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>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
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>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
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No
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>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon or Female Brandon
Piss off.
>Frog
Also piss off.
Women who make the first move: how has that worked out for you across all the times you've done it?
And women who don't make the first move: thoughts about the other group?
>>16618080
What, on girls who make the first move? Why should I care what they do?
>>16617954
To my understanding, the urethra is a up beneath the clitoris.
So won't a few drops stay there when the stream becomes weak?
I'm asking because my gf asked me to go down on her, but she get mad and offended when I told her if she can wash it with soap.
I mean I wash dick before she goes down on me.
>>16618080
I don't think I have an opinion
>>16618078
Extremely well. Sometimes guys needs a little push.
>>16618096
You have to wash yourself before every time she goes down on you? No spontaneous blowjobs? Also, girls shouldn't really put soap down there. It can lead to infection.
>>16618115
youll do it for me though WHORE
Any tips on getting an ex to leave there relationship to give me another chance?
Will going to yoga class help me meet a potential partner?
>>16618096
Women wipe after peeing to take care of that. There are more people who are grossed out by the idea of going down on a not freshly washed dick of pussy, but for others it takes away passion or they use the opposite argument: it doesn't matter to me, so it is hurtful/a turn off that it grosses you out so much.
Also vulvas (let alone vaginas) should ideally not be washed with soap. You won't instantly get an infection from using a very mild one and not going inside the vag, but it's still preferable not to do so and can still cause irritation. Let alone trying to wash specifically your urethra with soap...
Women, how do you prefer that men maintain their pubes? I've always clean shaven before sex personally.
>>16618201
I think the most common preference is trimmed. Personally I'd be very turned off by anything other than natural. I think a dick looks weird being (almost) bare, trimmed hairs without tapered ends feel way harsher, and I just find the pubes very masculine and arousing. Plus I adore happy trails and find it weird when they don't end in anything. To me it's just how a grown man looks.
Having said that I think I'm a bit extreme on the topic and I'm also European... from my internet experience Americans tend to skew a bit more towards hairlessness. However it is not uncommon for women to find it off putting if the guy is completely bare. Again if you want to be safe I'd go with keeping it trimmed.
>>16618214
Alright femanon, thank you.
I've never really been in a serious relationship, most of my sex was just party stuff/one night stands. Once I do, though, I'll make sure to ask her
>>16618225
That's always safest, of course! And you can't please someone if you don't know what they like, at least if they did not like the bare look it was obvious you put attention into grooming yourself and being presentable for a potential lady.
What do girls think of guys that play vidiya?
>>16618115
Well, I don't know about you.
But after I finish my shift which lasts 2-3 days, I barely stand my own smell.
>girls shouldn't really put soap down there. It can lead to infection.
How?
>>16618187
>trying to wash specifically your urethra with soap...
Who in their right mind do that?
I'm talking about washing her labia major, and perineum. which is normal skin.
>>16618214
>happy trails
What's those?
>>16618248
The trail of hair that runs along a man's stomach. It's glorious.
>>16618096
>>16618244
Warm water is enough to clean, women wipe after peeing anyway. Soap messes with the ph balance of a vagina, it's naturally slightly acidic to deal with bacteria and such so using soap can lead to yeast infection
Do any of you guys care about hip dips?
>>16618302
I guarantee you, most men have never even noticed that's a thing
>>16618263
Spent way too long looking for this but I felt that it deserved a picture and no google image did it justice. So incredibly hot.
>>16618244
I just assumed you hoped she'd soap it up around there given that you had issue with possible leftover pee. But as the other poster pointed out, your vagina maintains a natural balance and soap is aggressive and messes with that. This causes irritation and women easily get yeast infections to begin with.
>>16618302
No, but i care about the gap between the legs.
>>16618302
Honestly I've never even noticed and ive been through 6 gfs. Don't worry. Besides, it isn't visible through clothing, and its all the same when they're just grabbing your buttocks during sex.
>>16618302
>Do any of you guys care about hip dips
Some do, some don't, but as another anon mentioned, most people won't even notice.
The "inner thigh gap" is in my opinion a plus but not requirement (I have a soft spot for "fit" girls).
- I consider the hip dip arousing as well >#smallpleasuresinlife
>>16618369
>he thinks thigh gap is due to fitness
Sorry bro but it's based on how her hips are shaped. The fittest chick in the world might not have the gap.
>>16618369
>>16618377
And most pics where girls have 'thigh gaps' are where they are tensing their legs and pushing them inwards to make it seem like they have one
>>16618385
I agree if you're talking about those poster gaps of one or more inch thigh gaps. But sometimes I feel like half the guys referring to a thigh gap just mean that her legs don't "merge" when she's standing normally... not so much that even with her feet pressed up against each other there's a good open space between her thighs.
Might be wrong, though.
>>16618377
>Fitness or not
My dick knows what it wants and it doesn't lie
Got a job that involves a lot of socializing. Or maybe not a lot, but I will be working at little store selling books, so we'll all be working together in a small little area, processing orders, stocking shelves, etc.
what are some small talk stuff to talk about so I can get to know the girls I work with and not make it awkward silence? (I'm a guy)
Girls: do you really care about age?
Cute girl that I work with, I think she might be 1 or 2 years older than me. I'm going to try and talk to her, but once she finds out my age, do you think it would really matter? Or is this like a small factor that can shape your opinion? She's just so fine, with a nice body, and nice ass, I think I had a class with her last semester and she would turn around and look at me sometimes.
>>16618439
Don't worry about it, silence is not going to be awkward because you're at work and doing things. When you're new and feel awkward anyway, just go check out the titles you have and what kind of authors you sell. You will look extra eager to be a good employee on top.
But anyway, you are working together, obvious questions are practical ones or stuff about how they enjoy the job, what the perks and downsides are, their worst/best work story, favorite/least favorite customer, what they needed to learn most getting to work there etc. If this feels natural, you'll get to talk about other light hearted things anyway.
girls:
why is it so hard for you to be up front?
I am not even mad here I just noticed that being vague, changing your opinion, ignoring agreements or even outright lying seems to be acceptable for females.
how come?
>>16618462
Upbringing
>>16618448
Usually one to three years is basically being the same age. However if you are very young this could be different - but ultimately the most important thing is that she does not find you immature. Given that you don't know her age for certain, she probably won't know right away what yours is either, so she already has an impression of you not influenced by age anyway.
>and she would turn around and look at me sometimes
Good sign. Looks are the most reliable sign that you have someone's interest. Don't let this age thing become huge in your head, just test the waters and see if you have a shot.
Guys: How hard is it for you to show sadness emotions? A guy that I have the biggest crush on, we talked today and he got, er, misty eyed? about a topic. He's not very touchy feely at all, doesn't really go beyond really casual (ie no dates) but purposefully sees me nearly everyday to talk with me. I asked if he wanted a hug and he said he wasn't ready for those yet. I really wanted to comfort him but didn't want to get into his personal space. Is this okay? What else would you want?
Girls, would you rather be cute or sexy?
>>16618318
>your vagina
I'm a dude.
I'm fine with washing with just water.
Though was she over reacting because I told her to wash up?
>>16618477
Cute. Sexy is a pain in the ass. Constantly harassed/hit on. No thank you.
>>16618477
Girls
I really, really, really want to watch porn with my gf, see what stuff turns her on, what her fetishes are, masturbate together, etc.
How creepy is this? How could I approach the topic? Should I wait until later on in the relationship? (Currently 3 months.) I don't want her to think I'm bored of doing her or anything, it's really nothing like that at all.
>>16618439
Be yourself, and learn to be good listener.
>>16618462
Other poster is right. It takes a kind of moral courage to just come out and say how you feel about something, a certain confidence that your viewpoint is valid. Women are often brought up being punished more for being abrasive, confrontational or bold, than for any of the things you listed. The result is that they get good at sugarcoating things and being non-confrontational, but not so much at saying it as it is, and fall back on that strategy if they feel nervous or don't know what to do.
Of course this is a huge blanket statement that does not apply to everyone, I know some women who are pretty damn straightforward and lack diplomacy in my social circle.
Also, straight up lying might be accepted by lovestruck guys who want to believe she's doing it without bad intentions or whatever shit, but is not something that is socially alright for women either.
>>16618495
Disregard reply link, no idea why I did that, sorry.
>>16618284
>Warm water is enough to clean
This is why you never go down on women.
You know how men's bodies clean their urethra.
Piss.
You know how body cleans our intestines.
Shit.
You know how our bodies clean our sinuses.
Snot.
Hate to break it to you but the vagina is a filthy place. That mucus that you think is clean is the equivalent of snot.
Remember bros, never go down of a woman
>>16618495
You need to find out what her opinion of porn is, first. Some girls are freakishly upset by porn. They consider it cheating, or disgusting, or any combo of negative feelings about it. Ask her what she thinks about porn, and go from there. If she says she thinks it's fine, or even admits to watching it, go ahead and see if she'd want to try something kinda kinky and watch it together.
>>16618473
That's a really complicated matter.
Guys don't like to show weakness to anybody, maybe only close people or when they think they're alone.
And prefer to bottle emotions on.
How you go about it depends largely on your relationship with him.
>>16618439
No matter what you do dont listen to >>16618497
Ask a womans opinion and she will try to turn you into a beta provider and emotional sponge.
Women want to abuse guys, you cant trust them. Be yourself though and dont act like a tampon in anyway and you can trick women into acting human.
>>16618484
I was speaking in the general sense.
Eh, I think a bit. But I can sort of see where she's coming from. I am the kind of person who begs a lover to not shower after a sweaty night because I want to smell it on him. If someone made me feel like he thought it was gross to have his mouth near my pussy unless I got right out of the shower, that would not excite me very much. She might feel the same way, or it was just a knee jerk reflex because telling someone to groom/wash more is usually sensitive... not because it is so terrible to do so but because it is so stigmatized to be perceived as unclean.
Honestly though, I think the main issue apart from some general awkwardness on her side, is that she has gone down on you and you had not on her and did not spontaneously do so. Then when she requested it, which she probably found awkward, you basically told her to go wash that shit first. The combination of you not diving in yourself and telling her to wash up probably made her feel like she grosses you out a bit. But that's just my take on it.
>>16618508
>the vagina is a filthy place
It's not that bad you wuss. Like I said vaginas are naturally acidic which kills a lot of bacteria.
>You know how men's bodies clean their urethra.
>Piss.
It's the same for women?
>>16618473
You def triggered something more serious.
Any time I end up talking about abortion and here people actually advocate for the slaughter of children I become an emotional wreck.
If hes showing emotional infront of you over a trivial topic thats not deep rooted in him hes just a faggot though. Guys dont show weakness in front of others. Its how were conditioned.
>>16618508
>>16618495
Not creepy at all. I showed someone stuff I saved and it was really intimate, like he got a look into my head seeing what turned me on. Also just watching something together you know is arousing to both of you is really fun and exciting.
I'd introduce it in a non-sexual setting, like when you are both talking about sex but not close to having it. Ask for her fantasies, sexual bucket list, whatever, and mention you'd like to do this some time.
VERY important though is that if she is not a porn user herself, you pick the right kind of softcore stuff. I can very much recommend lustcinema, they have a few free videos out there and it's more "regular" sex with making out, a bit of a storyline, smiles... no constant jackhammering and blowjobs with gagging.
>>16618523
>I like other peoples snot
NO THANK YOU
>It's the same for women?
I didnt realize women needed to pee after ejaculation to clean their urethra from semen
>>16618521
I understand everyone have their own turn on, but when I come up from work I smelly as hell, because I didn't have a shower for two days and any combination of human/inhuman fluid is on me.
Also I never let her go down on me before I cleaned it myself.
>>16618509
>>16618531
Thanks girls. This is all pretty much the way I've been planning it, but I needed some input.
>>16618377
No he thinks thigh gap is due to not being fat
The thigh gap is incredibly arousing for men. It literally screams
>Penis goes here
Not having one isnt the end of the world. But having one is such a turn on.
>>16618558
I'm a guy with like a thousand fetishes, and this is honestly immature/kiddie shit, if you ask me, right up there with "girls with an outie vag or cameltoe are looser". I'm fairly certain I've never had a thigh gap (or lack thereof) contribute to a boner.
>>16618546
I get what you are saying but realize that the argument that you do it so it should be no big deal to expect the same, is no different than her saying she doesn't need you to come right out of the shower so why should you need her to?
The bottom line is that you disagree on this and both of these outlooks are common enough. I'd go up to her and tell her sorry for upsetting her, this is not a loaded thing for you and just how you prefer it, that's also why/how you prep for her. But seeing her reaction you feel that she read things into it that you never meant to convey, you just stated your preference for oral.
Maybe someone has a better idea but this seems your best bet to me, other than hoping she'll cool down and stop caring on her own.
Also again, I think a huge part of the issue is that you did not take the initiative to return the favor to begin with. Like >>16618508 there's a surprising amount of straight men (and straight women equivalent, by the way) who like sex but are still pretty grossed out by the vagina (or dick). Most people do not really like to have people like this as a sexual partner because for them, this organ is the place that feels best sexually and they want their lover to not shy away from it or treat it like something infected. So it could be that how these things matched up, not taking the first step to eat her out then making clear that you'll only do it when washed, makes her fear that you are one of those. Everyone has heard horror stories of the new partner who will go down on you a handful of times in the honeymoon phase, then once you're in deep never does it again because they find it gross.
Girls.
I'm a kissless virgin (24), but seeing a chick now, at long last. Not gonna jump to conclusions, but provided I score and/or get into a relationship, how could I go about telling her about my cherry status?
I really don't want to do it without her knowing about it. At what point between dating and sex should I let her know? I obviously have a certain level of insecurity about it, but I wouldn't be advertising that, per se.
>>16618611
You don't. Just don't. Most guys blow their load way too fast anyway, regardless of virginity. A girl is going to have a difficult time finding a guy that actually knows how to perform in bed. She won't know the difference, so don't tell her.
>>16618614
But what if she at some point realizes it anyway? Even if the sex doesn't give it away, and you can do a lot more wrong than blow too soon, eventually she'll realize he has no exes and he'll either need to feed her a fictional past or come clean, basically admitting that he did not trust her enough to tell...
>>16618614
I'd just feel really shit about it, to be honest. I'd 100% expect the girl to tell me if she were the same. And I really doubt I'd have issues with pleasuring her. I know it's laughable for me to say this, all things considered, but I know how to take it slow, focus on the right erogenous zones and I know how to last long. Only penetration would be the awkward thing for me, having never done it before.
>>16618614
Lying about virginity is more toxic than virginity itself.
I was chatting with this girl at her work a few days ago, we hit it off fairly well, and no, it wasn't just employees being polite. I didn't ask her out but I went back in today to do just that and it turns out she was in a car accident last night.
My chances are now 0%, right?
>>16618620
>basically admitting that he did not trust her enough to tell...
I don't see this as such a bad thing to admit. If it comes up later, just be honest, at that point she should be judging you more by your present than your past anyway.
>>16618635
Give it a lot of time
Unless she's dead now, then yeah
>>16618635
Maybe ask a co-worker to tell her you wish her to get well soon or something. Nothing too creepy, just something to let her know "that one dude from the other day was looking for you". Who knows, might cheer her up while moping around in the hospital or something, and score you some points the next time you see her.
>>16618642
Disregard picture, was gonna be for another thread but then I confused myself.
>>16618591
I'll do that.
By the way it's not because I'm grossed out, in my line of work I see nasty stuff.
I just though that since I always clean up it's no big deal.
Also what's that about smelling you talked about?
I once caught her smelling my shirt, is this something women do?
How do I tell if a woman is checking me out? I can never tell if they're looking at me or like behind me. If they are were would they most likely be looking? What do I do in response?
>>16618651
>I once caught her smelling my shirt, is this something women do?
Anon, you're amazing, never change.
>>16618651
>I once caught her smelling my shirt, is this something women do?
Haha yeah
It's not like guys don't do it wither though
>>16618651
It's not about whether or not you factually are, but more that it could come across that way for her, especially if she's a bit paranoid/insecure about it.
Not sure if women do it more than men, and not everyone is equally big on smell, but it is normal to be aroused by the smells of someone you love and find attractive. It just differs from person to person how much is too much, eg whether they still like sweat or only the washed version, whether they like some perfume mixed in...
Yeah this is typically why couples like to trade shirts. Smell feels quite intimate, think of how a certain smell can take you right back to your childhood in the way an image can't. Plus it reminds you of times you were physically close enough to smell them well. And it is very personal for who they are.
>>16618302
Faint preference for no dip.
>>16618473
It's not that it's hard, it's more that it feels unnatural. Like there's a gap between those misty eyes and the point where you feel compelled to hug and shit, and most of the time we never go past it. Depending on the guy he'd probably be alright with you initiating something.
>>16618662
Assume they're checking you out. Smile. If they smile back, walk over and have a chat.
>>16618473
Generally, men aren't really allowed to show emotion in that way. They are told by society that they'll be beta losers and drive away women (as women typically look for confidence) if they do so. So if men feel like crying, it isn't about the difficulty of it, but the consequences that make them stop themselves.
>>16618579
>I'm a guy with like a thousand fetishes
Yeah somethings wrong with you. Stop watching porn and you become more of a vanilla fag. If you ever go no fap no sex ever the word boobs will turn you on
> I'm fairly certain I've never had a thigh gap (or lack thereof) contribute to a boner.
Yeah because you are fucked up from your thousand fetishes
>this is honestly immature/kiddie shit
MUH HARDCORE PORN FETISHES
KEK
Thigh gaps are the way things are supposed to be. Its pure sex.
>>16618302
>Care
No
>Notice
Yes
Honestly its more attractive if you dont have it but its not really a big deal.
>Yeah somethings wrong with you.
Having fetishes is wrong. Alright, this'll be a fun little post, huh? Can't wait to read.
>Stop watching porn and you become more of a vanilla fag.
Now why in the fuck would I want to 1) Stop watching porn and 2)Become a "vanilla fag"? ESPECIALLY considering I can still get fully turned on by regular intercourse with real women? It's just another type of fetish.
>If you ever go no fap no sex ever the word boobs will turn you on
It can already turn me on in the right circumstances, why you gotta assume such dumb crap?
>Yeah because you are fucked up from your thousand fetishes
This is such a stupid sentence, my god. You're telling me off for watching a lot of porn, yet you're the manchild here getting his dick hard from something as mild as a freakin' thigh gap. Mirror mirror on the wall, bro.
>MUH HARDCORE PORN FETISHES
What are you trying to say here? The only message I'm getting here is "You are a loser for having standards in sexuality".
>Thigh gaps are the way things are supposed to be. It's pure sex.
My mind is full of fuck, I can't even respond to this.
Overall, see pic. It's clear you've got some sort of immature vendetta against porn. Bottom line: your assumption of "having watched a ton of porn leaves me unable to enjoy real women" is not true whatsoever.
>>16618591
>this organ is the place that feels best sexually and they want their lover to not shy away from it or treat it like something infected.
Guys prostrate literally undermines this example.
Its just disgusting. No one wants to lick you snot. Deal with it.
This female friend'll keep putting on hand lotion only when around me
Wat
>>16618728
>No one
Disagree
>>16618722
>your assumption of "having watched a ton of porn leaves me unable to enjoy real women" is not true whatsoever.
Holy shit its clear that you feel watching porn is wrong. Didnt even say this. Seeing how defensive you got is an argument on its own about how fucked up you are from watching too much porn.
>It's clear you've got some sort of immature vendetta against porn
Porn is poison for the mind. Its like drugs. But some people like drugs.
Currently in a foreign country, met another foreigner the other day in town. She was in a group and we all talked an exchanged numbers. So, I've got her number, but it seems a little bit insignificant since I got everyone elses number as well. We talked for a while and I think we connected pretty well. What do I message her, should I ask her to meet up with me 1 on 1 or in a group again just to get to know each other a bit better? I have no clue what I'm doing.
>>16618738
Well there's exceptions to every generalization. Im sure there are couples that eat each others buggers. Whats your point?
>>16618737
>only when around me
How do you know it's just around you? It might be a nervous tick, which could be bad/neutral/good (ie she's scared of you/she's scared of new people/she's scared she won't impress you)
Maybe she's self conscious about her dry hands. I know winter makes my hands turn as scaly as a dinosaur. Maybe she wants you to hold hands!
>>16618673
I think I caught her looking at my chest a few times, I just always assume it's nothing though.
>>16618728
I think the main issue with prostate stimulation is that most straight men don't feel comfortable considering they might like it. You can't miss something if you have no idea how it feels. You CAN miss it if a woman is reluctant to touch your dick or won't take it in her mouth. It's no different for women.
>No one
Sorry man, it's just the reality that plenty of men are enthusiastic to eat pussy and even get more aroused from doing it. You just aren't one of them.
>>16618042
If any femanons could give me some adv id appreciate it
so recently ive started going a bit bat shit from sad and depression (having bad auditry halucinations) but im going to university soon for music, how can i avoid looking like a beta freak infront of girls in my class? this might be the only chance i get to meet a girl who has similor intrests to me
thanks
>>16618762
>it's just the reality that plenty of men are enthusiastic to eat pussy and even get more aroused from doing it
There are plenty of people who get aroused from scat porn. I dont understand what your point is.
>>16618777
Are you getting help for your depression?
>>16618791
im trying to, broke down infront of my gp a bit ago but he hasnt done shit. even refered me to a place near where i live and told me theyd call me but they havnt
>>16618787
Scat is a niche fetish. I don't even know a friend of mine in real life who dated a guy who would not go down on them. Project all you want but oral sex is very common. There will always be people who don't like it, but the people who dislike it so much they refuse to ever do it are in the minority from what I take at least... and not like you can easily find statistics on something like this.
But whatever, just try to find a woman who cannot feel being eaten out or finds the sensation icky, they exist.
My girlfriend has low libido for me. We do something on average once a week, whether going down on each other or having sex. This bothers me.
Is it going to be this way forever? Do women change their libido as they age?
We've been dating for a year and a half
>>16618805
Have you tried talking to her about it? Chances are this is just her libido, but for most people there's at least a bit of wriggle room in terms of actively trying to get yourself in the mood. And perhaps she can give you tips on how to turn her on - some women are pretty reactive sexually, they are hardly spontaneously in the mood, but that doesn't mean they can't be turned on to get there. Search for reactive sexuality/libido for more on this.
Libido can certainly change with age but it is not possible to predict how. People all respond in different ways.. even a minor example like how pregnancy makes some women go sex crazy and others loathe the idea of it. There is no guaranteed increase or decrease.
>>16618796
I dont even know a friend of mine in real life who has gone down on a girl. Whats your point.
>oral sex
Yes. Blowjobs are.
>the people who dislike it so much they refuse to ever do it are in the minority from what I take at least
I love making up statistics are well.
>>16618796
Uh no. Women dont expect me to ever do it.
>>16618514
Thank you. The relationship will be slower than molasses in January, but I feel like it's heading in the right direction. It'll just take some time.
>>16618527
It was stuff to do with family, not faggot stuff.
>>16618669
There was furniture between us, so it wouldn't have been really natural. I did say that I'm always open for hugs, but he said he couldn't do them right now. (I feel like he's been really burned in the past and very skittish with emotions/relationships.)
>>16618696
Thank you. He's more traditional and we're both older (mid thirties), so I feel really honoured he was comfortable enough to feel he could man-cry (for lack of better word).
>>16618380
I am 26,living with my parents.
Have anyone been brainwashed to dream to be a hero like some fucking vidyagames like me?
In this world,every woman except my mom who i have contact with will only have a decent response for my question if it's about money transaction.Therefore i believe they just use men for their goals(money) and don't take a second shit about opinions from you.Even the ones whos job is supposed to BE responsive for your opinions they will say they don't know and they will response with emotion,this happens to me in college and military in taiwan.
Therefore I don't want woman,they are either fuck ugly and just want money or just using men for their own goods,they always stay behind some rules to protect them(law,money).They never loved me,never.
Girls, I'd really love your advice on this one please.
I'm going to visit this girl I was seeing about a year ago next week, we got very close, but both of us had to move due to work and school so we haven't been able to see each other in about a year. We've kept in touch though and still talk/skype regularly, we were/are very close. The thing is I still have pretty strong feelings for her and I can't continue the way it is, it's too hard. There's no real chance for us to be together in the near future in any meaningful way either. I want this visit to be a goodbye for good type thing. Should I tell her that I feel this way before, during or after my visit? I don't want to hurt her feelings, I know this is probably going to happen regardless of what I choose, but I also don't want to deceive her either by spending the weekend together and then telling her I don't want to talk any more. There's pros and cons of each option so I'm really just looking for what you would prefer, if it means I tell her before and she wants to cancel the trip I'm prepared for that too.
I've never been in this sort of situation before and I really don't know how to handle it, it isn't healthy that I still have these feelings for her despite not seeing her in the flesh for nearly a year and I've turned down other girls/potential relationships because I've been so hung up on her. With no chance of us ever being together again I think it's best to just part ways. I doubt she feels the same as she initiates 95% of our interactions. Thanks for any help/advice you can give me.
>>16618042
Grills.What's the imost important thing you look for in guys?
>>16619047
Chemistry
If he aint got at least a phd then I'm out
For the sake of the discussion above, let's take a poll
Guys:
-do you (or would you) eat a girl out?
-do you like it?
>>16619080
Yes
Yes
Ladies and gents that use Tinder I got two questions:
1.Am I retarded for thinking I'll find a relationship out of this app or is it true that it's really a meet n fuck app?
2. When I match with someone what do you guys say to start the conversation, I've been told saying "hey" is lame but I feel pick up lines or references are just as shitty and sometimes that just confuses the hell out of the girl, so how do you guys start conversations/ women what do you respond to?
>>16618965
I guess Id love to be a hero and save the day once like everyone else like some bad ass main character.
As for the rest of your comment maybe you keep finding the same type of girls and then blaming the whole gender?
I'm 21 and hell I even turned down a rich guy who wanted to date me because he never worked a hard day in his life and had shit handed to him and expected me to take days off from work to play vidyagames with him. I work from 5am-7pm outside long ass hours in snow, rain or strong winds on high seas for my money and have never asked anyone for help. I moved out at 17 and never looked back. The only thing my dad has ever gotten me was a pelletstove, everything else I've earned through blood sweat and tears without the help of others.
My point being anon, just because some girls are cunts doesn't mean all of them are. I don't think all guys are tools or assholes, just some can be, it goes both ways.
what do guys think about big inner labia? I have one of those but they are really long and i'm ashamed of them. dunno what sex would be like with this.
>>16619481
you mean youre a roastie...
Its not pretty. I dont really want to look at it. Vanilla sex in the missionary position with the lights out so I dont have to see it.
girls, what the fuck does the 'thumbs up' emoji response mean when texting
for context i was texting the HR girl checking up on some work related shit
basically it went
>checking up on blah blah blah
>he wasn't in today will have it done tomorrow
>okay thank you
>thumbs up
>>16619481
Probably should have laid off the teenage sex. Nothing worrying about it now will accomplish. Think about it like a small penis. Most people wont like it but theres enough that will over look it.
>>16619544
i'm actually a virgin. It pretty much got this way during puberty.
>>16619537
sounds like a bad sex life
>>16619555
>virgin roastie
how cruel
>>16619577
Stop watching porn. Its a great sex life.
>>16619579
inb4 she had anal and still considers herself a virgin
>>16619593
>>16619584
>>16619579
oh well i tried
What does it mean when you suggest a short break with a girl you're dating so she can sort out some personal problems and then she completely ignores your attempts to communicate?
>>16619481
Many would be turned off by this, but there are also those who don't give a fuck.
I don't really give a fuck, for example.
>>16619619
is the sex different? I would consider it if my husband gets turned off by it. But i also hear guys like to suck on them.
>>16619593
I met a girl who thought that. God she was crazy. Fun too though.
>>16619544
>Probably should have laid off the teenage sex.
Vaginas dont work that way. Take your medical advice from a doctor instead of r9k.
>>16619481
It's not a big deal
>>16619080
Yes and sometimes, depending on the woman.
>>16619676
>It's not a big deal
thanks. I'm just scared is all.
>>16619616
Her personal problems were that she didn't want to date you.
>>16619047
He smells good. I don't just mean hygiene.
>>16619698
If people are at the point they can actually see your fun bits, they're not going to be super particular about them. It's one of those things people build up in their heads, like guys nervous their dicks arent the size of their forearm like in porn.
>>16619636
>Is the sex different?
I wouldn't know! I'm a virgin just like you. Either way, you'll be alright.
>>16619481
I was "involved" with a virgin girl who seemed to be self-conscious about that, even though she never told me outright. I was crazy about her, and I would have been happy with whatever she has down there.
>>16619714
i get what you mean. I do the same thing all the time. I'll even be happy if he still has sex with me even with the lights off. I just want to be with someone i love.
>>16619715
thanks. i hope everything goes well with you too.
how the fuck am i supposed answer the question "what kind of guy are you?"
what does this even mean I don't want to sound like an idiot to this girl i just met though....
>>16619721
hopefully i would find someone like you with the same mindset. A lot of people are shallow these days.
>>16619733
>>16619735
>I just want to be with someone i love.
same
> i hope everything goes well with you too.
You're welcome and the same to you. Be confident.
>>16619744
>shallow
People are actually constantly shocked how little I care about physical appearance, as long as the girl takes care of herself and makes an effort. I know that plenty of men like me exist, so you should be fine.
>>16619794
that actually makes me feel better. are you average looking or above average? just curious.
I started talking to a girl over facebook
should I ask her out soon or wait
like I mean, how many messages before I reach the point of no return?
>>16619735
murp
>>16619829
I've considered myself to be average-looking, but I do receive a good deal of female attention, so I suppose I'm above-average. It helps that I'm tall (6'3), I suppose. I've been told I'm very handsome plenty of times, so maybe I'm selling myself short with my self-assessment.
>>16619844
nice very tall
>>16619676
>Take your medical advice from a doctor instead of r9k.
Doctors lie about whether or not you have an std. You think Im about to buy into their lies and propaganda.
>>16619897
>lies and propaganda
lmao are you for real
>>16619922
What else do you call the misspread of information about who has stds
ok im tired of having to do this talking stuff
like, I wish it could be easy, like, "hey I think you're cute, wanna go on a date" and then she answers "yes or no" and we go on with our lives
can i explain this to a girl or will it come off as being beta or whatever? I just want to know if she will go on a date with me
I've always wanted to ask this to a girl.
I have eczema in lots of parts around my body. However, the most problematic is the palms of my hand and the skin where my pubes are. I can take care of them with creams but they're always somewhat rough, bright red and often with small wounds.
This is obviously disgusting as fuck to myself let alone everyone else. How am I supposed to deal with this shit when it comes to being intimate with anyone?
Hi /adv/, so today when i was dropping off my gf of 1 month(I've been friends with her for over a year before dating), when I drop her at her house we always make out for a while in the car before she leaves and goes into her house.
But today, (for the record, she was on her period) we were listening to music of her favorite band (I like it too, the music was playing from my phone) and right after I parked I jokingly said "ok let me change this horrible music" and she got upset and just said "ok the music I like sucks, bye" and left the car, she has done this before and I always have to make the effort to apologize for a joke, but today I said fuck it and just drove home.
Then I texted her like nothing happened and she didn't reply.
So my question is: girls, did I just fuck up or is stuff like this normal when you're on your period?
>>16619544
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA
>>16619481
Vaginas, like dicks, come in a variety of shapes and sizes. You're all good!
>>16619542
You're welcome, 10-4, got your message, no need to reply back
>>16619897
>You think Im about to buy into their lies and propaganda.
Please go on
>>16620001
For me, that's be 100% period. It seems so cliche, but since using a period tracking app for the last four years, I've been blown away how much it fucks with your emotions and life outlook.
>>16619941
If you're with someone you genuinely care about and trust, and she genuinely cares about you and trusts you, all you'll have to do is explain it to her and she should understand. Eczema isn't uncommon.
>>16619854
It has its advantages
Fellow guys and girls
I went out with a girl yesterday. It was the first time that I've ever done anything like that before (I'm 25). It was pleasant! Everything went great except for when we ate Lunch. I felt hungry before we got to the resturant. But once we were there and I took my first bite of food I got very very full. Literally after eating a few bites I felt so full that I couldn't eat any more. I got really close to throwing up when I was eating a very small thin slice of meat. When I tried to swallow it felt as if there was like a wall in the back of my mouth preventing the food from going down. So I forced it and felt so fucking shitty. I had to go sit in the bathroom for a few minutes and was sweating like crazy and feeling nauseous. After I back to the table I couldn't eat another bite. I had a entire plate of food infront of me. And this girl had eaten all of her food and even picked at mine! I don't think I've ever been that humiliated before.
I'm going to be hanging with her again today, I'm very scared of when we go get lunch today. HELP!
So basically my hair is thinning, but pretty much only on the front of my head. Something like an IV A in this pic.
I'd already been trying to lose weight, and this adds extra incentive because if I were to get a buzzcut or something to that effect right now I'd have some neck fat going on depending on the angle I look.
I'm pretty bad at this. I'm torn if I should just bite the bullet and go for a super short haircut, clean up the baldspot for now, or what.
>>16618302
Nah.
Actually looks kind of sexy.
>>16619931
>can i explain this to a girl
Why do you have to explain it? Do literally what you said, tell her she's cute and ask her out. No need to explain the meta. Just do it.
>>16620229
Bodies are weird. I wouldn't judge a guy for not finishing this food. Maybe you had a bad reaction to something you ate for breakfast.
Are you going to a different place? Be sure to order something gentle and not too filling. Just be nice on your gut.
>>16620371
I didn't eat breakfast that morning because I was hoping to counter any anxiety by having a empty stomach. But obviously that didn't work.
I literally think it was just anxiety. I've had trouble eating infront of girls in the past. But I actually like this one, so I was very embarrassed.
To both: Is watching porn no longer a taboo by social standards?
Or are some of you still offended by it?
yes I know, porn does have its nasty side in its business and all which is why I can understand why some hate porn.
>>16620386
I'd say openly discussing porn in inappropriate situations (e.g. meeting new people) is still taboo. Among close friends, it's probably okay. Watching it isn't really taboo at all, and I'm not offended by it at all
>>16620386
Nobody cares about porn anymore.
Honestly though, I think it's odd that it's Taboo for a guy to own a pocket pussy, but acceptable for a girl to own a vibrator
>>16619931
If that's not a cold open, and you two actually get along, that should def work. From what I've experienced, girls like directness and honesty. Don't be a dick though
>>16620414
Not the guy you replied to. But just supporting what you said. A girl I'm talking to said this
>>16620392
>Taboo for a guy to own a pocket pussy
I know right?
>It's an artificial vagina
>its new
>its taboo
>because magic
>People who bought this product also bought the following: WoW
>>16620467
Well why is it ok for a girl to own a vibrator?
>>16620494
Because the entire world pities women. Men can't make them cum with their dicks, so women have to rely on machines to do the job.
Girls, are emotions on a man a turn off?
Are we not allowed to weep in sorrow and happiness anymore?
Femanons: obviously simply taking an interest in you isn't enough to get you to be interested in a guy back. What do you expect from guys that indicate an interest in you for you to be interested in them? What makes you want to get to know a guy?
>>16620506
Appropriate emotions at appropriate times are fine and expected. If you're a giant crybaby, that's not.
>>16620511
What logic compels you to think that just because you're interested in a girl, she should be interested in you?
>>16620500
I've never came from sex before. So shouldn't I be able to get a pocket pussy?
>>16620516
>crybaby
Define and describe a crybaby.
Emotionally sensitive man here.
>>16620526
>Emotionally sensitive man here.
You're a crybaby.
>>16620520
No, you need to stop gripping your dick so hard that you can't orgasm from a real vagina. You're destroyed yourself.
>>16620526
>emotionally sensitive man here
Dude that sounds pretty bad you are labeling yourself
>>16620540
I don't grip my dick hard
>>16620549
That's what every guy thinks, and then he comes here and makes a thread about how he's freaking out because he can't cum from sex.
>>16620555
Trips
If I loosen my grip any more, my hand won't be touching my dick
>>16620563
Then there's something seriously wrong with you if you can't cum from sex, be it physical or psychological.
Girls:
Anyone advice for a guy who is about to go on his first date tomorrow? I'm meeting her for coffee
I'm 20 and she's 19 if it matters
>>16620570
Relax. Don't pretend to be someone you're not.
>>16620568
Yay!
Girls
I'm a calm, friendly and very honest person. And I feel like this combined with the fact that I look young for my age (I'm 20 and I have a massive babyface like 18 at most and a pathetic excuse of a beard) puts me at a huge disadvantage towards women.
Some things to clear out: I know girls won't magically knock on my door and I have to be outoing and make a move and I do. I'm not a pussy, weenie or someone who gets picked on or shoved around I can fight back verbally and physically.
I'm just not a fucking poser, show off whatever. I feel like to so many women it's all about appearances. Nothing matters as long as you tell cool stories whether they be fake or not, be the loudest most "manliest" man and all that other macho crap.
I do have stories to tell. I've been travelling for almost a year now. I'm just a calm and relaxed person and don't devote myself to girls I like or find attractive. I know you have to give the other gender room to breathe.
I really feel like I just had very bad genetic luck. Pic unrelated
Girls, if you ever use public transit or walk down a street in the city alone, how do you deal with catcallers and people hitting on you?
What do you do if they don't get that you're not interested?
Girls
What's wrong with being a virgin? Answer truthfully please. I recently got laughed at by 2 different girls over this when hanging with a group of friends and it almost seems like they began treating me like a child for the rest of that night once they found out.
If I weren't getting my shit fucked by this ssri i might have felt something.
Girls are kinda insensitive when it comes to a guy and his sexual experience imo even my grandma is a dick about it
>>16620641
How old are you?
>>16620609
What is your question? If you know what the girl you like wants, and you arent that, then change to be more suitable to her or move on please. You're only hurting yourself and nobody cares about, or even notices, your swirling inner pain and longing and genuine care.
>>16620647
22
I didn't think it would matter at this age really.
>>16620641
Guy here. I feel your pain bro, I've been in the same situation. I would advise you to never tell people your a virgin. It stupid that you have to lie about it, but there is just too much social stigma. People automatically assume that there must be something wrong with you if you're a virgin. When in reality, most of the time the reason is just simply lack of opportunity or lack of effort. How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
>>16620656
Then you're meeting shitty girls.
>>16620516
I never said I thought someone should be interested in me just because I showed interest. I want to know what else does it take? What else do femanons look for or want? How can we catch your interest?
>>16620658
I'm 22
I fucking hate lying about topics like this though. It usually comes back to bite me in the dick if girls are around they start asking to many questions.
Its mostly just lack of effort. Sex doesn't look as great as people say and the sacrifices for it are just retarded so why is this so important
>>16620661
I've only met 1 non shitty girl and she was a depressed psycho
Girls aren't as nice once you get to know them from all of my experience
>>16620616
Head phones, walk determinedly like I have somewhere to be, keep my head up and look straight ahead. Make eye contact with no one.
From >>16620658 I see that you answered my question in the previous post that you're 22. I'm the same age and also a virgin. What do you feel your issue is? For me it's mostly social anxiety.
>>16620667
So basically you're asking what makes a girl interested in a guy. That could literally be anything and everything, girls don't all have the same preference and where we do all prefer something, those are traits you could think of yourself
>>16620681
>Girls aren't as nice once you get to know them from all of my experience
Not true at all. Like I said, you're meeting shitty girls. I don't deny that there are girls like the ones you described out there, but if you think that's what the majority of girls are like, you're mistaken
>>16620649
That's a very true statement I am hurting myself a lot. I do move on. But nothing ever changes. "Just be yourself and it will all work out for you" well it rarely has for me regarding women
Are there any actual femanons here? Bc this thread is entirely pointless when male anons keep responding to questions for femanons.
>>16620708
Male anon here. Agreed that "Just be yourself" is shit advice. You need to *improve* yourself. Become a better you. Work out. Cultivate some hobbies. Start a thread here about how else to improve yourself.
>>16620686
I see what relationships have done to everyone around me and I don't want the same so i decided not to waste the time.
After 5 years of solitude I developed some mild social anxiety and other problems but that doesn't stop me from making friends. It mostly effects me in big crowds
>>16620697
Well it's a good thing I didn't say all women now huh sport?
I don't go out of my way to meet women as I know a lot of them are useless. The ones that approach me are usually awesome people though.
>>16620716
Pretty much. All of the females reside on /soc/. They have these exact same "ask the opposite sex" threads too
Is fashion that important? For the most part I just wear jeans, blank tshirts, or Hawaiian tshirts. A friend said that style is working against me pretty hard.
>>16620757
I say it is.
You express yourself quite the bit trough your hair and clothing
I get a lot more attention when my afro is in shape and I'm wearing nice colored clothing.
>>16620757
>Hawaiian tshirts
I was okay with what you wear until you got to this part.
>>16620780
But I like the happy flowers
>>16620786
Well I don't know any girl who would date a guy who wears them
There's this girl I've been talking too for about a month and I like her a lot. We have a lot in common, but we're friends and idk if she's interested in a relationship or anything. I'm not terribly attractive but I have the confidence to be up front with her, but I just don't know if she's up to it. Any advice?
>>16618078
Horrible. I've even been yelled at for saying hi and asking why i didn't get an answer to it. I've aggressively been told to leave the table just for asking how some guys are and if they wanna join me and my grills.
Most times it just ends at me giving up because they don't even look at me and just say "yes", "uh huh" etc.
My male friends tell me it's because they sperg out because they're not used to really hot girls talking to them. I'm also tall and have a resting bitchface so that probably intimidates them too.
Whatever, i'm not gonna stop, someday i'll find a good bf.
>>16620880
I hear some guys are intimidated by height too. They don't deserve to breed. I say.
I love tall girls or talk people in general. They're fun and most of the ones I know have some kind of art history
Tall is life
>>16620893
>I hear some guys are intimidated by height too. They don't deserve to breed. I say.
Manlet brofist here!
170cm. Often dating women way taller than me.
>>16620871
You find out if she's up to it by asking her out.
>>16620757
Girls typically don't want to date guys that dress like their dad.
>>16620716
Yes, hi, hello.
>>16620641
>telling female friends you're a virgin
>>16620616
I don't mind getting catcalled. They always get that I'm not interested because I know how to say "no"
>>16620609
>>16620708
"Be yourself" means to not pretend to be something you're not. It doesn't mean you can't improve yourself.
>>16620570
Don't get a pussy drink.
>>16620506
>weep in happiness
That's faggy even for a woman.
>>16620908
I'm planning on going to an arcade with her but it's not a thing where I asked her out, it's just us hanging out. I want to do something then to let her know I like her but idk what or how
>>16620908
I don't tell people in a virgin they find out through loud mouth friends
One drunk friend let's someone know I'm a virgin and everyone starts questioning. The girls just go full retard and make everything awkward after
Can't tell anyone anything personal without them fucking with you about it these days
>>16620919
Ask her on a DATE. It's not that hard.
>>16620919
"Hey, [insert her name], let's go to the arcade together have some fun! [smile] "
>>16620893
>I hear some guys are intimidated by height too. They don't deserve to breed. I say.
Sometimes the former, the latter sounds too crazy to be true.
>They're fun and most of the ones I know have some kind of art history
I find this amusing, if just because I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum.
>>16620923
Probably shouldn't let people know sensitive information then. There's no problem with being a virgin as long as you don't have a complex. Those ssris are a problem though. Hope you're not drinking too.
>>16620936
We are already going to the arcade, so I can't really ask her. With that in mind, what can I do while we're there to get her the message
>>16620880
This is pretty much what men have to deal with all the time.
>>16620893
>I hear some guys are intimidated by height too.
This is definitely true.
Most men want their girl to be shorter than them just the same way most girls want a guy that's taller than them.
Obviously exceptions exist on both cases though.
>>16620961
>This is pretty much what men have to deal with all the time.
Different anon, but kind of a moot point to tell that to a girl that already makes the first move, no?
>>16620957
>With that in mind, what can I do while we're there to get her the message
Have fun together!
And then, when the opportunity pops up [it will], just say her what you want to say!
>>16620948
You're right
My fault for trying to be a bit more open with friends I guess.
The ssri's are great though anon. They take away the desire for sex or reduce it greatly at the very least. That's my favorite thing about them. I don't drink ever. It's disgusting and there's better ways to get high if I were trying.
>>16620988
Being open is not bad so long as your friends prove to be trustworthy.
Bigger concern is the problem you are using the ssri to treat.
>>16619461
Implying you're not sitting in your own office desk doing things that related to HR
Implying you didn't respond with emotions,but you did.
>>16621000
They're trustworthy. They might let the wrong people hear sensitive information some times though. >>16621000
I'm using the ssri to treat depression anxiety and possible add. The repressed sex drive just happen to be a bonus. It's a he'll of a lot easier to hold a conversation with a woman when you're not itching to pound her ass into a messy pulp
>>16618042
Women,
I have a large penis and get frequent boners. Like 6" flaccid and 8" erect.
When Im lounging around theres just no way of hiding it in a pair of gym shorts.
Or in clothing in general. The amount of shenanigans I go through to get it to tuck into my belt is ridiculous.
It gets even worse. Whenever Im wrestling and tickle fighting girls I know they can feel it. They never say anything but some stare. Especially if its random boner time.
Like unless Im 100% focused on dead kittens Ill get at least 1 boner per hour.
does this bother you. Should I warn you ahead of time or just ignore it.
>>16621035
I wouldn't exactly call that trustworthy.
That's more of a turn-off than virginity for most girls. By a huge margin.
Girls: I have an attractive face but am disgusted to find out my final height is 5'9'. Whenever I look in the mirror I think about how grotesquely short my legs are. I would honestly feel guilty dating another woman with my shit genes. Normally, i attract girls quite easily but this sort of dysmorphia i have leads me to become guilty when having being in a relationship.How much of a role does height actually play when comparing two men side by side in terms of attractiveness?
>>16621050
First of all, your question is answered in the OP. Secondly, your attitude about your height is much more of a turnoff than your height, which isn't a turnoff at all.
>>16621041
I would given the amount of years I've known them. Some times they can be a bit sketchy some times but they prove themselves others.
Do you have any 100% trust worthy friends anon? I don't think they're a thing really. One friend says you can be 99% with someone but you'll never give them the full 100
What's more of a turn off? The ssri?
>>16621067
Different anon, but the number of years you've known someone isn't necessarily indicative of how good of a friend they are. If they're going out of their way to put you in a position where you may be ridiculed, then they're not friends
>>16621039
I'm not into close body contact with friends, so I wouldn't be wrestling or tickle fighting with a guy that i don't want to sleep with, so a boner (especially a huge one) would be great.
Other girls are touchier with their friends, i really don't know what they would think. It can range from "ewww he got a boner so disgusting XDDD" to "whatever, guys get boners"
>>16621075
It's not but I've had a fuck ton of friends. These just happen to be the friends that stuck with me through shit times rather than forget me and move on.
With the virgin thing I remember now that I were used as an example of someone who's a virgin by choice and the girls just couldn't accept the thought of that so they made fun of me.
>>16621067
Not the anon you're asking, but all my friends are 100% trustworthy. In fact, i would never consider a person a friend if they weren't.
>>16621035
> They're trustworthy. They might let the wrong people hear sensitive information some times though.
That's literally not being trustworthy.
I think you hang out with the wrong people.
>>16621114
Meh
I rarely hang out with them anyway. I prefer to be alone as much as possible. I don't tell them super sensitive stuff just useless shit like sex or family issues. I'd probably swap them out for better friends. They're unproductive as fuck.
>>16621098
>whatever, guys get boners
I cannot imagine a single woman ever saying this
Also even if we werent touching would it bother you. like it takes a lot of effort to hide and when Im in gym shorts lounging around its near impossible. especially the boners but flaccid as well.
main problem with the boner is that when it goes soft it cant fall so it just looks like a smaller boner. BDPs I tell you
>>16621160
>I cannot imagine a single woman ever saying this
It is a pretty well known fact that guys do indeed get boners.
>>16620893
>I hear some guys are intimidated by height too. They don't deserve to breed. I say.
lmao sour grapes.
Is it bad if the guy you're in a relationship with has slept with over 100 people?
>>16621172
Yeah but the fact that guys get random boners is less common knowledge. furthermore the fact that a woman could just dismiss it seems unbelievable. Some women think the boner is because of them.
Who are Brandon, female Brandon and Frog, and why are they hated heer?
>>16621193
Hes a manwhore. Are you also a whore?
If not does being a whore go against your morals. If not theres not a problem.
>>16621193
Do you think that's bad?
I don't. Just doing what nature intended him to do. Live and let fuck anon
>>16621193
Maybe. Consider the reasons he did that.
>>16621193
Gonna need more details on his situation... like, is he rich/famous, or a college bro?
>>16621160
> I cannot imagine a single woman ever saying this
Underage detected.
No, it wouldn't bother me. If i didn't like the guy i'd ignore it, if i liked him i'd put it in my mouth (if we were in an appropriate situation)
That's how most adults deal with it.
>>16621139
> I don't tell them super sensitive stuff just useless shit like sex or family issues.
Sex and family issues aren't useless shit to most people, they are important and should only be shared with people you can trust.
>>16621193
Depends on why he did that, but it's not inherently bad.
>>16621242
Ahh well... I don't have sex and I try to avoid my family so there's not much of it I consider private or important enough to keep a secret
I feel like I should say sorry for my carefree attitude or ignorance? I wasn't raised to well I'm trying my best to rewire myself.
Thanks for talking with me anon(s)
is there any significance to ladies commenting on some change to your appearance? like say changing your facial hair or whatever
im going to say no but what do i know
>>16621313
Nope. Just an observance
>>16621225
>That's how most adults deal with it.
Why do people lie.
>>16621210
I've slept with around 10 people and have been sexually active for almost 8 years, but I've been in at least 15+ relationships, probably more.
>>16621211
I don't really think it's bad, I do think it's a little excessive given his age, and sometimes it grosses me out a bit though.
But oftentimes it's all I can think about. It drives me mad knowing SO MANY other people have already fucked him.
>>16621214
>>16621265
I'm pretty sure the main reason is his really shitty traumatic upbringing.
It just makes me feel so insecure about myself, and I already have massive self esteem issues. I tend to dwell on negative shit without even realising and ever since he told me his 'number' a few weeks ago, it's one of the main things I think about.
>>16621219
Not rich or famous, has studied at college in the past. Skater, really techy (built a computer last week, loves gaming and game dev). No job at the moment so no income, but he's had a fair few jobs in the past. He moved to the other side of the world at the end of November last year for 9 months and came home a few months ago.
We've always had a pretty intense on/off relationship ever since we 'officially' broke up in April last year after dating for nearly 6 months. We seem to be pretty stable at the moment and have been for a while which is a very very welcome change.
Is it normal for me to assume that his sexual history has played a big part in our relationship?
>>16619481
Idc personally.
There's a thread on /s/ dedicated to this from time to time, so i'd say it's the same as with most other features: some like it, some don't, while the majority doesn't care
>>16621450
/s/ was a forsaken shithole last time I was there
t. Pegasus
M here
I live near femanon and like femanon but I want to see if she wants to be in a benefit type relationship how should I ask her from a females perspective?
If a guy was to ask you If you wanted to be in benefit type thing such as (I like you to hang out with you and watch movies and eat pizza together and fuck but not be in a relationship) how would you see your self being asked and how would you respond?
>>16620908
>That's faggy even for a woman.
>What are weddings
>>16620757
>Hawaiian tshirts
ITS PAYNE! GET EM!
>>16621564
Thanks for the idea, my hair was falling out anyways
>>16621205
If you already have the answer to your question, then why ask it?
Some women realize that it doesn't take much to get a boner. Some don't. But the ones that understand are not rare. There are women that do understand dicks do whatever dicks wanna do sometimes, and anything from the wind to a tickle fight could make it pop up.
>>16621585
I ask because I only have evidence from specific cases unique to me and its not like I have direct conversations about it with more than a few. No where near enough to have an answer. More opinions the better.
Girls:
If I am trying to get you to fuck both me and my gf at the same time, how straight forward can I really be about it assuming I can already tell she's interested in me? Sometimes everything goes well, but the other girl seems intimidated by the fact that I have a gf already. Maybe it doesn't help that she's a little more shy and I tend to do most of the talking in those situations?
guys: when do you cut ties with a bootycall/hookup? a few months? a year? how long is too long?
and would there be a reason you'd keep it going for 2+ years?
