Alright guys, I'm new to 4chan. I really need help with something. I just recently got with a cute girl named Gwynyvyr. She's very geeky and nice, and extremely sweet, loves coffee, etc etc. She's a super virgin. I say "super virgin" because she's never done anything sexual with another person and she's 19. I'm 20 and I have sex with multiple girls (not bragging). I have only taken one girls virginity so i know to be gentle, but this girl masturbated frequently and stretched her hymen so it wasn't that big of a deal for her. Gwyn is very different. She doesn't masturbate at all. She says she thinks it's gross to touch herself (weird I know), however is willing for me to touch her. We watch porn and stuff, you know to give her ideas and to wetten her up. I try to finger her when it is extremely wet but she always cringes in pain, saying that my finger is too big. (my fingers aren't big at all) I only successfully fingered her once and never ever even made to finger penetration after. How do I deal with this? I offered oral but she seems uneasy about the idea. She'll give me oral just fine but does not want to receive. What should I do? Should I buy lube so it won't hurt her as much? Should I buy toys? I don't know what to do please help me.
We can't help you if your girlfriend is imaginary
>>16604909
Sorry but unlike you, I have a real gf
>>16604918
Prove she's real. And I don't even want a girlfriend.
>>16604930
Sorry but I'm not gonna post a pic of her online to 4chan. Much less to "prove something" to your scummy ass. The only who don't want gfs are the one's that can't get them.
>>16604909
We can't help you if you're jealous, anon
>>16604950
I don't want a girlfriend because I'm a straight girl, you fuckwit. You know, like your imaginary girlfriend?
>>16604900
never happened
>>16605036
>never happened
Maybe not to you, cuz you know..
you're lonely
>>16604900
Stop bothering with non-existant vaginal orgasms and go with clitplay and nippleplay.
The meat cavern is more for your pleasure than for hers, good foreplay and spooning afterwards is where it's at.
>>16604900
>gwynyvyr
she must have been raised by her dad. her mother must have beat her head on a keyboard til she died to come up with a name that retarded
>>16604900
>she thinks it's gross to touch herself
Wow, I'm not the only one? I'm a straight, unreligious guy and whenever I tell people I don't masturbate because I don't need a nasty habit they think I'm weird or lying, or even try to convince me to do so by telling me it's healthy and natural. Yeah, whatever. I just pretend I do now.
>>16605116
thank you based anon
any tips?
>>16604900
Turn her on emotionally instead of physically. I know all abt these kind of girls. They nee emotional substance. Give it to her and watch the amazing happen.
>>16605134
Do you just have wet dreams, then, or have you been getting laid regularly since you were 12? Masturbation serves a different purpose for men than it does for women, you're constantly producing sperm and it needs to come out somehow
>>16604900
>Gwynivir
Is she a secret Dark Souls boss or something?
Pics or your a lying faggots, also what a bizarre fucking name
>>16605035
Tits of gtfo no one believes you
>>16604900
That's the worst superpower to have
>things that didn't happen
Back to Anor Londo faget
>I just recently got with a cute girl named Gwynyvyr.
why was it necessary to tell us her name again
Offer to give her a massage.
The best massage oils IMO are grapeseed oil and coconut oil, they care also edible and can be used as lube. Grapeseed oil is the GOAT lube.
>>16604900
>stretched her hymen
what?
>>16605035
TITS OR GET THE FUCK RIGHT OFF
>>16605516
Ikr, especially because it's such a spastic name
I've never done anything sexual with another person and I'm 24.
Also a man. Also never kissed anyone.
Fuck
Well, if you're in the US, we know where to find her mother and slap her for giving such a retarded name.
>>16605605
I'm a girl in the same situation and if I ever do sexual things with anyone I'd prefer another virgin so I don't mess up in front of someone who knows what I'm supposed to do.
>>16604900
>she thinks it's gross to touch herself (weird I know)
you really don't know at all, or else you would not be trying to fuck this girl. she'll never enjoy it as much as a normal person, it's a huge waste of time.
>>16605116
pretty much this.
It would also help a lot if she tried to masturbate and finger herself. It would help with the pain - which tends to be worsened by anxiety.
So if a girl masturbates she isn't a super virgin? I was a pretty big virgin, maybe not super but I got into it by kissing cuddling grinding having his leg between mine. He kiss me all over and moving to my vagina was just next level. He also made it clear he was very willing to wait till marriage, and in fact encouraged it. I never felt pushed at all. He was a virgin too and I love growing together. She might need a virgin guy there are more at 19 then you think. But if you really really love her and want to be with her forever then show patience and build things up. If she feels the same she'll work too.
>>16605721
SHE DOESN'T LIKE TO MAKEOUT
>>16605268
>Pics or you're a lying faggot
What is this 2011?
Fine. Here's a picture. I think she's at a wedding or something.
why the fuck do people wait till marriage to have sex? why the hell are there people that are okay with that?
>>16605035
>fuckwit
your attitude is as disgusting as your vocabulary.
>>16606106
Please just help me fuck her. Pleeeease, bros. I'm gonna help you when you get into this situation one day, so help me for now.
>>16606120
Please stop posting :(
>>16606104
>>16606120
1. You're a lowlife scumbag for posting her face on the internet, and she deserves better.
2. Google vaginismus, sounds like a mild case. Ask her if she can use tampons. If she says no, vaginismus pretty much confirmed. You can train it away.
>>16606140
What the fuck? I didn't post this.
She's not even blonde. The girl's hot, but not my girlfriend.
>>16606153
Either take your trip off or don't make it sound like she is in fact your girl.
>>16604900
Lol really?
That chick that shaved her head in highschool? Man, Brandon's a weird place.
>>16606140
GUYS THAT IS NOT ME SOMEONE IS POSING AS ME
THAT IS NOT MY GF
SOME FAGGOT IS MAKING ME SEEM LIKE A DOUCHE
>>16606160
No, it really is me!
I'M THE REAL DANK, YOU FAGGOT! SHOOT HIM, NOT ME!
>>16606168
>>16606160
>>16606168
I'M THE DANKEST OF DANK CHEFS
>>16606183
>hot girlfriend
Top lelkek
Kiss her passionately and sit her in your lap so she hugs you with her legs, that will surely turn her on
>>16604900
I never masturbated and sex went just fine for me.
A) Use lots of foreplay or B) lube if it's an issue.
>>16605549
That's actually what's supposed to happen. Tearing the hymen is not normal and means you fucked up.
>>16606106
The research is still out in whether waiting until the actual marriage matters, but most agree that having only one partner for life and waiting a long time to get sexual leads to the most relationship success. So that's why I'm guessing.
ok OP I'm gonna try to help and not say she's immaginary because most people here just try to block the thought of the possibility because they're all faggots etc whatever.
>"never underestimate the power of SLOW, BUIDLING UP."
>"Kiss her passionately and sit her in your lap so she hugs you with her legs, that will surely turn her on"
keep your hand between her thighs, and REALY slowly move toward her pussy. In my experience and through female friends I learned that after a while, a girl WANTS you to move on, and if you don't fuck up and go to fast, she'll get fucking horny as fuck. I've had experience with it once, it was amazing, but I diddn't réally like the girl honoustly.
now I get that your girl is indeed a super virgin. but you can get her out of that. but man you have to be patient.
hope it helps OPnon
Serriously How do you pronounce Gwynyvyr
No wonder no ones touched her with a name like that, is this the secret to keeping your daughter away from guys, give her a shitty name
>>16606880
I'm pretty sure it's a strange spelling of Gwenevere. Hopefully she just goes by Gwyn.
>>16604900
a) have lube at hand
b) stretch her through fingering, work in two fingers and start to slowly push them apart. I
t's going to hurt a bit but if you do it slowly enough it's bearable and there's no tearing. Listen to what she says and have breaks from the stretching when she says stop. You don't need to attempt penetration on the first time if she's very tight, even after several hours. Discuss this in advance to make sure you're completely fine with just focusing on working on her for the first time and she doesn't stress about thinking you're going to try penetration soon or are getting impatient etc.
Also tell her to constantly give you feedback on how she's feeling when stretching, and obviously be CAREFUL and advance SLOW, don't force it. Just apply stretching pressure according to what she says she can take, and if she says she needs a break pull out the fingers and just cuddle and do some petting or spend the time trying to teach her how to give good head or handjobs.
Remain cheerful so she doesn't feel bad about being such a turbovirgin. Eventually it'll be ok. When you actually do have sex don't stop or get pouty if she's very nervous and just lies there like a dead fish, unable to get "into the mood" due to fearing the pain. Just do your thing so it's done and she can relax. She'll start to get more enthusiastic once she won't stress about the unknown any more.
>>16607059
Also what the other good anons in this thread have said about foreplay and getting her turned on. Combine all the info and you should be ok
>>16606153
>>16606160
Dude he had your official 4chan account name. It was obviously you. As someone who's been on this social network since the m00ts, I can see with the utmost certainty that now you are trolling or "shitposting"
You are an official faggot. A newfag to be exact.
>>16606303
Gywny Lofton? Oh my god.
I know who you are, man. She's pretty chill.
>>16607150
post Facebook or die a faggot
>>16607284
>He posted the full name
>>>Google.com
>>16604900
Op, i have exactly the same problem. the only difference is i have extreme patience.
my gf is 24, im 25, we have been 4,5 years together and we havent had sex yet.
she is starting to feel the pressure now. we have spoken a many times about this, i told her to go to a psychologist, she admits she has a problem but she is doing nothing to fix it.
ill keep waiting, i dont know what else.
