>being with Gf for about 4y
>awesome relationship, no way i'm leaving her
>she being extra-anxious about not getting pregnant (i agree with her)
>she being extra-anxious about taking pill because of hypothetical casualties
>she got many tests (including DNA) to identify real risks and apparently she has V Leiden factor mutation
I hate having sex with a condom, especially because it is only to prevent pregnancy.
I hate the idea of having sex with a fucking condom for the rest of my life and being allo web to barefuck her only when agreeing to have children.
What do?
Get over it OR get a vasectomy. Talk to the doctor about the possibility of having it reversed later, idk.
>>16609076
Really?
Getting over not enjoing the most beautiful experience a man could actually experience is a big deal...
What if vasectomy is not reversible?
Porn has given us so much but sometimes demands something back
>>16609047
Get bigger condoms. Odds are your dick is getting choked by the standard ones. You don't need a monster dong for magnums.
>V Leiden factor mutation
>clotting during pregnancy or with estrogen
GF needs a non-hormonal copper IUD (paragard)
That's what I have had, since August '14, its lovely I'm barely aware of it
>>16609195
The issue is that i hate the fact I cannot be "animal-like" during sex; e.g. i'd like to start an intercourse while innocently spooning, without waiting while hard to put the condom on.
I know it's a very childish desire but idk
You should be happy op. A common side effect of the pill is a decrease in sex drive.
>>16609076
Why should he have a vasectomy. How bout she gets her tubes tied if they're 100% positive they don't want kids. Vasectomys are harder to reverse than you think but there are a lot more options out there than just condoms. Though I do agree with you on getting over it. I made it clear to my gf that if we're fucking I'm using a condom, and spermicide regardless if she's on the pill
>>16609496
We do want to have kids but defenitely not now and at least for about 5/10y more
>>16609496
You can't just get your tubes tied as a woman. They just plain won't do it until you're like past 35 or have a shit ton of brats. It's easier for a man to get snipped and they can get it younger.
Also OP is a retarded whiner, suck it up or enjoy your baby
She should get an iud or an implant. Everything else is ridiculous if you are in a ltr. Especially using condoms. Wtf
>>16609551
I am, I know and you got the point
>>16609562
This is also another nice comment; what are the possibile controindications of an iud/implant?
>hypocondriac gf