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2015-12-27 23:12:14 Post No. 16610538
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2015-12-27 23:12:14
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I've survived a lot of bad stuff from women. I just don't know how to talk about it with other men or anyone. Counsellors just want me to leave all this stuff in the past and focus on the positives and changing my life around, which I've been doing. But essentially woman have ruined my life and financially ruined me due to false allegations. Except these women weren't third wave feminists or social justice warriors.
It's so awkward, shameful, and embarrassing to even talk about being falsely accused of things, and I hate that I even feel that way. It's shocking. People wonder if you actually did it.
Anytime someone inspires me, I write way more words than I want, and then I end up deleting what I wrote.
Being silent isn't the answer. But nor is raging out at women or feminists just because of the triggering things I read. It really makes me angry to read about how men are suffering the same way I have, who will never get justice, who are alone, who will never get reparations, and being told they somehow deserve it because they're men, or white, or they're oppressors.
I've already turned my life around, I already got hobbies. I already have coping mechanisms for stress and all that.
I've already done counselling and taken workshops.
I'm still angry and I want to be able to reach out to others going through what I'm going through.
It's not clear to me what a victimized man should do other than "be the better man, bury it in the past, move on with your life".
I don't know what to do. I'm lost.
