Any advice on telling a MtoF transgender to not see each other anymore?
I'm recently saddened by the fact that my crush already has a boyfriend. So since I had been addicted to watching trap or shemale porn I decided to date a MtoF transgender.
We just had our first meet last weekend and the thing is, she is not what I expected her to be. My issues...
>yeah she may look like a real female but I'm totally turned off by her kind of androgynous voice.
>she still has a d*ck and it's a massive turn off. I mean she told me that she'll have surgery soon and everything will be normal but I believe she will still take hormones.
>guy smell!!! Yeah she is taking female hormones but why does she still smell like one of my bros?
>clingy as fuck, she is texting me like almost every hour asking "what's up?" to "what don't you like about me? I can change for you :3" to "hey prince charming :)"
>make up, make up, make up. seriously why does she put on too much make up?
What should I do now /adv/? I mean I told her I'm not the guy she's looking for but she still insists that she likes me. She said she'll visit me at my work tomorrow and she can explain and I don't want that to happen.
I should have sticked with real women.
>>16617259
Transwomans Perspective here
First off its MtF no "O" its what is more common in the community and everything
otherwise here are the things, No person is entitled to need to like another person. People are entitled to preferences, just dont be a dick, which doesnt seem to be the case.
as for each one of your points,
>Voice can be worked on but it could also be that she fucked it up or is unwilling to work on it
>Surgery can turn out well but it takes minimum months of recovery time, As for when she is getting it depends on who she goes to and the process in the transtion, atleast 1 year full time woman, getting past waiting lists and 20k or so for the surgery itself
>Guy smell is weird, after a few months of whoremones smell would change, this might be a case of her not taking care of herself or her body not responding to the meds.
>Yeah they can tend to be clingy because they are even more insecure than most women for obvious reasons, they can also be distant because they will lose trust and be insecure. its kinda like teenage girls
>She is insecure about her face so she needs makeup, Also there is a heavy trend of transwomen feeling like they need to be the sterotype,
You should prob have stuck with ciswomen mostly because it seems like you have lots of problems with things that trans people can have which is a preference. There might be some people in the group that are fine but when you go trans you got to know these things CAN come with them, Maybe you are just not right for each other because of what you consider priorities, and that makes you not right for each other
>>16617259
>What should I do now /adv/?
Watch this video...you're welcome.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nqcgUDoV_M
>>16617361
>just dont be a dick, which doesnt seem to be the case.
You're Pathetic.
He's got this trap harassing him and threatening to show up at his work and you're calling HIM a dick?
>>16617361
I already told her we should stop seeing each other and she won't listen. I already have decided I won't date transwomen.
>>16617454
You have a point there.
:^) If she comes to your work, ignore or pretend not to know her.
I do this to clings all the time (including a mtf in the past). It's pretty funny, she'll have a spazz and be all fucky about it but eventually piss off.
You already rejected her, if she won't accept that it's your problem, not hers.
If you want, mention to your coworkers there's some weird stalker whose threatening to harass you at work and ask to kick her out if she comes. Depending on your work atmosphere, make it out to be some embarrassing/funny story. Like, 'my friend set me up on a blind date with this person, did not want, they will not leave me alone now' etc.
Play the victim.
>>16617527
It's her problem, not yours*
>Has a dick
>She
He is just a boy with tits dear faggot op
