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Hi I'm back cause I made a thread a few days ago.

I found out my girlfriend (in her 30s) has fucked one other guy in her life (around age 31, a few years ago), while she was in a relationship with him for a year. I realize this is basically nothing and the problem here is with ME, not her, but I can't get the image of some guy fucking my girl out of my head. I'm not sure what to do.

How can I stop imagining that this happened?
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>>16616315
Your gf had one other guy before you? Consider yourself fortunate.
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>>16616315
You are a shit-tier troll.
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>>16616315

>L D R

>L D R

>L D R
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My girlfriend was a former slut I think. Deal with it, faggot.
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>>16616346
Yeah it's because it's LDR, temporarily.

>>16616338
I'm not trolling.

>>16616329
I don't know why I just imagine her fucking her and her having so much pleasure from it, I don't know why. I'm fucked up i realize.

I've had 13 partners before. Plenty were one night stands, a few were prostitutes, some were relationships. I don't know why I feel this way though.
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Does anybody know what I'm talking about at all?

This uneasy feeling in my stomach when I picture it, kind of a very angry feeling?
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>>16616500
You literally have to just get over it.

It doesn't matter and it will ruin all your relationships and drive you crazy if you let it.
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>>16616531
Any specific steps on doing that "getting over it" part?

I read online somewhere that they call what I'm experiencing "retroactive jealousy" or something like that and apparently it's not too uncommon.
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