I (18 m) was on a trip to NY by myself last week and lost my virginity to an escort because I just wanted to have some fun and get my virginity out of the way. But now I left NY and suddenly lost all desire for other girls and all I want is to chat and kiss that escort again. I still have her phone number but I know I won't be going back to NY for a very long time.
What should I do, anno? Should I try forgetting her? Text her and tell her what I feel? It's really bothering me right now.
Gotta move on bro. She doesn't give a fuck about you.
>he thought losing his virginity to a hooker was a good idea
>>16612961
Stop. You're hung up on her because she was your first. You need to banish these feelings immediately. She doesn't care about you other than for your wallet. He job is to fuck dudes and you're just another customer to her. Please, the the sake of your sanity go find a girl who likes you.
>>16612961
I really shouldn't be laughing at this
>>16612961
>Text her and tell her what I feel?
Please. Please contact her with your feels. Post screencaps.
Only good things can come out of this.
This is why it is a really stupid idea to fuck an escort. Especially to loose your virginity.
No, anon, you DON'T text her! She's a hooker. She couldn't care less about you and your feels. The two of you made a deal and that's it. Now, try again, but with a girl that actually cares about you. And NEVER mention to any girl that you had sex for money. That's atrocious.
>>16613005
Why is it atrocious? Have you considered that one is paying for the quality of the girl not necessarily for the act itself? I could never ever pull an attractive woman but I could pull fat and ugly girls. I want to fuck hot chicks too but if that opportunity will never be available why can't I pay a banging hot escort or prostitute to fuck me?
>>16613014
Not the same guy. But you do you man, I'd probably get a hooker if she was hot, I didn't have to wear a condom, and I was sure I wouldn't get arrested. However there's a few problems with that. Mainly that any hooker that'd let me fuck without a rubber, I'd get some nasty shit from. Personally though I wouldn't have lost my virginity to a hooker, but I totally would fuck one. Probably will eventually.
>>16613014
Because as you are experiencing atm, sex isn't only about fucking a banging hot body. It's a whole lot more to it. And if you fuck a hooker, you basically start numbing yourself. And you start to take shortcuts to not improve yourself. If you want a high value girl, you got to be a high value man first. Going for the ones that have the looks and pay them with money is just unimaginably sad.
You feel like you can't get with the girls you lust after? Then you aren't ready to have sex. Period. Improve yourself until you find a girl that feels like she must be fucking lucky to be with you. And - most important - YOU have to feel like you just hit the jackpot too. Everything else is not worth your time anon
have you motherfuckers never heard of 'Leaving Las Vegas'??
Do only nerds post here?
wow..
She most def doesn't even remember you, Opsey.
>>16612961
>falling in love with an escort
TOP FUCKING KEK
I'm adding that one to the /adv/ meme collection
>>16613022
I've read a lot of bullshit on 4chan but this post is so full of shit that it's impressive. Bravo, sir. Bravo.
>>16612961
I really don't get the whole getting hung up on your first thing. The girl I lost my virginity to was an ordinary girl and here you are hung up over a literal whore. I am glad to have had that experience, but she was no different than any of the girls I slept with afterwards. She wasn't special.
>>16612968
>>he thought losing his virginity to a hooker was a good idea
why not?
>>16612961
Hookers make you feel good for pay. She doesn't remember you. She doesn't want a relationship with you, because if she remembers you she knows how she met you.
What you do is to save up some money, and get 3-4 other hookers. Have fun and get it out of your system.
Also, try to get a relationship to some other women. You are just being hung up over a chick. We all do it sometimes, but you got to get over it unless you hae the money to be a sugar daddy.
>>16612961
>Paying someone to sleep with you.
>Losing your virginity.
Unless your dick has a hymen, go ahead and pick one, bud.
>>16612961
>>16612969
THIS!
what did the mexican do with his first 50 cent piece?
he married her!
can't fall in love with your first bang. ESPECIALLY if it was a whore.
/thread
>>16613344
>>16612961
>Should I try forgetting her?
Yes. Move on. Plenty of fish in the sea and all that.
>>16614371
>why not?
exactly because of your OP
also have fun having the experience of fucking a hooker casting a shadow over the rest of your life and preventing you from ever having a truly honest loving relationship with a woman
>>16612961
>>16612969
^
They do what escorts do you do what you do pay for that escort it's just "business" I don't mean to emphasize on this and crush your love/desire towards her but if your asking advice for weather or not to go chase for her... my answer is no in the long run you found her because you wanted sex she found you because of that what else is there to say? your barking up the wrong tree buddy you need to move on, wouldn't you have felt the same if you actually had lost your virginity with a girl you actually "liked" in the first place?.
>>16613529
The truth hit a little too close to home, eh?
>>16615017
>exactly because of your OP
Some confused kid who got his first taste of pussy and just needs to wrap his head around it? Yeah, dont think so.
>also have fun having the experience of fucking a hooker casting a shadow over the rest of your life and preventing you from ever having a truly honest loving relationship with a woman
How? Does it cast a shadow over the rest of a girls life if she hooks up with some local cunthunter on a vacation trip to barbados?
>>16615051
Holy shit this thread is still here? No dude. We all can't be high quality men that attractive women want to sleep with. Thankfully guys like me can get good jobs, make money, and pay attractive women to have sex with us!
>>16612961
Breh I know exactly your feel.
Go bang another escort ASAP. You'll then get over it. You absolutely must do this or you'll get oneitis.
I had oneitis for my gf a few months ago and banged an escort to get over it. You have to have sex with someone else to get over it before this oneitis fully develops.
Don't be that guy who falls in love with an escort. Don't be that lame man.
To all of you, I am OP (not sure how to prove it but I am). I posted this last night and did not expect this post to last this long. But I just read all the responses and gotta say, some of you are right. I was being dumb to hang on to my imagination that she likes me or even remember me at all. I just spent today hanging out with my friends. We had so much fun that I almost forgot about what happened in New York and the escort. I just deleted all her contact. To be honest, I really feel like I made this post and asked you guys for advice just because I forgot to remind myself that I have friends and family that love me. I guess I should just enjoy my life and try to improve myself until I find a girl that actually likes me (I mean there were girls who implied they like me before, but unfortunately I wasn't attracted to most of them. And for the ones that I was attracted to I didn't have the guts to ask them out. But I guess I need to start toughening myself up if I actually want pussy)
>>16615017
>also have fun having the experience of fucking a hooker casting a shadow over the rest of your life and preventing you from ever having a truly honest loving relationship with a woman
This is bullshit. My first time was with a hooker too, and this never stopped me from having loving relationships.
The first time you have sex, your brain gets dosed with a bunch of feel-good attachment juices. The idea is your first time is going to result in babbies and you want to stick with that person. Give it time and the feelings should fade enough for you to move on.
