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I'm starting to think I'm turning into a misogynist,
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I'm starting to think I'm turning into a misogynist, I don't think I have always been like this deep down.
I'm starting to think it's because I haven't had anything to do with girls this past year, not just sex, but just general socialising and mingling. I'm just starting to resent women.
What's your opinion adv? I don't wanna be that guy who girls can't stand.
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>>16613289
It's possible, but if you're aware of it, you can fight it, so that's actually a promising sign.

Tell us more. What happened this year in particular?
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>>16613289

I think the media represents women and men really badly. The people I meet in reality are rarely a stereotype. Hang in there, anon. If you can't make - /pol might be a good home.
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>>16613289
>be a terrible person
>get called out for being a shitty parent
>misogyny sexist pig

idiot
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>>16613323
I broke up with my ex earlier this year, tired of the lies and cheating, same thing happened to my friend. Now when I think of females I feel like their agendas are all the same at the end of the day, and they will fuck you over some way or other. Keeping my eye out for a decent chick at the moment but no luck so far.
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>>16613323
Maybe I'm just sulking over the past but I don't have the same respect or trust towards women since.
That's why I don't really engage in socialising anymore, just can't be bothered
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I'm of the opinion that the easiest cure against actual real misogyny, is to have capable and competent female friends.

It's easy to let dislike build up when you don't know a woman that you can respect very well. Knowing some competent women in my engineering course did more to curb my negative feelings than anything else.
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I feel you, OP.

>>16613374
Yeah, this is a good point. Being surrounded by good women is extremely important. I didn't have this growing up, and as a result my view on women was and still is warped. I think this is how most misogynists develop. I grew up with an emotionally cold and narcissistic mom and sisters, and the girl friends I had were never genuine and all of them had betrayed me. As a result, I feel a lot of resentment towards women, and I'm always on guard around them. But, I'm also a straight woman.

At times I feel full-on misogynistic, but I wish I wasn't this way. I wish I could have a normal group of female friends but it won't ever happen. It's not due to any sort of jealousy or "hurrrrr women are so catty and full of drama" either.

Despite this, I still think there are good women out there, but they're so few and far between.
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>>16613374

I used to think that. But then when you become good friends with a few women you start to see the "Women logic" come out

Im not a mysoginist, I just understand that women and men are different creatures and have different ways of thinking and processing thoughts

Just like men being prone to self destructive, selfish behaviour, women have a tendency to make bad decisions and be irrational because of being led by their emotions and shit

Obviously everyones different, but there is an overarching pattern. Both women and men have faults that tend to be associated with their gender
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