraction, "togetherness" or knowing the other person, so it's good to look the guy in the eyes a lot, smiling with this dreamy look, like you'd really enjoy that they're there, that their presence makes you feel great, that you're just so happy to be with them in this moment. I've found that surprisingly, guys don't necessarily look away, and it does feel like this hollywood romantic movie moment.
Also in this article are 36 questions that supposedly ignite love. You shouldn't interrogate the man you're trying to get, of course, but perhaps you can get some ideas for conversation topics that could lead to interesting conversations and leave people feeling like you're interesting, and more importantly - interested in THEM:
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html
Say your available for sex, all the male attention you want
The "bitchy princesses" get a lot of attention because they're putting themselves out there. The beta orbiters end up being attracted to her because her talking to them makes them feel like they might have a shot (even if they don't). Plus, everyone likes to be around attractive people so now the beta orbiters want to be around her just because.
Attractive, shy girls run into the problem of guys assuming that she's already taken. "She's so reserved and quiet and she's really pretty, she must already have a boyfriend" or "She probably doesn't want anyone bothering her". Then, even if guys do approach the shy girls tend to second guess themselves and act awkward as fuck, sending all kinds of mixed signals. Now the only ones that are left are the pushy aggressive types who tend to be sleazier and now the shy girl is turned off by them.
>>16639204
Whats the part you are not telling us? Game is so easy at your age range and sex, it is virtually impossible to wind in the situation you are currently in. There is definitely some red flags on you you are not being honest about. Just fucking tell us so we can help you.
>>16639204
>go to >>>/soc/
>post your tits
>post your contact info
Problem solved.
>>16640003
>I'm unattractive and very shy
It's like you only read the topic and decided to get mad
>>16640015
There's a reason why 4chan is filled to the brim with dudes and dudes in dresses.
>>16640012
What if I don't have nice tits
>>16640086
I like tits that are anything but nice. You have nothing to lose.
>>16639918
>>16639970
That last bit about eye contact is very interesting. Thanks for the advice! If I find myself in a situation where I think I can pull this off, I might try it. Right now though I'm thinking about trying to meet new people through some activities and see if I can start conversations with guys there. If all else fails I might have to try going to a club or something...
>>16640086
That's not me. And my tits are nice by the way.
>>16640086
Pics and let us decide
What country are you from?.
Quiet and shy smart girls who refuse to play fake game of pretend to get male attention is very strong turn on (for me at least), but hard to act upon in dating game I guess. Try to be patient, you are still young, online dating can be very hit and miss. It consumes a lot of time if you want to go all the way too. Fast dating aplications are just like casual sex apps if you seek interesting and lasting company I believe it's not the way. You can always try to enter some kind of male dominated hobby and seek luck there.
>>16640097
Then why the fuck aren't you both posting your tits?
>>16640105
She said Europe
>>16640097
If your tits are nice them show them off and get the guy you stupid goddamn whore
No ine will ever love you because of how annoying and insecure with your stupid questions you are
>>16640117
>Europe
>a country
Europe is a country in the same way Asia and Africa are countries
>>16640130
Fuck off m8 the internet is full of tit pics you can jerk off to
>>16640173
Where did I ask for pics you retarded fucking retarded retard?
>>16640137
America is a country
>>16640186
You're right, you didn't ask.
Your comment was still fucking stupid though.
>>16640242
No your stupid
>>16640233
America is a continent
The country is called United States (of America)
>>16640097
You're welcome. And some of the tips I gave, or at least the conversation topics from the ny times link, can be useful even just used in a casual conversation with someone from a hobby or something.
Just remember; people like to feel welcomed, admired, feeling special, like someone finds them nice. (Without coming across as creepy or needy or overbearing - balance). You shouldn't appear sycophantic, ass-kissing or desperate, but straight-up telling people that they are nice and you like their company usually yields nice results. A lot of people struggle with hidden insecurity and feel good when someone compliments them - but it has to feel genuine. Make it subtle and nonchalant.
>>16640254
It's also called Estado Unidos de América.
