>mfw I'm cucking myself
Anyway
>be 20yr old kv
>be contempt with no woman ever liking me
>jack off pretty reugarly to almost exclusively dirty gangbang porn
>meet qt3.14
>meet up with her a few times
>she comes over for movies
>shes dtf
>can't beleive im in this situation was at peace that this would never happen
>kiss her, eat her out, finger her etc
>she starts taking my pants off
>completely limp
>try to get some blood in there for the next two hours as we mess around
>still nothing even the morning after
Now I realize this performance anxiety and it happens to a lot of people, however
>be today
>shes coming over today
>haven't fapped in a week, last time was a day before she came over
>get a random boner here and there
>try to stroke it thinking about her
>she has an objectively hot body and shes attractive in general
>go limp the second i start thinking about her
What the fuck do I do
I really don't want to blow it a second time, not to mention my already destroyed self esteem
it'll stop when you stop worrying about it
>>16629119
How the fuck do I even do that
Bumping for this poor guy.
I am not a man but I think your cause is that maybe you're afraid she's too good for you? Maybe you're afraid of being a failure, a fuckup? Maybe you have the fear of rejection?
But yeah if you were my boyfriend I would know this would hurt your self esteem and I'd comfort you. I know how bad this shit can hurt a man. Is she at least understanding (empathetic) of your problem? Does she seem like she wants to help?
the porn does shit with your dick and made you impotent
>>16629135
Throughout the evening she blamed it on the alcohol even though I wasn't even tipsy.
That rationale kinda failes when she tried to get me hard in the morning without success
She isn't very good at bj or hj but I couldn't even get myself hard
Tell her to help you out while its limp. She will most likely suck it. You'll get hard when she does that.
>>16629145
I did, she did, quite a lot of teeth and in general very little sensation/stimulation
I jack off deathgrip
>>16629140
Perhaps you're overthinking it? I know it's cliche but if I were you I'd probably hug her and start tearing up a little and apologize. Try to wind down and start from the beginning. Do you cuddle first or is it sex sex sex? What if you just want companionship?
Why worry about it? Just let it happen and have fun. Sex feels good, try different things to her that you think is hot. Eat her ass, suck her nipples, play with her pussy.
>>16629148
She went from 0 to 100 in about 2 minutes, but overall we spent about 18 hours together in bed just touching and cuddling that night/day
>>16629151
Earlier you said death grip and the other male anons can advise you on that. I think it may be part of the problem.
Do you see your gf as just a piece of meat with fuckholes or an actual human bean that you love (or are beginning to love)?
>>16629159
Don't really care that much for her, I only met up with her because she seemed interested and not the other way around since its so rwre that someone from the opposite sex shows even the slightest bit of interest
>>16629166
IDK, anon. try sticking it in even when it's the slightest bit hard, even limp. Maybe you'll keep stroking and in 5-10 mins its diamonds from the stimulation.
>>16629166
Dude what the fuck. Don't blow it. This could be your chance to have companionship and stuff. Everyone wants to be loved and accepted. Sex without strings attached has its merits for some people but it's really boring
I just had sex with my boyfriend because I got horny loving the feel of him spooning me, and how secure he made me feel by holding me. And the feel of his beard
If I had not had a big connection with him I wouldn't give a shit
I don't know whats wrong, man. I do think porn and your death grip play a roll in it
>>16629169
I tried several times last time but I'm pretty big and her pussy isn't so it would require almost full stiffness to push through
>>16629177
Bullshit. Shove it in there you fucking retard. Use her. She's only there for you to get your nut off. You dickhead.
>>16629177
>>16629180
This anon tried to poke her with a limp cock and wondered why it wasn't going in. Use your hands and stuff your fucking cock in there, is this your first time fucking a hole?
>>16629117
Do you get turned on at all when making out and doing things or is it just dead down there the whole time? I want to date girls and love to make out and cuddle with them but I get almost nothing sexually. I have lived with a girl and had sex regularly but under certain conditions only. I just resigned myself to being gay and trying to come to terms with it. Maybe this is what I have tho?
>>16629187
I get a bit of a chub going usually, but can't really get past that.
I don't think I'm full homo, asexual maybe however I used to jack off 3-4 times a day so theres that
Honestly this kind of loss of libido started when I got a job while attending uni so I had very little free time or energy
>>16629197
You get a chub but can't get harder? Is she really that bad at jerking/sucking you off? You might be gay. Watch porn with her maybe that's your saving grace you faggot. Like >>16629180 said SHOVE IT IN THERE
>>16629200
I don't want to judge her too much on that but her jacking me was basically slamming my nuts at lightspeed while going down on the shaft and the blowjob was more like a teethjob
>>16629210
You disregard the point I'm trying to make. Shove your fucking cock in her it doesn't matter if it takes 1 min or 30 mins. Once it's inside and you start stroking you will get rock hard. Quit being a little bitch and take advantage of her.
>>16629215
I honestly tried that, its just the resistnace of trying to get it in even at half chub was too great and I lost all of it
After I had taken the condom off she tried riding me raw, but while I did get my head in I quickly lost it again as she was slamming down quite violently
>>16629220
Then you have a problem. You are either a faggot or your dick don't work. Enjoy taking it in the ass and being unable to pleasure a woman. I'm done
/thread
>>16629222
Yea no shit I have a fucking problen
Imagine this, someone came to /adv/ about a fucking problem
How thick are you cunt
