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Hi people, need some advice. I feel pretty shallow right now,
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Hi people, need some advice.

I feel pretty shallow right now, I only have school, a part time job and a Swedish course I'm taking and my PC. I get caught in a cycle with girls as well. I meet a girl, get to know them and then ask them if they like me or not, 6-grade style. Dates are useless imo. You know if you like someone or not very quickly. It mostly (never ended up otherwise) ends with "Oh I really appreciate your courage bla bla.. But we're still friends right?"

Then they proceed to cut me off completely even though I know we could still be friends. The last girl this happened with was literally all kinds of perfect for me but whatever. Takes a while but I brush it off after a while.

Currently crushing on a girl again and just want it to succeed for once (or at least increase chances). Don't want anything intimate just someone I can buy and hold close, listen to.. et cetera.

I'm not the ugliest guy (certainly not the hottest tho) and 6'3". No teeth cavities or odors or whatever you can imagine. I'm just shallow as fuck.

Yes, I'm 16 but I'm not asking for "THAT HOT GIRL I SAW FOR LITERALLY 3 MINUTES TOTAL SHWHDOAMC HORMONES", just someone I can talk and listen to and feel appreciated by.

Thanks for any advice :)

Feels like fucking Yahoo answers posting here for the first time haha
>inb4 "boo hoo go whine somewhere else kid"
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Dates aren't useless. You're not that special, there's a reason that pretty much everyone does things a certain way. Stop being so blunt and start actually trying to show them a good time
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If you are shallow, you could at least be fun. You sound like a drag.
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"buy and hold close" = "talk to and hold close"..
Dunno what happened there
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OP here
Thanks for your constructive answers. Actually makes me think about how I act. I'll.. try..? showing my fun side. I do love a proper laugh. I should laugh more in everyday life anyway. Then I'll probs ask her out. Thanks again for giving actual answers I can ponder to.
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