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Kindest Jonathan
2015-12-31 13:22:35 Post No. 16625723
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Kindest Jonathan
2015-12-31 13:22:35
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Hey guys, I have a question. I've posted this before that my ex broke up with me in a terrible way. It was long distance, we spent almost all of summer 24/7 together, and she may or may not have cheated on me. She did not treat me emotionally right in a relationship that I poured all of my heart and soul into, and then to add salt to the wound, she began to stop responding or caring about our relationship before breaking up with me VERY suddenly without any indication of what was wrong.
This post isn't asking for advice on if I should get back together or try and be best friends with her, this is what i'm asking for...
Since we broke up, she said to give her space and she would text me. She has not. I have waited so long for her to make a "first move" in friendship again, and it ripped me apart the first two weeks. I want to call her and express to her how I feel. How strongly I felt for her, how much it hurt to be thrown away like that (worded much better than that, but I want to get my point across), how she was my best friend, calling her on her kinda idea of a relationship, etc. Just things I want to address that weren't. It's been on my mind for a very long time to have this "good bye" kind call to officially try and hope this will convince me to rid her off my mind and have closure. I don't want to know why she broke up with me, I don't want anything from her but this final closure of farewell. I don't want to say anything negative to get the "last laugh", because that's just silly.
So for my advice, should I make this call, or should I slowly move on with my life and eventually forget about this?