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2015-12-28 03:48:02 Post No. 16611699
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2015-12-28 03:48:02
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I can't build myself a circle of friends for the life of me. I either be myself, which is lame and unattractive, or I try to put on the act, which I'm bad at. In both cases I just come across weird and hard to talk to. On top of that, I work 6 days a week, with my day-off on a Tuesday, and it seems like if I'm not there to meet people 3 or more times a week, they forget about me and it becomes hard to even be remembered enough to have a facebook event invite thrown my direction.
On top of that, I have very low self esteem (kissless virgin, for one thing) so I'm not the life of the party, or at all assertive - like I don't force myself onto people until they like me.
The end goal for me is to just get into a meaningful relationship at some point in my life, and the problem with that is that it doesn't make me WANT to have friends. Having to make friends is a total chore, and being bad at it is making it even worse.
Any advice appreciated. I'm at wit's end, sometimes. Loneliness, feelings of inadequacy, etc. etc.