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A guy I met told made told me a girl sends him videos of her masturbating and that he fucks her. I had a weird feeling of depression, anxiety and selfloathing (I start thinking I am worthless and that I should kill myself) after that. It is not the first time it happens. I always feel like that if somebody tell me they fuck with some girl and do that kind of stuff.

Why does this happen to me?
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>>16633978

Stop creating expectations toward people you barely know, its not like every guy you met will be your echanted prince.
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>>16633978
It is called jealousy
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>>16634117
this
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Jealousy that he gets free porn?
Everybody has access to free porn, dude is special ed.
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>>16634657
Did you miss the part where she said that he said he fucks her or do you just enjoy being the worst tripfag on this board? Both maybe?
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>>16634657
yeah what a retard letting thirsty girls get some
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>>16634671
Oh, so he's a cuck for bragging about the part where he doesn't get laid. I see. Thanks for pointing that out.
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>>16633978
I feel te same wY when my bf pops boners to rob schneiders wife
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>>16634677
Holy shit you're dumber than a box of rocks. You make that reality tripfag look good. Please kill yourself.
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I have had girls tell me dirty shit they have done to try and impress me and I find it such a turn-off.

Maybe that's it OP? You have put them up on a pedestal and they're resorting to such tacky manipulation and you feel cheapened?
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>>16634691
Is that the sound of somebody getting mad that a girl just shut down a thread?
Cry more please.
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>>16634765
Girl power?
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>>16634765
Not that guy but I just wanted to make sure you read
> girl sends him videos of her masturbating and that he fucks her
Correctly
As in he literally goes and fucks this chick
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>>16634775
So what part did he start with again?
>a girl sends me naughty videos
gg, you found omegle, here's a gold star.
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>>16634765
>implying your vagina matters
Fucking hate tripfags
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>>16633978

Because your ego can't handle the fact that people aren't falling over themselves to have with you what other people have with other people.

Your ego keeps telling you that you should have this and this and this but reality keeps fucking checking you.

Be perfectly honest here anon. If you were a smoking hawt grill, would you touch yourself to a photo of you? Dream about fucking you?

No? Then you have some work to do anon.
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Are you a guy or girl op?
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OP here, I think I feel like shit because he gets that and I don't and I feel I am a shit because if no girls sends me videos, it means I suck.
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>>16634932
I am a guy.
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>>16634942

No shit, and you know the biggest revelation your gonna have next?

You do.

Now, you know what the problem is, you suck. So what can you do to not make yourself suck? What skills or abilities or goods do you need to acquire to not suck as a person?
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>>16634960
Be more... outgoing maybe? Be more confident I guess.
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>>16633978
If the only thing you live for is knocking some slut up then maybe you should kill yourself.
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>>16634975
Never said that. Please, if you can't be helpful, get out.
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>>16634783
...and then they have sex. He puts his penis into her vagina.

Remember what you did with the dog? He does that with a human girl.
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>>16634982
You think I'm trolling but I'm serious. Fucking kill yourself if the only thing that matters in your worthless life is sex.
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>>16634989
I am serious too. If you can't be helpful, do not reply.
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>>16634966

Okay, so you believe in order to not suck as a person, to not be average, you need to

a.) Be more outgoing

and

b.) Be more confident.

Good, now what are you going to do to be more outgoing and be more confident?

Now, when solving a problem when you don't have a tutor or problem you are gonna run into a lot of fucking roadblocks. You are gonna try shit that you think is gonna work, but doesn't. You are gonna fail constantly before you find something that kinda works, and your gonna fail thousands of times before you find something that works really well.

So be prepared to slog through mountains of shit before you find a nugget of gold.

It's easier if you find a mentor to help you, and doing a good deal of research before you commit will help massively. A gram of prevention is better than a pound of cure. And a minute of planning saves an hour of execution.
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>>16634998
I'm trying to get in social situations, I force myself to talk to people but that makes me sad and unsatisfied
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>>16634989
rude
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>>16633978
Every single guy will brag about getting laid, unless they actually get laid.
If they get laid, they will brag about how much they can lift instead.
Get strong, fuck hoes.
>>/fit/
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>>16635010

Keep digging anon.

Why are you feeling sad and unsatisfied?

Remember what I said about slogging through mountains of shit? Do you really think you feel happy and good shovelling shit?
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>>16634765
>Trans subhuman thinks they're actually a girl
Loving. Every. Laugh.
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>>16635066
I mean I am so jealous of others whose social skills are so well developped and they can do it so naturally! I have to everthink everything.
I feel unsatisfaction because the interactions I am having leave me empty.
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>>16635081

Okay, so your demanding that you, someone who is socially inept and was never really outgoing for most of their lives be at the same level of personability and sociability as people who have been sociable their entire lives.

So you are demanding and expecting that you have the same level of skill as someone who has been doing something for years simply because you tried it a few times?

Remember what I said about checking you EGO anon? Well it's right there.

You wouldn't expect to be at the same level as a champion boxer after a few weeks throwing a jab.

You wouldn't expect to be recruited to the Oakland Raiders after playing pee-wee football.

You are gonna have to fail thousands and thousands of times before you get good enough being social that it don't feel like shit. Thousands and thousands.

Do you know how much time you have to put into something before people recognize you as being good at something, where even the average joe says, wow, pretty good?

10,000 hours. That is the scientific average. You already put in some time with being sociable. Shit, you've talked to people before. So it's not that big of a number. But focus and persistence will get you your goal. Just be sure you're willing to put in the work and smell like shit before you get to the finish line.
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>>16634911
good post
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>>16635117
But I missed out so many years nobody will give me back. Everybody told me "be more social" and nobody actually helped me.
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>>16635141
If you work 8 hours a day towards sociability, you will get there in less than 4 years.
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>>16635141

>nobody actually helped me.

THERES THAT FUCKING EGO AGAIN ANON.

This is another thing you are gonna have to learn.

Nobody is gonna help you as much as you are gonna help you. Everybody cares about themselves too much to care about someone else's problems. And you do it too. You don't care about Stacy cutting herself in your class, or Rick getting beaten by his dad 24/7 when drunk. Cause you don't pay attention and you have your own problems to deal with.

You have to stop viewing your problems as something someone else has to help you solve. Every Problem you have, every problem you have you should think "Nobody is gonna help me, so I gotta do all the lifting myself. if someone else helps me a little bit that's cool, but Most of the shit I got to do myself."
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Wait, is a girl who will break the rules trans? How have I been coming here for years and never learned that? Anyway, the worst tripfag on here is Darth Pegasus or whatever, by a mile.

>>16635141
OP, all I can tell you is that it's possible to learn this shit the hard way. Yeah, it's going to be harder for you than it probably was for this guy you're jealous of; what's why it's fucking called "the hard way."

It doesn't matter that you're getting a late start. I got a late start, so did a lot of my best friends. Yes, before I really figured out how to talk to people, esp. women, I really struggled with my self-worth, like, "why do I just exude awkwardness?" It got better. It wasn't an easy process but it got better.

There is a silver lining. It's up to you whether it makes up for the years you "lost" (they weren't really lost, though, just spent doing other things.) Most of the funniest, most interesting, most likable, most LIKED people I know today are all people who got late starts and had to develop their social skills the hard way. I truly, honestly think there's benefit in having to apply yourself to learn that sort of thing. It leads to a deeper understanding of what it means to be sociable, likable, and funny than you get from just lazily coasting through your early years relying on your natural charm. Take it or leave it; I'm just just saying this shit to comfort you, there's a real reward waiting for you if you keep pushing yourself and don't let yourself slide into bitterness.
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