So, my girlfriend doesn't like spending time on foreplay... She is telling me she likes it when i lick her and all but she prefers the thing.
Am i doing something wrong ? Foreplay turns me on a lot...
>>16634401
Hi M****** xD
:3 :3 :3 :3
Maybe she doesn't love you or doesn't feel comfortable with you ? I'm a girl and I could spend hours on foreplay, literally
The only thing you're doing wrong is communication. Tell her that you want to do foreplay because it turns you on.
>>16634401
the t-thing?
>>16634482
Or maybe you're just too stupid to consider she just doesn't like that and you're trying to fuck OP's couple
OP Here, I'm a natural care giver, my pleasure comes from her pleasure. I'm so complicated in sex she has no idea. I guess i'll try to communicate more ...
>>16634401
What is she a dude? Women are supposedly the ones who love it so much, unlike most men.
She sounds like she isn't comfortable with sex yet and/or doesn't know how to tell you what feels good to her and what doesn't.
Lots of people are like this, its normal.
I suggest a few things:
2 Books-the sex bible, Exhibitionism for the shy (the second one helped me a lot personally)
Very good open communication-if you have to take a class with her, it would be preferred, and you can have sessions where she does something to your body that she would like done to her body and vice-versa
And lastly you should check out centerforhealthysex.com
Not assuming you guys need therapy or anything, but its a good website to just get informed on what healthy sex and mind should be like and won't hurt to check it out.
>>16634482
>>"my partner doesn't like X sexual thing"
>maybe your partner doesn't love you
>there must be something wrong because I like it
I'm fucking triggered by how much this post is bad advice.