>>16613570
Also I should mention that I'm not opposed to sex stuff, that's just not my main priority. Also worth noting that I've been texting the woman from Tinder over the past few minutes trying to setup a lunchdate or something and she just texted me "I wish I could be alone with you".

Anything?

I think there are websites for this. Websites like seeking arrangements and what not.
You could also try okcupid for older ladies.
Good luck anon!

>>16613570
>Male escorting is perfectly fine and the women who use it don't get shamed
>Female escorting is stigmatized and the men who use them are considered losers
Fuck this world, seriously. When can it get nuked into oblivion?

>>16614376
>>Male escorting is perfectly fine and the women who use it don't get shamed
At some point you're going to realize that you make all this shit up, just because you want an excuse to feel upset

You're basically a SJW

>>16613570
Have a big dick and be better 99% of men at sex. It's a lot more work than people think and it's very unlikely you'll be able to compete with talent in your area. You have to be amazing at sex or no woman is going to pay you.

>>16614398
He isn't wrong though. Nobody gives a shit about male prostitution. It's mainly because society sees women as weak. They think arresting female protesters and throwing them in jail is helping them while I hardly ever hear of male escorts getting arrested. Not only that but the ammount of shit female escorts get is crazy. Instead of being dumb sluts who fuck drunks in bars for free female prostitutes are capitalists who make a good money yet are still seen as criminals.

I think escorts should be praised for being smarter than your average retarded slut.

>>16614398
>SJW
Yeah man I just want to be able to hire a whore without being excommunicated by society and thrown in jail. But women can do it without worry that's cool.

>>16614425
I don't think you've really kept up with how society views prostitution

The Chief Justice of the SCC completely slammed the anti-prostitution provisions a few years ago
https://scc-csc.lexum.com/scc-csc/scc-csc/en/item/13389/index.do

Even the regressive party in Canada admitted that arresting prostitutes is contrary to any sort of remedial intention.

>>16614458
You've invented a delusional fantasy world where women hire male prostitutes all the time and nobody gives a fuck.

You lack any sort of self-awareness. You just wallow in self-pity and your faggy little persecution complex.

>>16614461
In good ol America prostitution is still very much stigmatized. You have to go to Nevada to find legal brothels and those are expensive as fuck. If you don't go that route you have to risk hiring escorts who could be cops or you could get assaulted and robbed by a fake escorts thugs. God bless the USA!

>>16614469
>implying they don't
>implying you would ever know if they did because literally nobody fucking cares if women see prostitutes
Keep calling me names, friend. It's OK.

>>16614474
so do your due diligence? You've got the internet at your fingertips. Get on forums, look at reviews and make an informed choice.

Internet prostitution brings a whole new level of safety, transparency and discreteness to the profession. If you're picking up random skags off the street then you deserve to get fucked up.

>>16614479
>implying they don't
Look, you're still doing it.

Why would a woman need a male prostitute at all it they can just walk into any bar, pick up a dude and get fucked? Your ideologies are self-contradictory.

The only thing I can think of is contacting others doing it and see what they do. I have a hard time believing this is even possible.

I don't think there's as much of a market for this as for the female counterpart. And even for a woman it is not easy to get into. You need to be socially smooth, friendly and quick on your feet, and look good enough to make your client look great. And then they expect that you can hold down a conversation about just about anything that's on their mind.
That is, if you really want to cash in on it and not just have a gig twice a year or something.

I think even just finding a big enough market among women would be difficult. It's not as socially known/common yet, there's probably more hesitation that they would feel sad paying for company or would look pathetic bringing some kind of toyboy. Women tend to get less jobs that require a lot of business travel.
I think if anything you'd need to market yourself differently than a traditional female escort. Like a spoiling day where you go on an elaborate dinner date, have drinks, massage her properly afterwards then have sex. I think something like that would be way more profitable if anything.

>>16614458
I'd be totally ashamed as a woman if I ever had to hire a male prostitute or a non-sexual escort. What hat are you pulling this shit out of?

>>16614461
I agree that people are becoming more open minded towards it but it's far from being legal and people lives are still being ruined over it. It's ridiculous that a guy and woman can both be thrown in prison because he offered her money for sex and she agreed.

To add onto your point I think female prostitutes is more common so women are targeted more by the law but still. Just seems fucked to me. I worked in a strip club where a lot of the dancers escorted and most of them and their male clients were good people yet I know multiple people who are in prison after the police shut them down.

I just think people looking at prostitution as bad is weird and I'm not even the type of guy who would hire a prostitute. Some women make a living fucking and some dudes gotta pay for sex, why does the law pick on them while man whores get tv shows and shit? I never call put sexism but that's what it is. Tricks and Johns aren't hurting anyone.

>>16614513
Yeah, I think escorting is probably harder than people give it credit for. As far as males go most woman can find a casual hook-up with a guy that is good-looking and charming and all that for free, even if they are older.

>>16614537
Yes. You have to truly exceptional to have women pay you for sex. 99% of men couldn't be male prostitutes.

>>16614400
I have the first one covered, second one... maybe. I haven't been with too many girls but according to them I'm pretty damn great.

As far as not being able to compete, AFAIK I live in an area where female escorting is rare and male escorting doesn't really exist. Closest place where that's a more popular thing is about an hour and a half away.
I've heard women express interest though, so I wanna try to get into it.

>>16614531
>Tricks and Johns aren't hurting anyone.
Except when they're predators
And in that case, they're actually empowered by stringent prostitution laws, which isolate sex workers and force them out of any policed areas.

>>16614489
Because they want a man who they know is amazing looking, has a big dick, and has stamina. You can't guarantee those things with a random dude at a bar and if you're a woman even considering hiring a male prostitute you probably can't pull men with those qualities in the first place.

Also, just look around this thread. Hardly anyone has vilified OP for wanting to become a prostitute yet in the countless other prostitution/escort threads both parties get shit on for even considering it.

>>16614537
>>16614549
I agree, but I think it's easy to underestimate that that sex isn't always as fulfilling to them. I think for a typical older woman with erotic desire, her main fantasy would be to have someone kind of reignite her flame, make her feel like a sexy woman, touch her all over and take their time figuring out a good rhythm between them.
For men with one night stands, there is usually so much pressure on the build up and being able to pick her up and make her want sex, that it's kind of "over" when they go have it and they just want to have enough foreplay to get her wet and then pound. Maybe this is different for older men, but it is at least a very real risk. I have read an interview with a male whore once who had (albeit fewer - that's the main thing, if you have pretty looks and are willing to go for men as well, then you're in) female clients as well. He said it was not about fucking a demi-god or whatever, but knowing for certain that they would get out of the experience what they want. That they can look forward to a treat they give themselves being certain that they'll enjoy the shit out of it. And not be disappointed because the guy is too quick, too rough, can't get it up, acts like an ass afterwards etc. It's about a certain experience more than about getting laid.

>>16614574
But it's wrong for a man to hire a woman to have sex with him and make him feel like he's desirable? Do you see the double standard?

OP here.
>>16614562 is also me.
Still looking for advice... sorry I didn't know making this thread was gonna be like opening a can of worms.

>>16614571
Yeah, you make a good point. There was a woman who posted about being an extra, no sex acts, in a porno and she was getting a lot of shit, like she'd be undateable piece of shit.

>>16614595
You're barking up the wrong tree, I have no qualms with hookers as long as they're not there by force. I'm Dutch for fuck's sake.

>>16614620
because its actually a believable scenario?

I'm more amused by the fact that OP thinks he can become a male excort and not end up taking it up the butt.

>>16614571
>Hardly anyone has vilified OP for wanting to become a prostitute
4chan holds a misogynistic double standard? tell me more

>>16614642
>Misogynistic double standard
>Shits on men who use prostitutes as hard if not harder than the prostitutes
>Shits on men
>Men
Try again, friend.

>>16614637
Yeah, now that I think about it I bet googling 'male escorts' most will be gay.

>>16614647
I don't agree with the judgment for it but it's not all that surprising. Men are shamed for doing things you could see as not being sexually succesful, like owning a fleshlight, being a virgin or paying for sex. Women are shamed for doing things that are blatantly sexual - having multiple partners, having sex for the sake of lust alone, selling their body. Depending on the crowd you run in some of these can be more or less pronounced but it's a consistent pattern kind of.

>>16614564
Completely agree with you. Hopefully people get their heads out of their asses about this one day.

>>16614562
Give it a shot then bro. You'll never know unless you try. Would you go gay for the right ammount of money. I can see that gay community dropping tons of money on male escorts. Check out back pages and put up an ad to see what happens. Maybe you'll become a legend in the prostitute world one day bro. Never know if you don't try.

>>16614626
>I'm Dutch ffs

This shit made me laugh.

>>16614661
Yeah it can go both ways. A virgin girl is sweet and innocent. A guy with a lot of partners is a stud.

This is getting sidetracked, but it is telling, when a woman is debating it a few escorts or formers jump in, no males did here.

>>16614693
...telling of that it is less common for men to be an escort or a prostitute aimed at women? Because with that I agree, but I'm confused if that was what you were implying.

>>16614647
>A female poster suggests that she wants to be an escort. Gets called a whore, slut, nobody will ever want to be with her.

>A male poster suggests that he wants to be an escort. Nobody cares.

Women must be behind this.

>>16614671
For the right amount of money and the right person. I suppose I'm technically pan, but I'm pretty picky. I suppose I shouldn't have used the word escort when making this thread, I'm looking to be more of a professional plus-one or dinner date sort of thing, but maybe have a little fun while I'm at it. Women in the area have expressed interest to me in the past, I'm just not sure how to really get started with it all now.

>>16614702
Just that it's so much less common, likely due to demand.

>>16614712
Don't delude yourself into thinking someone is going to pay serious cash for just having a plus one. Scratch that, there's probably -someone-, but not the sort of amount that you'd need to set up an actual thing and not just be that cunt who says, okay, I'll have lunch with you, but compensate me for going through it.

Even for fucking on camera or being an escort as a woman, competition is very real. Even if you are willing to have sex with people, you could not afford to be picky OR expect insane amounts of cash for it. Some local guy where I live is openly a hooker (though he's gay and services men) and he talked about landing around a hundred bucks for sex. Cute guy as well.

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>>16614737
>Cute guy as well.
Added pic for reference.

>>16614489
Are you fucking kidding me dude? I'm in an open relationship and I RARELY go pick up guys from bars. Way too many things to consider when doing that.

>Is this guy safe and not going to rape/kill me
>Does he look like a drug addict that might have diseases
>Is he one of those guys that's going to push fir unsafe sex and potentially ruin the evening because of it
>Is he chill, or is he going to keep hitting me up and bugging me even though I made it clear I only want a one night stand
>Is he going to bragg about me to all his friends around town and start rumours that I'm some whore

It's really not as easy as everyone thinks. I can get a date quite easily, yes, but I don't want a date. And I don't want to be seen as some easy slut that everyone can have a taste of. I enjoy sex, and I honestly wish brothels were more common and SAFE because I would absolutely love to work in one.

>>16614762
Yeah, I can totally see what you are saying. A lot of guys can turn on you in an instant. Just curious do you use craigslist instead?

>>16614809
No no, I just be friendly with guys that look sane and healthy, and if they?show interest in having sex, I explain what kind of relationship I'm in. If they want to do anything after that, great! If not, well then it's no big deal.

>>16614751
looks like a derp and a half

>>16613570
Not sure where you can put up ads and stuff. You may want to consider making some male pro friends who can help you with that. It'll probably vary by locality anyway.

If you are in a large city, near a richer area, you may actually have some luck. There's a good demand for very good looking, very socially apt guys who essentially 'sugar' for older, rich women. The catch for this setup is they usually want to go out in public with you (i.e. go on a date, go shopping, etc) so it can be really awkward if someone from work sees you. They will expect you to smother them in affection (including out in public), bring them presents, flowers, etc, tell them they are beautiful or that you love them. If you can't stomach that, don't bother.

Idk why everyone is making such a big deal out of sex in this thread. Your target market is going to be old women who want a sugar baby. Unless you come across a sex fiend, they're just going to want a visually attractive guy with a visually attractive dick who does mostly foreplay and cuddles with them and tells them they are beautiful.

If you actually wanted to get into prostitution, most of the money out there would be gay guys, so I'd stick to sugaring for women if I were you.

Also, I don't know what your current job is, but please do not try to escort for your customers there, even if they drop hints or even straight up ask you out. You need to keep your escorting life and professional life completely separate, otherwise you can really ruin your career.

>>16614369
This is actually a pretty good idea. You could try to use dating sites to sniff out rich ladies who wouldn't mind a 'relationship' for pay setup.

>>16614888
Thanks for the advice!
As far as dating sites go, SeekingArrangements was my first choice but it's pretty much dead in my area, and okcupid is pretty popular but not with my target audience. Looking around for other sites atm.

Been texting Tinder Woman and we're meeting up for drinks in half an hour. Any last minute tips?