This is more of a sex question than anything, can a male explain as to why it's such a turn on to put fingers inside their girl's mouth?
My boyfriend stuck his fingers in my mouth when we were masturbating laying next to each other and like, instantly came all over us when I started softly licking and sucking on them
I'd be interested to understand the turn on too
>>16605485
It's only a turn on in most cases if they suck on it provocatively or something, and the same goes for eating bananas and other suggestive actions. It's the implication that your partner wants you that's sexy, unless a guy has a hand fetish. In that case I'd be more worried that you're dating Kira Yoshikage.
because it's reminiscent of sex
fingers = penis
mouth = vagina
Because it reminds them of blowjobs. Don't even need to be male to understand this.
>>16605487
>>16605485
Ive put a lot of thought into this in the past, and heres my best explanation;
Have you ever felt your tongue? its very soft feeling.
To women, there are certain parts on your body which are "erogenous zones" if you will, men have them too, but for men there are certain "erogenous actions", things which act similarly to erogenous zones, only instead of a passive "receiving" act, it is the opposite.
A person putting their fingers in your mouth is something that is often not likely to happen during a normal day, (unless you visit the dentist), this sort of personal contact shows intimacy, because it is an act that is rarely done, you are allowing him to do it, which in itself can be very arousing to some men. This same type of thing can be applied to most sexual questions "why does he always want me to rub his dick on my face" " why does he insist on ejaculating on me" etc. These might be "gross" but they are actions which show that you are comfortable with him doing what he likes or enjoys which increases the feeling of intimacy that ultimately makes men more aroused.
Lots of women mistakenly identify these actions as dominating, or aggressive, sometimes they are, but if your S.O actually cares about you, these things have more to do with intimate contact than they do about domination or demeaning the partner.
Most men will have difficulty explaining it, because thought on it barely goes past "I dont know, i just like it" but this is the most accurate description I can prove to you.
I hope it helps.
>>16605585
To elaborate, I know its sounds ridiculous that him sticking his fingers in your mouth during sex actually has significant meaning, but this is mostly subconscious signals that you are accepting of him, allowing him to open up and be free with his desire for you, and his desire so happens to tactile-y explore you which makes him probably 10 times more horny, in its base form these actions are mostly related to trust, you should be worried if hes too afraid to be himself in the bedroom, honestly because that shows lack of trust, and lack of intimacy with you. Feeling, for men, is just as enjoyable as being felt for women in some cases.
Im by no means saying you should allow him to do whatever he likes or do things that make you uncomfortable, im merely shedding some light on why he would find feeling your mouth or whatever else to be erotic.
>>16605599
Second poster here, thanks for your well thought out response
That gives me a lot to ponder on, thoroughly enjoy e reading your thoughts on it
Sounds pretty accurate and understandable to me
Lovely
:)
Its cause he is copying hardcore gonzo porn, where porn actors stick their fingers in the porn stars mouth while they are fucking. There isn't much turn on for a guy to have his fingers sucked. its more so like hes trying to fish hook you.
people are reading to much into this. in this day and age guys are just copying whats done in hardcore porn and thinking its normal. if you enjoy it as well so be it and keep doing it, if it apparently turns him on and your fine with sucking his fingers keep doing it.
but a guy would rather his dick sucked than his fingers just saying.
>>16605585
Men have erogenous zones as well, and women actions that they found arousing.
>>16605487
It's because the fingers are sensitive and you moving your tongue etc agains them is very much reminiscent of a blowjob. Added dominant associations optional.
>>16605787
My sweetheart 95lb gf with 1 prior partner is Way more hard core than most gonzo porn, and me.
Your projecting
