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How to maintain a relationship (be it a friendship or a romantic
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How to maintain a relationship (be it a friendship or a romantic relationship) with someone you have nothing in common with, and have nothing to talk about with?
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Pretty impossible. Why would you want to instead of finding somome compatible?
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Adapt and nurture similar interests, or don't do it at all. Make an effort to learn more about what they like, and encourage them to do the same. If neither of you are willing to actually work with the other, your relationship is pointless and you're just using each other for cheap sex.
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>How to maintain a relationship (be it a friendship or a romantic relationship) with someone you have nothing in common with, and have nothing to talk about with?
As someone that married their best friend, I don't see how it's possible to keep it going long-term (or why you would want to).
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>>16605083
You don't
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You can eat together and ask each other how your day went.
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Are you basically asking how to coexist with normies?

>keep up with popular sports. You don't have to actually watch any games, but the ESPN app will give you sentence-long highlights that will help you hold your own in any sports-related conversation.
>keep up with local news. Again, you don't have to actually watch the news, just skim over a news app in the mornings. If some psycho in your city murders his family it's great conversation fuel.
>ask a lot of questions. Normies will gush about their lives for hours. "How was your Christmas?" "Was there any family drama this year?" "What did you get/give?"
>if the person you're talking to is super basic, just ask their opinion on whatever flavor-of-the-month celebrity is catching shit on tv. Ask if they think Bruce Jenner should have gotten Time's "Woman of the Year" award.
>NEVER reveal your power level to a normie. Even if they have an Xbone, they probably only play cawadooty and/or Madden. If you start talking about Ultimate Panty Quest VII: Hurt Feelings Edition, you're gonna sound like a faggot

These are only baseline tips to carry you through polite conversation with coworkers or whatever. You shouldn't date anyone you can't converse with organically.
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