Any premature ejaculators here?
I am 19 and have been having this problem since summer. I do not know what the fuck caused it. I was able to control my cum before but not anymore. My gf is a year now likes to get pounded doggy style but I just cum in like a minute.
I've tried kegels, masturbating more often or before sex, and all that crappie.
Can this be cured?
I'm uncut, I can pull my foreskin all the way back.
It's probably psychological. I've found that this happens to me sometimes if there's something important that I need to do, and I'm procrastinating. It's like, my mind won't allow me to fully enjoy sex if I don't "deserve" it.
Is there something else in your life, weighing on your mind or stressing you out, that started around the same time as your sexual problem?
>>16608397
Uhm yeah. For awhile. Not anymore. I just want to please my girl like I used to
>>16608387
Just fuck her multiple times in a row.
You would have to get a feeling for the moment right before the point of no return. If you reach it, you stop and relax a bit till you can go again
>>16608387
http://www.everydayhealth.com/sexual-health/dr-laura-berman-tips-to-help-stop-premature-ejaculation.aspx
>>16609776
Done tha
t>>16609785
I have been edging since I discovered porn. Never had a problem until 6 months ago.
Bump
Any meds I can take? I know zoloft is popular for this but I need a prescription
Wait wait, so you can't even edge nowadays?
Deep breathing during sexual activity.
Think about a beautiful landscape while plowing your gf.
Go slower. If you feel yourself getting close to climax, just stimulate her without your penis.
In how many time is it considered premature ejaculation?
If I masturbate really hard I can't hold 2 minutes. But I can edge for hours. So is this premature or what?
>>16610447
I have tried everything like everything I could find on leddit,here and other forums
Deep breathing, fapping, squeezing, kegels ect. I've been doing kegels for my entire life cause I always used to play with my dick and I would play a game of stopping my pissed since I was like 10. They don't work anymore though.
Masturbate and death grip the fuck out of yourself, maybe?
The more you think about "omg I'm going to cum" the more likely it's going to happen. A lot of problems, ED, PE, etc are psychological in nature. Try changing your mindset, on top of deep breathing and distracting yourself.
>>16608387
for me it was getting caught up in performing and being good enough for my now ex gf. What set me straight was reminding me of myself that I wanted to do it, that I wanted to fuck her and that I felt safe with her.
I repeated "I want this, I have nothing to be afraid of, it's just my gf, I feel safe" over and over in my head and just like that I could go back to doing our regular lengths again
gl with your gf dude, hope you stay happy
>>16610606
Uhm I guess it could be psychological? When we were hooking up she told me about being with this dude who she said he was the best she had because he was rough af and could last for a long ass time. I am really rough with her and she loves it. But I can't last as long anymore. When we first had sex she was amazed at how good I was because I was rough and lasted like an hour but now I can seek she's dissatisfied when we fuck because if I get too rough I end up Cumming too fast
My boyfriend has this problem, but what helped was for him to go much much much slower. Decrease the stimulation, go slower, take your time, and it will take longer to cum. If not maybe just blow your load right before sex so you last longer. I don't mean hours before, I mean go from cumming from a blowjob straight to sex if that's possible for you. That also helped my bf. Another tactic would be to force yourself to edge, but since you said you feel as if you have little control I don't know if that would even be of any help. Good luck OP, sorry if my advice doesn't help, I know that situation sucks and I hope you find ways to remedy it
I've found that stopping thinking about sex at all helps.
Like, just put it to the back of your mind, dont masturbate as often, stay away from porn/sexting your gf, stuff like that. It winds you up sexually and just subconciously makes you want nothing more than to cum as soon as you can.
>>16611086
Bro I've done that. I tried doing math problems in my head while going at it and it just doesn't work
Go for a reload or just keep going to see if more comes out
Super bump
In the same boat man, 19, very inconsistent with how long i can last. Becoming much more of an issue lately. Monitoring.
>>16613416
You always had this problem?
>>16608387
Jerk off in the morning or a few hours before you fuck. If I feel the sensation of an orgasm building that's when I tell her to switch positions and that usually cools me off.
>>16613800
Tried that didn't work
