is it actually better not to give that much of a fuck about what your s.o. does/says? Is that why all my fuckbuddies/unserious gfs all swooned over me and my serious relationships all turn to shit? Could that be possible?
>>16615462
It's good to listen and care sometimes anon. Being a dickwad can only get you so far.
>>16615471
what if when you listen and care, it turns out they're kind of a jerk (if you're paying close attention) and your reaction sours an otherwise good relationship?
Is this a more specific reason as to why women like what you'd generally consider douchey alpha behavior?
One party not quite caring about the relationship means the relationship doesn't devolve into a constant battle for hierarchy?