Have you asked out the guy/girl you like yet, anon?
Mine killed herself in january 2008.
Yes. I'm married.
>>16624986
Well, shit.
>>16624986
That was seven years ago. Talk about water under the fucking bridge. Move on.
>>16624973
I'm waiting until she's back.
I could ask her by text and wait, but it doesn't have the same effect.
He probably has a girlfriend
Plus I'm really annoying to be in a relationship with anyway cause I like to much alone time
What's the point
Yes, no reply. Like the rest of my year.
Deciding if I should give up on women completely and just focus on myself or if I'm just not used to rejection yet.
>>16625089
>Plus I'm really annoying to be in a relationship with anyway cause I like to much alone time
Some guys do enjoy time alone, too.
>>16624973
There is no one like that in my life.
>>16625089
date an introvert like you he will understand you.
>>16624973
Can't, she's my boss.
>>16625089
That's how I feel. I spend so much time alone and enjoy it so much I doubt a girl would ever put up with it.
I met a Italian QT on Interpals.net, we talked for 3 months, became close over Skype and Whatsapp. I already had a trip planned to Italy before we met, but made some time so I could visit. We hung out the last 2 days and had a great time. It was the first time I've ever strolled through a quiet city in the evening with a QT at my side with her arm tucked through mine. It was so pleasant. Well, I've never truly liked anyone before, but somehow I developed feelings for this girl. We said our good byes yesterday and I'm not sure if/when we will see each other again. It hurts guys, I think I'm over-reacting. But after I got back to my Hostel last night, I silently cried for a fucking hour. I've never felt like this before.
>>16625167
Then tell her how you feel and try to make it work. It isn't worth ignoring opportunities like that.
>>16625184
I sort of did..
She's been very kind and extremely helpful to me since we met on IP. I don't think I deserve someone like her Tbh.
>>16625209
Be more forward. If she turns you down, you go back home and don't really lose anything. If she feels the same way, you get an awesome qt. If you don't say anything, you go home with a missed opportunity and a lot of regret.
Power through the ball-curdling fear. It's worth it.
>>16625223
How should I be more forward? Can you give me a example? I'm not very good on being so upfront.
But, she did say this to me after we hung out the first night. So I know worst case scenario, nothing changes.
>>16625167
Why didnt you fuck her
>>16625233
Tell her you like her. Ask her out on a date, and be clear it's actually a date. If she says yes, throw out whatever you already had planned and make it happen. She's clearly into you from those texts, I say go for it.
>>16625243
Believe me... I wanted to. But it was all timing. My hostel was in Venice, she's from a small town north of Vicenza. So the first day I met her in Vicenza and we took a train down to Verona and explored for the day. Then she had to head back home. Then yesterday she came to Venice with a friend and we hung out as a group and got some drinks before they had to leave.
>>16625244
Well, the problem is we live like 4,000 miles apart..
ye got rejected :(
>>16625271
If you're still in Italy, ask her and extend the trip by 1 day if you've got to. If you're already back home, tell her and start planning on how to pay for another trip.
The point is to tell her. And if she feels the same way about you, the two of you can figure out how to make it work together. I mean, I assume this awesome feeling you're talking about would be worth making some sacrifices/doing some work to get to be with her again.
>>16625288
I would totally extend the trip if I could. But everything it already paid for. Tomorrow I'm taking a train from Venice to Rome for 2 days, then flying to Ireland for a day, then I'll be back in the U.S.
Money is no issue though, so I would totally love to come back here in a few months if possible. She mentioned before how she thinks it would be so fun if me and her did trips around the world! She wants us to go to Japan
>>16625308
Well, it's your choice. But my advice is to tell her now, like tomorrow morning, and make it happen no matter what if you get a yes. Even if that means not making the train.
I did, 18 months and we're still together. Somehow. It's no time at all in the grand scheme of things I know,
but it's the happiest I've been in a long time.
>>16625312
I would totally like to do that, but I can't. She's very busy as well. She really wanted to come stay in Venice tonight for New Years but can't.
>>16624973
Well, she asked me out, actually.
She also dumped me this year. Right before my birthday.
I've fallen pretty hard for this girl I met through Tinder. I haven't asked her out on a date or to be my gf yet, but I'm like 99% sure she'd say yes to either. Just having feelings for this girl has made me happier than I've been in a year.
I did. Got rejected. Beats not saying nothing though.
>>16625327
That's how I feel about my Italian QT I posted about above.
I've never had feelings like this before. Like, I feel embarrassed to say this. But after we said our goodbyes yesterday, I laid in my bunk at the hostel and silently cried for about an hour. I haven't cried in at least 10 years, and this girl made me cry. What's happening to me
>>16625339
Haha it's cool bro. I just lay in bed re-reading her texts and feel warm and fuzzy inside. Having crushes makes you into a huge sap.
>>16625353
That's what I'm doing right as we speak. She sent this to me when I was on the plane coming from the U.S. So I got it when I landed. :)
She's so nice, like she went way out of her way to help me with this trip, and she even went out of her way to make sure my friend who I came here with was comfortable as well.
>>16624973
No, she moved away.
im not sure i even want one though
>>16625390
There is nothing wrong with that.
>>16625209
Who is Felipe?
Just a little friendly prodding for some of you lovestruck saps to actually ask her out. I'm only posting this because I almost didn't do that once. I just kept waiting, sort of enjoying the feeling of crushing on a girl who liked me back, basking in the fact that when I eventually asked her she'd probably say yes, until I found out some other guy was texting her and clearly was interested and so I panicked and asked her out at arguably the WORST moment. But if not for that little kick in the pants I could easily have just waited and waited and let the feelings pass without ever doing it, and then I wouldn't be engaged to a girl I'm still crazy about. So do it already.
She still doesn't believe that other guy was into her. He literally texted her, "hey so are you and anon like a couple?" Yeah, she's dumb.
>>16625405
Me and a old friend of mine planned out this trip to Italy before I met my Italian QT on Interpals. So me and my friend traveled almost the entire country so far. Rome-Monte Cassino-Salerno-Messina, Palermo, Contessa, Gela, Catania(Sicily), Venice, Vicenza, and soon heading back to Rome! So on the 29th when me and my QT met, just me and her took a train to Verona togather. And then yesterday she brought a friend with her to Venice so we hung out as a group.
Here is a pic of Mt Etna
I don't really like any girls (or guys). Anyone know a problem that could be up with this?
>>16625425
What exactly do you mean? Specify what you mean by you don't like. And what are you? Girl or guy?
i would ask girls out and date them but i hate condoms and i dont wanna have unprotected sex either. Im stuck. Wat do?
>>16625429
I'm an 18 year old guy. I've had random crushes at times in my life, but they go away pretty quickly. I have sexual urges but no really strong ">tfw no gf" type feelings. I like the idea of having a family vaguely but it's not that strong either. Is it an age thing?
>>16624973
Yeah... but she turned me down. Apparently she had a boyfriend this entire time. This fucking sucks
>>16625445
Don't worry about it man. The whole ">tfw no gf" is pretty stupid Tbh. Those are people who crave attention/affection and/or they just want the status of "being in a relationship". I'm more like you, I'm 24 and haven't cared on getting a girlfriend or anything. I haven't been looking for one, but the Italian QT I mentioned before kinda got me. So don't sweat it.
>>16625450
Damn it sucks there aren't billions more
>>16624973
Yes, finally asked her out, she rejected me, now we will probably drift apart as friends as well. Back to socially exiling myself for years, I wasn't meant to interact with other humans.
>>16625453
Bro. Pretty much everything worked out >>16625167
>>16625465
It looks like you had a good time but if you were looking for her to date you I don't think its going to work out
No because she lives 150 miles away now and our schedules are complete opposites. It's killing me to only talk to her over texts and never get to be with her.
No bc he's younger then me and I'm stuck in a LTR but seriously when he's nearby my stomach does flip flops
>>16625482
That last part definitely wasn't planned before I came here. But I really like this girl, I don't know if "date" will happen. But I'm just glad it seems we have a solid friendship that is only going to get better.
>>16625488
Friendship huh? You should have tried for more but to each their own
>>16625497
I'm sure that if we had the time and the place we would have fucked. But just the way it was we didn't. The next time we meet though, we for sure will have the space for that
>>16625504
Opportunities multiply as they are seized
Plan appropriately next time
>>16625523
I'm aware. Like I said before though, this trip was already paid and planned out before I even met her on Interpals. So we Just kinda had to work with what was open.
But next time, me and her will plan everything
>>16625529
If she has an evil friend let me know
>>16625537
You want the 1 on the left?
Nope. We work together so I'm afraid it could be awkward. I'm pretty sure she's interested by how much she touches me and how close she gets, but then again I have a complete inability to judge shit like this when I'm involved in the situation.
I need to talk to her more and see if she's as cool as she seems. She definitely kicks ass at our job, but I need to find out what she's studying and what her value system is like before I move any further.
There's also the whole issue of me being in love with an unattainable friend that I'm still trying to get over that's holding me back.
>>16625543
Sure for friendship purposes
>>16625562
Lol
>>16625566
I can take both though
I was talking to this girl, asked her if she was single, she said yes. I then asked her if she wanted to see a movie, she said yes. Forgot to get her number, doesn't respond for ages, then says "Sure, but we're just friends right?". Just because some guy she used to talk to started messaging her again...
>>16625572
Too bad, the one of the right is claimed!
>>16625578
They both look the same anyway its not like I would even talk them
>>16625275
What happened?
Nope. That's why you don't fall for people you know online who live in different countries who you won't be able to see for at least a year... if they still like you by then, that is.
>>16624973
I don't like anyone
and so I'm 23kv
Nah... My confidence is lower than rock bottom
Nah.Confidence is lower than the reviews for Daddy's Home.
>>16624973
yeah i did and she dumped me right before my birthday.
fuck women. easy rape claims and get free reign on half your shit if you put a ring on it.
>>16624973
A girl asked me several times to come to a particular party in a couple of weeks. Did she ask me out?
>Implying I have anyone to ask out
>Implying attractive women with their boyfriends haven't seen me wandering around in an addled haze and clearly taken notice
Surprised me honestly. By golly by gosh, I'm immediately recognizable almost an entire store away!
No, I can't tell how much she likes me yet. She gave me her number, told me to add her on snapchat, sat right next to me at work, asked to listen to my music everyday for two weeks, and she's always laughing at my jokes even when they seem bad. It seems like the signs are all there but she's my co-worker so I don't want to jump the gun. I was thinking of asking her to hang out next weekend and try to confirm it then. I might puss it out. She might ask me though. We'll see.
>narcissistic manlet
every once in a while a woman has a fleeting moment of reason, i'm grateful that this was one of those times
do what you will, but i am done trying to form bonds with my fellow millennials.
>>16624973
>Be me
>Asked grill out
>6/10
>she says no
>don't really care
>uses the excuse of "distance"
>afewmonthslater.exe
>starts going out with my friend
>keking due to the fact that she's gotten uglier
>is now 3/10
>Dude got it bad
>really dodged that bullet
>taking to new qt 10/10
Wish me luck bois
>>16624973
Yup, didn't even respond.
>>16626064
...Yet?
Sucks Anon.
>>16625441
don't have sex
Nope, she's married.
Don't wanna be that guy, so I'mma ride this crush out till it ends.
Not yet. I wanted to the last time we hung out. I think he likes me. But he's six years older and we're both about to go back to college. He's coming over tonight for New Years though and is gonna meet my parents and stuff. Maybe I'll isolate him and make a move then. I'm just bad at reading social cues (literal autism) and am scared I'll fuck up our friendship (which is really good) if he doesn't feel the same about me.
>>16624973
I haven't, and I never will
>>16626092
It's been 3 weeks already.
Yeah sucks, but I'm done with this bullshit. Gonna post memes.
>>16624973
I did it.
We went out.
She didn't want me to take things too far because of personal issues of hers.
Then she decides she sees me as just a "friend" because I didn't take things too far because of personal issues of hers.
And then she unlearned any word other than "okay"
At least I learned being considerate is bad
>>16624973
Ofc, and not online, just face to face. She rejected me.
HA nope too much of a pussy
>>16624973
I have no woman that I'd like to ask out. Plus, I'm a fat piece of shit so she'd say no anyway. What's the point? Thankfully there's prostitutes so a guy like me can at least sort of experience what it's like to be sexually attractive.
No. Because I'm not sure if she's interested or just being friendly and I lack the confidence to ask her.
>>16625275
>reje
same
>>16626289
Lose weight then?
Yes. First date today. Help me please haha. Meeting at my hotel in 2 hours then going out. Nervous as fuck, legs wre all noodles.
>>16626305
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTULoJlD_V4
>>16626302
Afk being celibate the next two years while I fix my body
>>16626331
It all starts with loving yourself first, anon.
i did OP.
got rejected, kek
>all these anons who got rejected
sorry. i truly feel bad for you. best of luck in your next love endeavor
>>16626331
I'm a bit intoxicated, so I won't attempt a meaningful sense of conversation.
Here's how it is and was. I'm 5'6" and ~126 lbs. That's my ideal weight. I'm build surprisingly bulky and sink like a rock in water. However I ate very little, and ate a lot of cocoa beans for a year or so at one point. My weight dropped down to 105 or so.
I went to get in the shower one day. Looked in the mirror and realized all my ribs were showing. My collarbone was jutting out. I got in the shower and just sat down and realized how strange my whole body looked. I wasn't even trying to lose weight, I was trying to survive.
I get it. You feel like it's an investment and whatever the fuck else. It's an excuse. I atrophied away not only nearly all of my fat, but muscle and likely to some degree organ systems. 20 lbs. It only took a year and I wasn't even trying. Refine your diet (remember, you're fat for a reason and it ain't "muh genetics". PUT IN THE GODDAMN EFFORT. Run a slight caloric deficit. Exercise. Eat cocoa beans (I can go into the pharmacology if you want). You will lose weight, and it is worth it.
Good luck, regardless of what you do. Enough with your excuses.
No. She works at my office and I don't think I can risk the job now.
>>16626369
I've tried to lose weight 4 times and lost 50ish pounds each time. All four times I grew to hate the grind and hate the way I felt every single day of my life. I was sore, tired, and hungry 24/7. Counting calories on fucking everything I hate was a chore. Going out to restaurants and having a fruit salad because anything else was 1000+ calories got really old after awhile.
Either being fat or losing weight I feel like shit. Go back to the bottle you anorexic fuck. I'm not making excuses as I'm here today because i love eating and hate exercising. You act as if every fat person blames it on things outside of their control. You can keep believing that if you'd like.
>>16626309
Haha yeah that make me crack. Fuck man this is going to be something else. Thanks though. So pretty much I may look like an idiot but chances are we both will be awkward. Well long as we are weird together.
>>16626401
>You act as if every fat person blames it on things outside of their control.
Not intentionally, but you can take it that way if you want.
I've since regained most of the weight I lost. I was dead and dying in more ways than one, so even that process wasn't very quick.
Counting calories is bullshit and practically engineered to discourage you. It's boring. It's impeding, and it's frustrating. This is where it gets hard for me personally, because I want to say you're better off basing your methods on general ideas about food (heuristics) and how it works. Not on a calorie level, but a pharmacological one. A mechanical approach. The problem is, it might be the best approach a human being can take, but it's hard to communicate, takes a while to learn, and not everyone wants to even try. So what am I to do? What is the best thing, what is the best way? Man I don't know. The food supply in most developed countries i garbage and I'd like most people to be able to make informed decisions, but I haven't figured the right way.
I'm sorry anon. It's the wrong place, the wrong me, and the wrong time. You feel I'm criticizing or patronizing you, but really I just want to help. I don't know what it's like to be fat, but I know what it's like to be in terrible health. I know that food could be better quality as well. That's the only reason I responded to you, and I'm sorry.
I don't even know her name and my confidence is basically below zero.
I like songs about drifters, books about the same. They both seem to make me feel a little less insane.
Walked on off to another spot, I still haven't gotten anywhere that I want. Did I want love? Did I need to know? Why does it always feel like I'm caught in an undertow?
>think of all the things you're going to say to her
>pussy out and say something completely different
Not only that but I start talking like I have marbles in my mouth when I get nervous and I get self aware about it and try to talk extremely clearly.
She's way out of my league, I'm not good enough for her, and I'm too ugly with a terrible personality.
>>16625497
I loled. Chip or strip, I'd charge her either way.
I don't like anyone right now. The only girl I am sorta into lives in Canada, and long distance relationships are a no-go.
My female friend told me that the girl I like isn't a 'relationship type' whatever that means, so not yet.
yes. he said no. Saw him at the bar with a REALLY tall guy a week later. uglier than me too.
;_;
I don't have one right now, but I've never had the courage before anyway.
Right now I just really want to find that one girl I keep thinking about, hoping she exists somewhere out there.
I know I must think realistically... I hate reality!
I did but, it just doesn't feel right. Maybe its better if we stay friends.
Too scared. Bitch broke my heart and I don't want her to say mean things. It's funny because I don't care what people think but her opinion is like the law. Hope she has a good new years. I would call but the tone she had last time sounded mean. I might as well just go to a party.
>>16624986
Lol wtf
>>16624973
Asked her out 7 years ago. I should probably ask her if she wants to get married in a couple years huh?
>>16624973
No because she's married with two teenage children. Also she's 12 years older than I am. The age difference doesn't bother me but shit sucks that she's married.
I did chat a lot with this girl and she pretty much said she love me and I said I love her too. First date will be so awkward. I'm planning to ask her out tomorrow
I did a long time ago, and now we're engaged
>>16625100
>>16625105
Maybe, but I think a major problem is that I'm depressed and probably bipolar.
I can go a few weeks where I'm fine hanging out a lot then suddenly I just want to stay at home and not even so much as text for like a week at a time.
I'm almost like Kahn in that manic episode of King of the Hill
It's just annoying man
>>16624973
I like him very much but we only met just recently and he is both very far away and just out of a relationship that hurt him deeply.
>>16624973
been there, done that. succeeded multiple times.
would not recommend
One of mine kinda did. I need to text him but damn I just suck at this.
>>16628315
He kinda asked you out?
>>16624973
I snuck a poem in her binder.
I feel like such a tool.
>>16624973
nah, she's dating a guy
they're actually doing really well from what I can tell
I should probably move on
I kind of did.
>be me a month ago
>midnight
>current interest's best friend texts me
>scared
>we talk til daylight
>she drops these hints but i'm daft
>ask her out, yeah through text i know inb4 cuck
>yes
>no longer talking to the original girl
>>16628315
>I just suck at this
don't start no static just get it off your chest
>>16628322
Gave me his number, I called, we hung out.
Looks like I made it, friend?
>>16628337
Sweet reference. I've been in a bad mood all week and I just don't wanna fuck shit up anymore.
I'm sad
>>16625487
>he's younger then me
And then what?
Because I'm stuck living with my ex for the time being and am not able to devote the time and attention to him while I'm being forced to play house with another man.
>>16628509
Me too.
We should fuck.
>>16624973
yes and see said we should be friends. Then I saw here making out with another friend, while drunk. but whatever I dont really care that much because if we go 2 months without talking then that is answer enough
>>16628509
>>16628521
Me too. LET'S MAKE A MENAGE A TROIS!
I'm waiting the right time...
>>16628521
>>16628527
I don't care about sex :/
And I'm a guy anyways, and I'm assuming both of you are guys too
>>16628529
Whoever it is, he or she isn't going to wait for you forever. Life goes on,with or without you.
>>16628534
Actually, I'm just waiting _days_ until she's back. I could ask her on a date by Facebook, but I'd rather call her.
>>16628533
No I actually look like this
>>16628540
I don't believe you..
>>16628544
You're a genius.
I don't have crushes as much as I do prospects... But I do have a handful.
K: She's a little young (I'm 21, she's 17). But she's cute and she's had a crush on me for a long time. I think the maturity barrier might be a bit much but you never know.
S: I did but then I found out she leaves for school again tomorrow so I didn't follow up on it.
E: She just came in today but damn is she cute and seems super cool. We flirted a bit, stealing glances at each other. I asked her her name as she was leaving and told her mine and she smiled and waved at me and got red. I hope I see her again soon. I have no clue why the hell I didn't ask her out then and there...
M: I haven't seen her in a long while, so nothing's coming of that
O: Do exes that you miss count? It's never gonna happen...
>>16628554
sigh..
Yeah, asked her out, and she already has someone (wasn't really obvious till now)
And I don't want to be jerk so I will just wait for another girl or if she will drop that guy.
I don't like anyone
>>16624973
Tried. Got ducked twice.
Not sure if friendzoned or actual haphazard mistake.
Ambiguous signals, not sure what to do.
Kill me.
>>16624973
It's only been a week since we started talking, and since I basically said to her "if you want to vent out shit I'm here" after she had been pretty much stalking a mate of mine, I think I may have ended up shooting myself in the foot and may have made myself a "Nice guy". planning to get to know her better and ask her to a cafe or some shit.
God, no. How do you even do it? Do you just go balls-out and ask her, even if you don't know each other very well, or do you talk to her for a while and get to know her better? Because for me, the former seems stupid and the latter is proving rather fruitless.
>>16625979
you dumb bitch
She wrote me a letter on to me Christmas saying "I wish I fell in love with you instead."
>>16624973
I'm fat, ugly and unloved. No one is going to ask me out.
I'm sad as fuck right now /adv/
Last night I was at a New Years party at my Hostel. Texted a female friend who i really like. Wished her a happy new year and told her to drink a lot. She replied with "haha I want you to get drunk, and go find a cute girl and have a tons of sex! :D"
I don't care about the other fucking sluts. I just want her. Fuck. :(
>>16628807
>IiteraIIy no one cares
>EspeciaIIy her
LOOOOOOOOL
>>16628812
That's not helping /advice/..
>>16628826
>You didn't ask for \adv\
>This isn't an \adv\ thread
lt's going to be deIeted anyway
>>16628831
You're an asshole. We help each other here. That's the point of this board.
>>16624973
Yup, I did. And now, I have a beautiful fiancée. Go suck a dick, life.
>>16628834
>She doesn't want you, and you have probIems accepting this
>She's getting raiIed by her bf, possibIy 2 guys at once, both who are not you (which is why she sent you that, because she's aIready being raiIed and feeIs bad for you)
AII whiIe you're defending posts not \adv\ reIated
Enjoying your kucking!
>>16624973
no. i'm pretty sure she'll reject my invitation.
i need to play it smart
>>16628807
You lost an incredible opportunity to say, "maybe with you? :D"
But well, shit happens. Worth mentioning she doesn't look like girlfriend material [or she's REALLY intimate with you], just a fuckbuddy.
>>16628713
>Ambiguous signals
"I'm not sure. Show some worth and then we'll see"
>>16628872
>How to stay forever singIe
>>16628876
Right, BRB, throwing away my engagement ring.
>>16628867
I told her I wanted her to come to me.
I never have. This might be why my life feels so empty. :(
Oddly enough, I am married right now though.
>>16628889
Which was the "tone" you used to text that? Playful or serious?
>>16628899
I was drunk off alcohol she gifted to me the night before
>>16628923
Casso, ma ti sei stronzo? Don't just ask her to come to you, go to her.
On a plus side, it seems like you were playful enough to mood her up... but still, lost opportunity.
Don't worry, though. It looks like she's into you.
>>16628929
I couldn't go to her
>she seems into you
That's what I thought. But when I told her that I wish she was my Italian girlfriend, she said that was forward and she didn't feel comfortable hearing that. Fucking alcohol. I wouldn't have said that if I was sober
>>16628323
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CSRRZoD7zP4
>>16628936
>I wish she was my Italian girlfriend
You have lots of girlfriends, so you need to specify "this is my Italian girlfriend", right?
Also, small tidbit. She mentions Venice. Now, when dealing with Venetians, avoid mentioning Italy... it's almost asking to be between the cross and the fire.
>>16628943
>you have lots of girlfriends, so you need to specify "this is my Italian girlfriend", right?
no, and honestly this does not matter.
I mentioned Venice. Because that's where I was, she lives a few hours away
>>16628952
>no, and honestly this does not matter.
Sorry, I should explained it better:
Women want to feel special. Always. When you tell her "I wish you were my Italian girlfriend", you're implying you have others. [Regardless of having or not, or being in an open or closed relationship.]
If you didn't say with those words, pay no mind to what I said. But if you did, well...
>>16628960
I did say that, but She knows what I'm talking about though
>>16628971
Okay then.
Ah, é bón ano frad'. [Have a nice year, bro]
>>16628975
I don't think this will be a good year, the last 3 have been progressingly more depressing. But I appreciate the notion though. Hope yours goes well
No, and I'm 20. It would be appreciated if any normals could explain the following for a total autist.
The common shitty advice for asking a girl out is "just go for it because the worst thing that could happen is she/he says no", but that's not true. the worst thing that could happen is that she says no then tells everyone how "this desperate loser had the nerve to come on to me", then everyone in your social circle thinks you're a desperate loser.
How do people not worry about this? Because even if you make advances in a polite and respectful way, it could still happen right?
No I havent. This is the first time a girl has ever really showed genuine interest in me (messaging me out of the blue, liking all my social media posts, asking how I'm doing, etc)
All we do is talk online since the semester ended (we had a community college class together) but I don't know what the next step is. Sometimes she doesn't reply to my messages for a few days and if I message her first and she doesn't reply I feel like I'm bothering her but she always says it's because she was at work or has a horrible sleep schedule. Also she's way out of my league. 10/10 cutie and I'm short and not that great looking, but I'd like to think I dress well and am semi interesting. All I want to do is have a really long conversation with her and then invite her for dinner or coffee but there's always long gaps between our messages.
Pls help
No.. No idea how or where to ask her out. I'd have 0 chances anyway so I guess it's not a huge deal.
>>16625271
Fuck the distance. Keep in touch with each other. The kind of connection you seem to be describing may well be worth it. I fell for a dude 5000 miles away. He's currently beside me sleeping. Between him and my cat (who's used to having her own side of the bed) I'm tucked in here like a fuckin tetris piece lol. My whole right leg is asleep. I've no clue yet what the future may hold for us but man this is the happiest I've been in a long, long time. Keep in touch. Make plans for another visit. See what comes of it.
>>16629020
Nah, everyone in your social circle can think for themselves. Don't sweat it. Be the person you want to be - the best version of yourself and all that - and someone can say whatever the fuck they want about you to other people. The others will either know it's bullshit already or will be able to figure it out within 5 min of meeting you. Besides, the sort of girl who would do that is generally surrounded by folks who already know not to take what she says too seriously.
>>16629020
That's how I was. Every time I asked a girl out it was "EW anon asked you out? What a creep" but eventually you'll find one that doesnt think that way and she will tell everyone how big your D is and boom, the whole town is after you. That's just me, though.
I did just this night. Ended very badly. I should drink less when I try that again
He came over for New Years last night and I told myself I was gonna make a move and I fucking didn't. I'm a huge fucking coward. I'm probably not gonna see him again until March
Yep. I did. She said 'fuck no'. She just used my kindness for 3 years lol. Now its hell'a awkward and were doing project together in college. Fml
Its weird. Whenever i meet a cute girl who i see a possible relationship with i convince myself im just infatuated and move on. Leaves me with many untied ends. Talking to girls but only in a constant process of flirting and cutsey shit. Im afraid i wont ever love romantically again. To answer the question yes. maybe? idk
>>16625209
I'm italian and I can tell you this: our women rarely speak english properly-don't even get me started with fluently, since we have fucking strong accents and stumble upon words-and 99% of them think anyone outside of an italian guy is just a booty call. 0,5% of the remaining girls are liberal feminist fucks and the 0,5% of them are actually worth having for a foreign man.
If she falls in the last cathegory don't fuck it up, you've met a fucking rarity.
I did.
>>16629948
You're too much concerned with failing that you're failing before you try.
Go get your 5 no's and one yes for fuck's sake.
>>16625275
I wrote a girl on OKC this morning. She didn't answer. :(
>>16630081
The need is real. Yes, rub the sand in my face, good, yes do it again! Ik ben heul vervelend!
>>16624973
Yea I got rejected twice.
Thought we had something too.
>>16624973
Yes, on a fucking Eiffel tower. Got rejected, she had a boyfriend.
I ended up making her smile and laugh today at work so I think I will ask her out tomorrow.
second time ignored.
for my sanity so i don't have to think about her ever again im just gonna go tell her to fuck herself
