How many dates in do you have to be before just "chilling at home with a movie" is a date?
Ive already done a coffee date, and a movie + meal + drinks date. As much fun as I think it is, shits expensive and its hard to think of good things to take her too. And desu I just really wanna chill and get some alone time with her
Havent seen her in a couple weeks because shes been away for xmas as have I, we've kept texting though and Im seeing her when she comes back on the 11th.
I think shes got exams around then too, so would asking if she just wants to come round mine and watch a movie be totally outta the question? We've already slept together (but havent had sex)
1. Have sex
2. Make her have orgasms.
3. Tell her you just want to stay home and chill.
4. She will do whatever you say as long as you keep giving her orgasms.
If that's what you want to do, I don't see anything wrong with that.
>>16631829
Just ask her.
>>16631914
Honestly, this.
You are thinking too hard into wining and dining her like an orbiter. Invite her to something YOU want to do
>>16631829
>How many dates in do you have to be before just "chilling at home with a movie" is a date?
works on the first date too.. i don't know what your problem is.
>>16631945
>>16631947
Perhaps I am trying too hard? I think you guys are right, I'll play it more on my terms
Why would you take a girl on a formal date without fucking her first?
>>16633202
In my head I've always had this idea that you took a girl out on a nice date, then fucked her, then gradually transitioned into a "comfy mode" as you got to know each other better and didny have to do formal dates anymore (other than for special occasions or treats obviously)
>>16631829
Ask her to come to your place and watch a movie or something. Just do it. If you can cook maybe offer to make her dinner? That's a good one if you feel like just movie isn't enough to ask her to come there. If you offer to make her dinner she won't think it's just a booty call.
>>16633252
I cant cook for shit, seriously I shouldnt be allowed near a stove its scary
I can order pizza tho?
>>16633264
Learn. Also bitches love salad. As long as the ingredients are fresh, it's hard to fuck up a salad.
>>16633242
That is usually how it works.
Idk I've chilled at a couple guy's houses and thought nothing of it.
There wasn't necessarily sex involved.
>>16631829
start off with something a bit formal at your own house, like 'please come over and ill make you a nice dinner'.
make it seem like a REAL Date at home.
then it transitions to more casual dinners and netflix and chill and whatnot.
