Any guy has a positive experience? Basically, I kinda orbited around a girl 5 years older than my, somehow admitted my feelings in August and she said I was a 2nd degree friend. She says I'm smart and funny but she can't open herself on other plans with me. She also has a hard time getting over her past relationship.
I tried to re-initiate conversation with her in October but her responses were dry and didn't carried the conversation.
It has been 3 months since I spoke with her and the need for human interraction is killing me. I want to talk to her but at the same time, I know it won't change anything.
>>16618098
>is this a bad idea
>i know it wont change anything
>5 years
>dry
dude, go interact with someone else, there are like 5 billion other players in this game.
>>16618127
But is there a way to make her look my way again or is there only 1 chance with a woman? I want to know if other guys were in a situation similar to mine and how it ended up.
>>16618844
>But is there a way to make her look my way again
You never had a chance to begin with.
>>16618877
How can you be so sure? I understand that at her age, she seeks maturity and independence. I work at my parent's buisness, studying to become a fireman, have a nice car, good physique...I thought older women would be into younger guys. Is it beta/desperate to just make contact again but more as friends? Literally the only female presence in my life
>>16619269
Because women are forward when they find a man they want. Factor in your inexperience, desperation, and posting this thread multiple times... No chance, and you never had a chance to begin with, you were like a gym buddy, at best.
Focus on you, go out to a bar solo if you have to, get Tinder, etc...
>>16619302
I kinda figured out. I'm not Chad enough. Let it be Tinder, POF, Okcupid, bars, events, parties, nothing can cure my social awkwardness. In another lifetime I guess.
>>16619302
Hey I have an idea. You said taht I am just a gym buddy. She has stopped training for a while and always wanted to try crossfit and one of my friend invited me to his crossfit gym. Maybe I could ask her out?
>>16618098
>interraction
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1EXRzKgNgGo
